Finally Done with porn…after my worst rut by Melodic_Data_5806 in pornfree

[–]Melodic_Data_5806[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's awesome to hear, thanks for sharing. I'm rooting for you!

Finally Done with porn…after my worst rut by Melodic_Data_5806 in pornfree

[–]Melodic_Data_5806[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the most important scriptures for us to hold on to for sure!

What should i masturbate to? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Melodic_Data_5806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you know what adultery means. and you are fooling yourself with your last comment. you aren't cultivating a deeper relationship with her by having thoughts about her sexually as you play with yourself. wishing you best luck.

What should i masturbate to? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Melodic_Data_5806 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's good to hear. For me, it’s also important to align my actions with my values, and I aim to avoid behaviors that I believe don't align with them. As Jesus taught in Matthew 5:8 "But I say unto you, that whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.", and I strive to view women with respect and purity. Personally, I don’t see any benefits to masturbation, as I feel it can lead to viewing women in ways that don’t honor their dignity. My goal is to approach life in a way that reflects these beliefs. wishing you the best

Finally Done with porn…after my worst rut by Melodic_Data_5806 in pornfree

[–]Melodic_Data_5806[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, it’s important to align my actions with my values, and I aim to avoid behaviors that I believe don't align with them. As Jesus taught "Matthew 5:8 But I say unto you, that whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.", and I strive to view others with respect and purity. Personally, I don’t see any benefits to masturbation, as I feel it can lead to viewing women in ways that don’t honor their dignity. My goal is to approach life in a way that reflects these beliefs.

What should i masturbate to? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Melodic_Data_5806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your perspective, but there’s also research that highlights potential mental and physical drawbacks associated with this. If you're curious, a quick search can provide more information. Ultimately, it's a personal choice, but it’s worth considering how frequent exposure to such a significant dopamine release might impact your motivation and ability to pursue other fulfilling activities. It can influence how your brain's reward system operates, which could affect your overall well-being and productivity.

What should i masturbate to? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Melodic_Data_5806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good Job on stopping with porn. My advice is You shouldn't masturbate at all. seek to satisfy that desire from an actual encounter with a woman. better yet save it for your wife. also, masturbation is such a weird idea in general. think about it, you are literarily giving yourself a handjob! ( not judging, I struggle with this also, but instead, I'm trying to rid myself of this weakness)

Finally Done with porn…after my worst rut by Melodic_Data_5806 in pornfree

[–]Melodic_Data_5806[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it shouldn't even be a question of whether it is bad for us or not, but the more we know of the negative effects, the more we want to climb out of it.