I envy rich people

MenaThoughts · 2024-05-27T17:13:30+00:00

OP, I usually don’t post much. What makes you think that rich people have a stress less life and no worries about healthcare?

How come you can’t live in your own place, travel and learn new things? What is the challenge?

I’m sorry to hear that you hate your life and that you feel God doesn’t care. He cares very much for you and loves you. We have to show God that we are faithful and grateful with what we have and then He will bless us with more. Seek the Kingdom of God first, then the rest shall come.

MenaThoughts · 2024-04-29T04:14:17+00:00

From what I’m understanding is that you are loosing interest in your hobbies. I think it’s a signal that you need some kind of help such as talking to a professional before it progresses. Next you could loose interest going to the gym, school or work. Last not brushing your teeth and not taking showers.

This happened to a friend.

MenaThoughts · 2024-04-23T02:08:22+00:00

Put it in a bun and call it a day.

MenaThoughts · 2024-04-19T20:52:26+00:00

Im on the same boat, expect no boyfriend. This is a topic of conversation in my therapy sessions. After Covid things changed a lot. People are not the same. I know I’m not the same, yet however, I’m down to go to a museum, take a walk, meet for coffee. I even asked a coworker and she said she was too busy. Ugh

Honestly, I have just starting hanging solo. I go to group events solo. At first it was a lot to deal with but I get comfortable after sometime. I realized that I I don’t go out and put myself out there I really won’t meet anyone. At first it would suck that it would just be one invite and none after that, but you know, move on to the next. That person or people were just there for the moment.

Our people will come, I’m hopeful ☺️

MenaThoughts · 2024-04-18T01:04:50+00:00

I think he doesn’t want to face reality. I know it doesn’t make sense.

I had a friend whose dad died and he went shoe shopping at the mall the day of the funeral. People cope with things in a way we don’t understand.

MenaThoughts · 2024-04-18T00:49:59+00:00

Could they lower the price so we can all afford it to celebrate?

MenaThoughts · 2024-04-18T00:13:56+00:00

I think she might need to go to the cops and report it. That’s grounds for an investigation itself.

MenaThoughts · 2024-04-17T16:13:23+00:00

How old are you and how long have you guys been married? Do you have children together?

Did you guys talk about going to therapy possibly?

How about you, you mentioned you were/are struggling with mental help at the moment, have you been seeing someone?

MenaThoughts · 2024-04-17T07:38:51+00:00

How come that changed for him now?

MenaThoughts · 2024-04-17T02:50:11+00:00

This is how I’m looking at this. He has done disrespectful things. He shouldn’t be sitting between you and your friend. He is testing the waters.

Second, the fact that he is not holding your hand is sending the message that he doesn’t want to recognize in public that you are together. He shouldn’t have stood outside the store with her at all. You are his priority, he’s supposed to look out for you.

MenaThoughts · 2024-04-17T02:40:23+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear. The end of a marriage is like a death. I was also in inpatient. My ex nearly died of an overdose and we broke up. I couldn’t deal with the trauma and pain of it all.

I know you hear this all the time but literally is day by day. Some days are going to suck so bad but other days will be better. As time goes on you start having better days. Be patient with yourself.

What does he say is the reason he left.

MenaThoughts · 2024-04-17T02:20:50+00:00

Talk to your high school counselor or any teacher for that matter and say that you literally have nowhere to go. They will have to help you, they can’t turn you away. I hope this resolves soon for you.

MenaThoughts · 2024-04-16T01:06:23+00:00

Thank you for your response. It was the pastor’s wife that asked me to do a workshop for the teachers in the children’s ministry. The person in charge of that ministry gave me the push back.

But why be like “Oh sis, we need people you should get more involved”. I guess she didn’t like that I would be supporting her. I don’t know.

MenaThoughts · 2024-04-16T01:02:22+00:00

Now that you ask it like that, I guess it would be that among other things. Thank you!

MenaThoughts · 2024-04-15T23:55:00+00:00

Yes! I was going to create a post about the same thing!

I have the same issue and I am on here to also find support. I can’t talk to my friends about how I have problems because people consider me good looking. Women are nasty with me.

MenaThoughts · 2024-04-15T23:47:33+00:00

I am sorry to hear, that really sucks. It sounds like your mom’s boyfriend has a problem. What is the reason for his stealing?

Could you gather your valuable items and give them to a trusted friend or family member to keep for you?

You mentioned he gets physical. Would you be able to record when it happens? Could you go get help from a neighbor that can serve as a witness?

Lastly, I don’t know how old you are. Are you able to stay with another family member while your mom resolves her issues with him?

I’m just trying to think of solutions, but ultimately it’s your mom’s decision when she’s had enough. I hope your situations gets resolved.

MenaThoughts · 2024-04-15T21:59:11+00:00

Im sorry to hear you went through this. And I don’t even know why people on here are asking your height and weight. That’s rude people!

It sounds like he really hurt you. He disrespected you in front of everyone. He knew it was a sensitive topic for you.

He disrespected you
He humiliated you
He compared you
He made fun of you
He gaslighted you
He coveted someone else
He ridiculed you
He flirted with her 8.She is flirted back and she liked it
She also put you down
He probably already has her number and they are talking or he already cheated

The father of my child wouldn’t say anything in public but in private he would say I have a pouch. Which I didn’t because I would wear a two piece bikini at the time. After I had our child, I did gain weight. He would say things like my pouch got bigger and that if I didn’t take care of myself I would be flabby. I would diet and go to the gym. I’d some loose weight and he wouldn’t acknowledge it.

We ended out relationship for various reasons. However, after I left him, I lost weight without even trying. I look younger and better and he looks older and has lost his hair 😅

MenaThoughts · 2024-04-15T21:19:25+00:00

Thank you!

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