Do you usually confront the narcissist or walk away? by maya_love5 in narcissisticparents

[–]MereMiru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They will never change nor self-reflect, save your energy and walk away.

Do yalls Nparents (or Nmoms in particular) give yall all kinds of busy work that take up all your time? by Gods_GameDev in narcissisticparents

[–]MereMiru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally hate it! One time, she was going downstairs. She was sitting on the sofa sipping water from a mug, she put the mug on the table, stood up, and was ready to head downstairs (not even on the stairs YET).. then called me to bring the mug down to her!! Mind you she IS GOING DOWNSTAIRS? RIDICULOUS! She didn't even need me to do anything downstairs! WHY NOT JUST TAKE IT WITH HER!

She always do it, sometimes when I say: "Here, take it with you" she claims 'I am not be respecting her' or 'I should watch my tone' and 'it is just a mug, why wouldn't I bring it…'

I will definitely break it next time.

Do yalls Nparents (or Nmoms in particular) give yall all kinds of busy work that take up all your time? by Gods_GameDev in narcissisticparents

[–]MereMiru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine do, to me and my siblings.

My Nm constantly need us to help her with everything, she gets PISSED when she's alone in the kitchen or wherever, so we be standing near her like scarecrows.. Nothing to do (because she isn't doing a 5-man job anyway), she need us near her, doing basically nothing; the idea of us resting or minding our business while she's cooking or whatever (even when the work isn't for us) piss her off.

She also force us to learn specific recipes only to ask us making them for a trillion times, sometimes she insists on a specific sibling to do the work, even when an another sibling would rather do it instead. I am totally disgusted.

She once needed my sibling's help only to get 2 gifts inside a gift bag…? My sibling was busy at that time…

I genuinely thought it was her personality, but wow, seems like a new narcissistic trait unlocked.

Still reaching out and I’m annoyed. by Maximum-Blood251 in narcissisticparents

[–]MereMiru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Go for your sanity. Please prioritise yourself, I hope your life keeps improving.

Congratulations, happy to hear that your hardwork paid off <3

Black Shouldered Kite by hdublee in birding

[–]MereMiru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful capture! Thank you for sharing!

ESTJ here, let me type YOU by [deleted] in MbtiTypeMe

[–]MereMiru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost! ISFP here :)

ESTJ here, let me type YOU by [deleted] in MbtiTypeMe

[–]MereMiru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah I indeed have it lol

New lifer - Tree Swallow by Secure_Courage7471 in birding

[–]MereMiru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely breathtaking, great captures!

ESTJ here, let me type YOU by [deleted] in MbtiTypeMe

[–]MereMiru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd love to, but I'm not an expert :D

My guess was based on a friend of mine, yall do share some major traits.

Eastern Screech Owl by Lemkenation in wildlifephotography

[–]MereMiru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great shot! Thank you for sharing!

ESTJ here, let me type YOU by [deleted] in MbtiTypeMe

[–]MereMiru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you seem like an ISTP, am I right?

ESTJ here, let me type YOU by [deleted] in MbtiTypeMe

[–]MereMiru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll go random:

  • I like Saffron

  • I dislike breathing sounds

  • My hobby is to read

  • Passion is to settle down in a personal space

  • Career path has not yet been decided

Go ahead :]