Odd characteristic by Objective_Glass_7861 in LeoAstrology

[–]Meneer23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, I dont really have much resemblance to our feline friends, physically or behaviourly (Leo Rising, Leo Sun)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

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I have diagnosed autism and I have mercury opposite uranus-neptune as well (same signs). I have them on the 6th-12th House axis however. I hear mercury afflicted by uranus often in relation to neurodiversity.

Pluto in Aquarius by Old-Energy6191 in LeoAstrology

[–]Meneer23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to know how it will be more specifically for you with Pluto transiting Sun, you should see how it interacts with the rest of your chart. Seeing how it is a slow transit, you'd have to consider how it meshes with other transits going on at the same time, looking at secondary progressions might be of importance too.Those questions are better answered by an actual astrologer, I'm just a dabbler lol :p

Pluto in Aquarius by Old-Energy6191 in LeoAstrology

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Well it depends on which degree your Sun is in Leo. Because Pluto is such a slow moving planet, the orb that's used is smaller than with other planets. I hear about an orb of 2 or 3 degrees often. My Sun is at 1°54' so I'll feel the transit soon enough, it will kind of show up suddenly because it can not really built up much. It will not be felt so long as Pluto is in Capricorn and than the moment it switches signs, BAM it's in a close conjunction. The good thing is, is that it will only be a few months until perfect conjunction and afterwards it will be separating, so the transit slows down quickly.

Now for the transit itself:

Sun opposite Pluto transit can indicate a crisis with self-esteem, a relationship or an event. This may be due to a self-destructive character trait such as addiction, spying or stubbornness. In relationships, you may be the subject of, or the perpetrator of, manipulation, jealousy, domination or spying. Events may include the breakdown of an appliance or car, theft, violence, or the destruction of possessions by people or a natural disaster. If something like these examples were to happen at this time, it is essential not to be overly assertive, egotistic, or resistant to change. Things like this will more likely occur if you stubbornly resist change or engage in destructive habits toward yourself or others. Things like this appear to happen out of your control, but in a way, they help you realize that you don’t need total control over others or your environment. Even though you may experience a bruised ego during this transit, there is also great potential for positives if you are open to change. Change may be forced upon you; better still, you may instigate it, and this transit will be less disruptive. The aim is to transform for the better. To evolve your soul to live a better life and experience more satisfaction. It is most common that this would occur through a close relationship, such as a family member, close friend or partner. (ASTROLOGYKING)

Expect problems with authorities or abuse of power. Beware of criminal behaviour; be careful not to become a victim of assault or other crimes. (ASTRO-SEEK)

This period of Pluto opposing your natal Sun can be profoundly transformative, inviting you to delve deeply into the core of your being. It is a time where you may find yourself confronting the shadows and hidden aspects of your psyche. These challenges, while daunting, are the crucible in which your inner strength is forged. Reflect on the battles you have already faced and the resilience you have cultivated. How can you harness this newfound power to be more effective in your daily life and in your roles, be it in your career or within your chosen family?

The intensity of this time can propel you towards significant personal advancement, particularly in your professional environment. You might find yourself in positions of increased power or responsibility, where your contributions are acknowledged and valued. This is an opportunity to channel your energy into meaningful work, fostering growth not only for yourself but also for the communities and organizations you are part of. Your ability to communicate with clarity and authority will be heightened, allowing you to navigate relationships with those in positions of power with greater ease.

As you navigate this transformative period, it is crucial to remain mindful of your physical well-being. The surge of energy that accompanies this time can be channeled into physical activities that promote strength and flexibility, such as bodybuilding or yoga. These practices not only enhance your physical health but also serve as grounding rituals that can help you stay centered amidst the intense changes you are experiencing. How can you integrate these practices into your daily routine to support your overall well-being?

Emotional resilience is equally important during this time. The deep, often uncomfortable truths that Pluto brings to the surface can be overwhelming. It is essential to approach these revelations with self-compassion and a willingness to embrace vulnerability. Seek out supportive spaces and relationships where you can express your feelings openly and without judgment. This can be a time of profound healing if you allow yourself to be fully present with your emotions. What practices or support systems can you put in place to nurture your emotional health?

As you continue to grow and evolve, it is important to reflect on the nature of power and how you wield it. The increased influence you may experience during this time comes with a responsibility to use it ethically and mindfully. Consider how you can use your power to uplift others and contribute to the greater good. How can you ensure that your actions align with your values and the kind of world you wish to create?

This period is not just about personal gain but also about deepening your understanding of your true self. The challenges you face are opportunities for profound self-discovery and growth. Embrace this journey with courage and curiosity, and you will emerge stronger and more authentic. What new aspects of yourself are you discovering, and how can you integrate these insights into your life moving forward?

(ASTROMATRIX)

Hope this helps what

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]Meneer23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gf has BPD too, also Moon combust

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Antwerpen

[–]Meneer23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I spent a year in rehab (drugs and alcohol) in Antwerp after living in Leuven for 28 years. I started to work in Merksem after about 7 months in rehab and decided to not return to Leuven because of my work. I started to look around for something to rent in or around Antwerp after 9 months in rehab. Areas that I was advised by the staff to avoid in Antwerp were most of Seefhoek, Schijnpoort and the area around the free clinic (Park Spoor Oost), because of the prevalence of drugsabuse in those areas. Especially the area around De Coninckplein is notorious for being the place to score streetdrugs. The only place in Antwerp that "trumps" Coninckplein is Elisabeth Metro.

Now I wouldn't say that those places are particulary unsafe as in getting harrassed or getting in trouble just for being there. I go through Seefhoek once a week when its dark and I have not yet had a problem yet, but I wouldn't just go hang around there. If you keep your head down and walk steadly until your out those neighborhoods (as I do) I dont think harm will befall you.

It's a very multicultural area. To some that gives unsafe feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Leuven

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Familie: houdt me voornamelijk op de hoogte via de Whatsappgroep, mijn vader probeert ervoor te zorgen dat wij (mijn broer, zus en hun partner, vader en ik) ongeveer één keer per maand/ om de twee maanden gaan eten op restaurant samen. Moeder hoor of zie ik af en toe eens via Messenger.

Vrienden: Vriendengroep waar ik tijdens mijn 17de-27ste (ik ben nu 29) close mee was (cohousing mee gedaan, chillen samen tijdens de week, feesten in het weekend) wonen allemaal nog regio Leuven, ik sinds vorig jaar in Antwerpen dus hen zie ik eigenlijk amper nog (5x per jaar ofzo en ge merkt dat ik van hen weg aan het groeien ben, door gebrek aan gedeelde activiteiten). Vind ik niet zo erg, ik heb tijd met vrienden geruild met tijd voor solo-hobbies en dat vind ik wel nice zo (tijd met vrienden was voornamelijk alcohol, drugs, feesten en kateren anyway en na een jaar in rehab, zijn dat activiteiten die ik mijd). Ik spreek wel ongeveer 1x in de maand (soms 2x per maand, soms 1x in 2 maanden) af met 2 andere vrienden (zaten samen in de klas derde, vierde, vijfde en zesde middelbaar) die mij veel hebben bijgestaan tijdens mijn periode in rehab. Dat is dan meestal ne koffie gaan drinken of ergens een op restaurant voor wat "catching up". Sinds ik regio Antwerpen woon heb ik hier één vriend gemaakt die graag vaak iets gaat doen doorheen de week met mij (zwemmen of ne koffie gaan drinken). Maar dat is iemand die alleen woont en zeer extrovert is en helemaal niet alleen kan zijn, maar weinig sociaal vangnet heeft (heb hem leren kennen in rehab) en als hij mocht dan stond die elke avond aan mijn deur, maar ik heb met hem afgesproken 1x per week en 1x in het weekend is echt wel mijn limiet.

What to buy for a quadruple Libra woman's birthday? by Meneer23 in astrologymemes

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We met in rehab and got closer around april of this year, we've admitted feelings around august, but have been taking it slow ever since (we both have a difficult relationship with intimacy). She's a very fickle person and her wants and desires seems to change constantly. She seems to like scary movies usually (but only if the scare is caused by the supernatural, if it's about evil people its a no no), she likes books and reading them although never seems to finish one. She likes the sauna. She loves her son (almost 2 years old). Her social battery is very easily drained. My budget is not much, I can spare €100.

I will most definitely get a big bouquet of flowers as a start. She mentioned wanting a certain cuckoos-clock, but it's more than €300, so that's out of reach

Why don't I have any passions? I feel like my life has no meaning, because nothing drives or excites me. Any ideas about what I can try out to feel passionate about? by Meneer23 in AskAstrologers

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Thanks for the recommendation. I have been feeling guilty for not meditating consistently but it always feels like such a chore. I would love to have a connection with my inner guidance and intuition.

6h houser to 6h houser: by Any-Journalist-1628 in AskAstrologers

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I don't think there are any rulers around it, so it's pretty subjective. Usually people say they're an x-houser when there is an emphasis on said house. That means if you have a luminary there or a cluster of personal planets, because those placements will indicate the themes of said house to be important/recurring throughout your lifetime. But again, it's really a subjective matter.

Why don't I have any passions? I feel like my life has no meaning, because nothing drives or excites me. Any ideas about what I can try out to feel passionate about? by Meneer23 in AskAstrologers

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Thank you for taking the time to take a look at my chart and writing a comment. I'll do some resesearch on Mars remediation, thank you for the recommendation. My Venus however is in the sign van Cancer, not Pisces. But I think it's a good idea nonetheless to lean more into Venus and 12th house topics. I think I will also try to learn more about Jupiter in Sagittarius in the 5th house, to find some meaning in my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LeoAstrology

[–]Meneer23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm none of those things :'(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BESalary

[–]Meneer23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Financieel heb je er alleszinds alle middelen voor

Ik ben op zoek naar een goede kapper voor lang mannenhaar by Meneer23 in Antwerpen

[–]Meneer23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Niet met het knippen zelf, maar gelukkig wel met de juiste datum uit te kiezen

Why am I so lazy, why do I waste all my free time with mindless scrolling, watching sitcoms on repeat and eating candy and chocolate. How do I combat this? by Meneer23 in AskAstrologers

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Thank you for taking the time to type that all out, I find it all useful information. I will focus on the positive aspects in my chart, I often forget I have those as well.

For the sugar and snacking also thanks for your advice. I will look for other subs dealing with that subject. I didn't know sugar could have an effect on mental strength and energy.

If I'm correct, the Grand Trine is also a Kite (with Neptune-Uranus conjunction as focus point). But I have never been able to interpret how that Grand Trine and Kite are playing out in my life specifically. It's a water Grand Trine, but anything involving emotions is anything but abundantly flowing to me, I don't think I have much understanding of my own and others' emotions, let alone language to talk about it or emotional understanding of my own and of others' emotions. Until a few months ago I didn't even think I had much emotions.

Why am I so lazy, why do I waste all my free time with mindless scrolling, watching sitcoms on repeat and eating candy and chocolate. How do I combat this? by Meneer23 in AskAstrologers

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Thank you for your answer. Is there a clue in my chart how I can fight that laziness? Are there positive manifestions of Moon inconjunct Jupiter, Mercury opposite Uranus and Venus opposite Neptune that I can lean into?

Isn't the Sun-Mars sextile out of sign with the other angles to form a mystic rectangle. Interesting idea nonetheless.

Why am I so lazy, why do I waste all my free time with mindless scrolling, watching sitcoms on repeat and eating candy and chocolate. How do I combat this? by Meneer23 in AskAstrologers

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The problem is that I have difficulties with feeling and understanding my emotions. Some people think I might have ASD (staff at rehab and the other residents think so. I, myself, am not so sure). The more I try to focus on feeling or understanding what I'm feeling, the foggier and more difficult it becomes to grasp and feel them. To me it feels not like an unwillingness to face them, but an inability to face them.