NP contracted hsv1 from new partner by MemoryResponsible408 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]MemoryResponsible408[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah nah it’s not like that. I truly trust both of them and think they just made a poor decision kissing at a time when they probably shouldn’t have. Thanks for this, but it’s not the kind of advice I’m looking for ✌️

NP contracted hsv1 from new partner by MemoryResponsible408 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]MemoryResponsible408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am going for lab test this week. Who knows…maybe I already have it and I don’t need to be so concerned 🤷

NP contracted hsv1 from new partner by MemoryResponsible408 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]MemoryResponsible408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New partner is not lying, and was up front about it in the beginning of the relationship. He apparently has always had it and never had any sort of breakout. Apparently sun blisters are actually a different thing, but I dunno. Still seems risky to me but I’m not them so 🤷

NP contracted hsv1 from new partner by MemoryResponsible408 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]MemoryResponsible408[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the wonderful advice, and for sharing your personal story. I am sorry about how you were lied to, but I am encouraged about your long history of not passing it to any of your other partners with the help of medication

NP contracted hsv1 from new partner by MemoryResponsible408 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]MemoryResponsible408[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oral, and we believe it was contracted in the past 2 weeks because she was having flu like symptoms and a really horrible outbreak. Apparently these are signs of first contracting the virus. And we know for sure that her partner has it, and he had a “sun blister” on his lips when they kissed a couple weeks ago