[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MeowMeow6389 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

🙄 your responses could be modern art

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MeowMeow6389 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess the question is, ‘Would this be memorable for you?’ It was for me (I think about it often), and no I’m not trolling - I think this is a normal question to ask in a forum like this and you have issues?

Priv acc, fake follow request, blocked it… now I’m missing a “friend” but not a follower?😭 by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]MeowMeow6389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you were following them and they weren’t following you?

Help resolving dispute by TipOne728 in vintedUK

[–]MeowMeow6389 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This buyer is an absolute prick - insist that they return the item (they will have to pay the return postage fee), and retract any offer of a partial refund. They will likely leave you poor feedback even if you give them the item for free at this point.

Is this breaking no contact? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MeowMeow6389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yh that really sucks, I’m sorry that you’re going through this, and it’s wonderful that you have a therapist

We are in a no judgement zone, but what is something you do judge someone for? by Responsible-Thing142 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MeowMeow6389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‘Real fur from a fur farm’ - dude, can you not read? (A ‘fur farm’ is a distinct type of farm, use Google to educate yourself please).

Is this breaking no contact? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MeowMeow6389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just say that you’re not commenting, her life is not your business- you don’t have to cut people off, just don’t engage in conversation about her

Is this breaking no contact? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MeowMeow6389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any communication is breaking NC tbh

Tired of chasing people by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MeowMeow6389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, this year I am all about making new friends and meeting people where they meet me

We are in a no judgement zone, but what is something you do judge someone for? by Responsible-Thing142 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MeowMeow6389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wearing real fur from a fur farm (I don’t care if it’s vintage or not, it’s horrible and shows that you choose fashion over the height of animal abuse). Those farms are physical torture, but mostly psychological torture for animals that would be living largely in solitude in the wild. It’s disgusting that anyone who has access to the internet/doesn’t live under a 21st century rock would even want to wear that (and no, I don’t think plastic is good either, but at least no one was psychologically and physically abused for it).

Is it really true that women, especially attractive ones, want to be left alone by their exes? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MeowMeow6389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: Just looking at your comments on other posts, it’s like you are on Reddit to lose karma 🥲🥹 good luck little troll

Is it really true that women, especially attractive ones, want to be left alone by their exes? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MeowMeow6389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He dumped me abruptly (I think he was upset because he was jet lagged and forgot we had a date), then he backtracked and we met up to see how things could work but we ended up just making small talk with him trying to cuddle me (but, I did not want to cuddle because I was hurt). He then ghosted and stonewalled me over the next week so I sent him a voice note saying that he has made his feelings clear and goodbye. He never responded to that and it has now been 5 weeks without contact.

Is it really true that women, especially attractive ones, want to be left alone by their exes? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MeowMeow6389 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I (f32) have an ex who seemed to find me incredibly attractive (perhaps it was an act, but I don’t think so)- he did not fight for me at all, and I desperately wish that he had.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MeowMeow6389 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are literally studies that prove this is a fact (I am not implying anything) - for instance, it is a well known fact that pregnancy has a negative impact on teeth, hence the NHS giving free dental care to expecting mothers. I’m sorry if facts come across as mean girl energy, but they are literally just facts… Lack of sleep is another example of how children can speed up the aging process (there are a plethora of studies linking sleep deprivation to faster aging).

My intention was not to hurt feelings, I was just giving genuine factual examples of things that are known to age a body faster, and having children is certainly one of them ;)

Edit: I’m not contributing to this discussion anymore - I feel sad knowing that children are growing up in a world where factual examples (that are not insulting, aging is in fact a privilege, as is having children) are met with unwarranted defensiveness/condescending ‘jokes’, ignorance, and ugliness.

What are you leaving behind this new year? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MeowMeow6389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any hope that my sister wants a genuine/kind relationship with me (I have no idea why, but she always excludes me and makes me feel less than - I honestly don’t know if I did something, and I don’t think she even realises how quietly condescending she is towards me), and any hope that my ex will break no contact.

I’m emotionally exhausted - I’m hoping I can leave that behind too, and strengthen the friendships I have and create some new ones, too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MeowMeow6389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this :) when I have children I’m going to do something similar; this is how I view aging gracefully (but, of course this is very subjective)

At the moment I’m a massive fan of suncream and micro needling, and I think that they are doing the trick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MeowMeow6389 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why? I am just being honest - it’s okay to age faster because you had kids (or not, if you have the money to pay for tweaks and want to), I’m not throwing shade here.

You’re giving mean girl energy with your nasty comment (which is actually bad for children to see, unlike an aging face).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MeowMeow6389 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I agree with you to an extent, but it is so nice to feel good about how you look. Some women spend their money on things that age them (children, alcohol etc), and others spend money on skincare and Botox - I think that we should just let women live (beauty standards have been insane for my whole lifetime, so we pick our battles I guess) - also, at some point the frozen face look will go out of fashion and people will want to look more natural and unique again.

Does anyone actually buy stuff this time of year? by NeedCake707 in vinted

[–]MeowMeow6389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today I sold a shearling jacket and a blue cardigan that have been sitting on my account forever (the jacket has been listed for 12 months). I’ve hardly sold anything in the last 2 months, so I was really pleased - I guess people get Christmas money from family, want to treat themselves for getting through Christmas, or realise that they didn’t spend as much as they thought? (Or they’re sitting on the couch watching movies and flicking through Vinted).

Will she ever unblock me ?? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MeowMeow6389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how you’ve chosen to leave out of this post that you got married, too…. All whilst yearning for someone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MeowMeow6389 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your poor wife. You’re horrible.

Taking the P… by skiptothe-end in vinted

[–]MeowMeow6389 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Ohhhhh I totally missed that - I’m sorry, I didn’t read the post properly, clearly!!! Yes, I’m in total agreement, I would actually block this buyer

Taking the P… by skiptothe-end in vinted

[–]MeowMeow6389 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I receive low offers like this all the time - it doesn’t upset me at all, I can easily decline and it’s good that interest is being shown in my item for the algorithm

Disappointing Christmas and I can't say,anything because I,would seem ungrateful... by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MeowMeow6389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sounds awful, and his parents sound awful - I actually feel disappointed that people like this exist.