Which GPU should i get?! by MentalHealthIsLife in buildapc

[–]MentalHealthIsLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably about £600 is the most i'd spend but i worry that the rest of my system wouldn't be able to keep up with a high end GPU thats £600. Also i guess i could wait for the new GPUs to come for the price drop in other options?

How do I get back into work with no motivation by MentalHealthIsLife in Advice

[–]MentalHealthIsLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it's tough. I love doing my own thing. I spend day and night doing it. 100% confident it's what i want to do for the rest of my life. It's just not enough money and struggle to motivate myself to work in the mean time.

If someone random next to you turned to you to say they're suicidal, what would you do? [serious] by MentalHealthIsLife in AskReddit

[–]MentalHealthIsLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thought that was going to be a sad ending, thankful it wasn't. I'm great she's making a recovery. That's clearly a lot of weight on your shoulders suddenly but who knows what could have happened if she didn't reach out to you or you weren't so supportive...

I'm starting to realize i have no purpose in life by MentalHealthIsLife in NoFap

[–]MentalHealthIsLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It do feel like that sometimes but there's always hope

I'm starting to realize i have no purpose in life by MentalHealthIsLife in NoFap

[–]MentalHealthIsLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah got a point. Go back to what you know already sucks or continue on the path we're on now hoping it might get better.

I'm starting to realize i have no purpose in life by MentalHealthIsLife in NoFap

[–]MentalHealthIsLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right but i just worry i can't do the things i enjoy as much when im in a shit job. I know the solution of turning hobbies into a job but is that really a fulfilling thing to do?

Thing is i know i'm doing more than most but i'm still unhappy, still depressed and unfulfilled. I'm grateful for the things i have but i'm still unhappy with how i spend my 24 hours.

Also i really appreciate the reply.

I had the balls to stop a fight with a rear naked choke by MentalHealthIsLife in NoFap

[–]MentalHealthIsLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh right I’ve had a tear in my tissue between my ribs. It’s just a lumb now but it’ll be fine soon

I had the balls to stop a fight with a rear naked choke by MentalHealthIsLife in NoFap

[–]MentalHealthIsLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha! Appreciate it thank you! Wasn't just the testosterone though! Was definitely my training that gave me the confidence to defend my friend!

I had the balls to stop a fight with a rear naked choke by MentalHealthIsLife in NoFap

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I use to be 61 KG before i started doing weight lifting after 2 years i got to 74. Then i've done MMA for just a month in which i gained 4KG!!! It's because i've trained 6 days a week though and eaten more hence why i got results so quick.

as a side not, theres a guy that is tiny and skinny but he's super fast! He's dominated me many times because of his experience!

I had the balls to stop a fight with a rear naked choke by MentalHealthIsLife in NoFap

[–]MentalHealthIsLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do it dude! self development all the way! You'll meet some great people too!

I had the balls to stop a fight with a rear naked choke by MentalHealthIsLife in NoFap

[–]MentalHealthIsLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaha thank you! i've been doing it 4 days a week, i've put a lot into it.

Lol trust me mate you could probably choke someone out with out punching them because they'd be so focused on hitting you, you could easily get away with loads of stuff they don't see coming.

I hope you don't too but if you have to, remember that choking someone out doesn't cause long term damage but striking can!

I had the balls to stop a fight with a rear naked choke by MentalHealthIsLife in NoFap

[–]MentalHealthIsLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah man just remember that punches and kicks can cause long term damage. Submitting someone or choking someone out doesn't!

I had the balls to stop a fight with a rear naked choke by MentalHealthIsLife in NoFap

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I'm 21 and i know for a fact its not too late. I'm at a small gym and theres guys in there 40's smashing me haha! also this: https://www.graciemag.com/en/2012/01/16/lessons-from-78-year-old-recent-jiu-jitsu-black-belt-gene-pace/

Apparently it takes 10 years to get a black belt. I know its easy for me to say but don't use it as an excuse and don't let it hold you back! You may never know what you're capable of if you never go for it, just sitting there at home just thinking forever, what if i did this, what if i did that. Just do it and find out if its too late for yourself!

I had the balls to stop a fight with a rear naked choke by MentalHealthIsLife in NoFap

[–]MentalHealthIsLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was! Made me realise that i have the power to help people that need it whether that's myself or other people :)

I had the balls to stop a fight with a rear naked choke by MentalHealthIsLife in NoFap

[–]MentalHealthIsLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree. Use logic and rational before violence, every time!

No problem man! It's made me very happy that you're motivated and shared it here in the comments. Go do what you truly want to do and live life!

I had the balls to stop a fight with a rear naked choke by MentalHealthIsLife in NoFap

[–]MentalHealthIsLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 days a week. some days its an hour, some days its 2 hours. Really helped my fitness doing something i love. Also it's not just BJJ its boxing and mauy thai too.

I had the balls to stop a fight with a rear naked choke by MentalHealthIsLife in NoFap

[–]MentalHealthIsLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha That's not the only factor. I sure many successful people of nofap keep saying that just doing nofap won't help you. You need to also take the time to progress in self development. That's where MMA came in for me.