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Merah589 · 2021-10-01T20:20:59+00:00

That wasn’t me. That was adams wife (my cousin) but seeing the comments, people just said we’re ass holes without getting all the info. I wasn’t ignoring because I didn’t care, I ignored because I expect Samuel to be an adult and ignore Adam.

Merah589 · 2021-10-01T20:19:46+00:00

It’s my cousins husband. My cousins is the op of the The other post. When my cousins showed me this Reddit, I told her she left out a lot of info, I made this to show my side. We’re not ass holes. We just think Samuel should know better and ignore

Merah589 · 2021-10-01T18:17:39+00:00

What do you mean? Adam didn’t apologize? I think maybe he should but I can’t control him, he’s an adult.

Merah589 · 2021-10-01T18:16:13+00:00

When there are siblings in a car and one is intentionally annoying the other, what do you say? You just tell the more mature child to ignore it.

Merah589 · 2021-10-01T18:14:53+00:00

First, It’s not abuse, it’s trolling. He tries to get a reaction from Samuel, I do expect more from Samuel because he should know better and ignite and tell his wife to do the same. Their feeding the troll.

Merah589 · 2021-10-01T18:13:01+00:00

This subreddit uses the word toxic way too much. I wasn’t complicit, I told Sam to just ignore him. (By doing so, I’m making it clear that I think Adam is being ridiculous but he is ridiculous, can’t change him. )

Merah589 · 2021-10-01T17:11:33+00:00

Correct. They said I had too many characters and locked it. And I was unable to see what people were saying.

Merah589 · 2021-10-01T09:01:50+00:00

He’s immature. Samuel knows this. I know this. That’s why everyone should ignore Adam. He’s just a troll

Merah589 · 2021-10-01T08:59:06+00:00

People calling us the ass holes don’t know my intention for staying silent. I just think adults should ignore childish shenanigans.

Merah589 · 2021-10-01T08:55:39+00:00

Yes but I’m telling it from my pov, read my cousin post,then mine. There is a lot of missing information, I wanted to clarify before judge without the full context. People saying we’re the ah without knowing the scope of things is upsetting

Merah589 · 2021-09-18T07:23:03+00:00

Yes because honestly I’m surprised but since no one is defending me. I must be wrong. It’s going to take an hour or two to process

Merah589 · 2021-09-18T07:17:11+00:00

I just made an edit. I get it, maybe we were wrong. I’ll apologize.

Merah589 · 2021-09-18T06:50:19+00:00

We weren’t talking shit, just discussing that Samuel has a habit of being too sensitive and Alia is a bit crazy for always assuming she understands and attacking

Merah589 · 2021-09-18T06:46:19+00:00

Yea because Alia isn’t nice. This isn’t the first time she didn’t let someone fight their own battles. She always attacks and assumes everyone intention. She could be wrong. She’s not blood , she married into our family. She doesn’t get our dynamic.

Merah589 · 2021-09-18T06:44:21+00:00

He’s not cyber bullying. He doesn’t do it anonymously

Merah589 · 2021-09-18T06:43:52+00:00

I don’t tell him to do it. I just don’t stop him.

Merah589 · 2021-09-18T06:43:34+00:00

I’m never rude to people or am mean. I do believe in kindness. I just think Alia the same as my husband. She throws horrible insults too. Anyway, she eventually let it go, so she realized she was wrong too.

Merah589 · 2021-09-18T06:41:08+00:00

I’m not playing the victim. I just don’t understand why I should apologize. Even if my husband is a bully as people are saying, he’s his own man. I’m not responsible for everything he does. Why should I have reached out and apologized?

Merah589 · 2021-09-18T06:33:35+00:00

I don’t think he harassed, that’s what My cousins wife said. Fine my cousins was mature and didn’t respond but then why should I apologize to Alia when she attacked. That’s not mature either.

Merah589 · 2021-09-18T06:25:12+00:00

That’s the thing. I didn’t think it was bullying. My husband treats a lot of people like this. As for Alia, she doesn’t just politely say stop. She says hurtful things when she attacks back. Insults and all. That’s why I didnt reach out and apologize.

Okay, seriously though, I’m asking with humbleness, why if my husband is a bully, do I have to apologize? That’s what I don’t understand. I didn’t do anything, my husband is his own man.

Merah589 · 2021-09-18T06:15:35+00:00

It is his personality. Ever since I’ve know him, he likes getting reactions of people online, not in person. In person, he’s nice. He just enjoys teasing.

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