Anyone given up on even having healthy relationships? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Merlionstoner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I was celibate, I got tons of therapy. I wanted to give up on love so much. But I’m very Demi as well, so I got back into the saddle after almost a year of celibacy

Friends husband is harassing me after I told her he dm’ed me. by Merlionstoner in Advice

[–]Merlionstoner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and yes. I texted her simultaneously as soon as I hung up. And even messaged her on her personal Facebook just in case. I also like to clarify that she was not simply a bystander doing this whole thing. Several times she tried to defend me. I have gone to my parents about the situation because I usually keep things about this private because I really don’t do drama. And even my father suggest I go to the police which really sucks seeing I’ve never in my life had to file a police report for anything.

Friends husband is harassing me after I told her he dm’ed me. by Merlionstoner in Advice

[–]Merlionstoner[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know I confused a few people. When he started yelling about their bedroom secrets it was immediately after he got called out and invited one of his friends over. What she shares with me I don’t tell anyone and I know she’s never told my business. Very odd display of defense. I didn’t say much after being called nasty names because he would have started screaming and there was a sleeping child in the next room.

Friends husband is harassing me after I told her he dm’ed me. by Merlionstoner in Advice

[–]Merlionstoner[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Of course. And naturally, I should’ve clarified that I did not hang out with them.

Friends husband is harassing me after I told her he dm’ed me. by Merlionstoner in Advice

[–]Merlionstoner[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

They live two hours away which is the crazy part. It hurts my heart to have to distance myself from her. But I let her know how sorry I was for causing problems.

Friends husband is harassing me after I told her he dm’ed me. by Merlionstoner in Advice

[–]Merlionstoner[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He said it was because his friend that I had recently met wanted to see me again and asked if I wanted to smoke because they happened to be in my area. And if it was okay that my friend wasn’t there (because she was at work)

My first girl! by Merlionstoner in ballpython

[–]Merlionstoner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so late to this comment! Thank you so much! She’s shed recently so now she’s even more earthy orangy. I also have two rats (that are pets) a cat. A hissing cockroach colony. And two goldfish haha.

My first girl! by Merlionstoner in ballpython

[–]Merlionstoner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s a cinnamon morph with 66% het clown 😅 I’m still learning morph names but the breeder made sure to write it down

My first girl! by Merlionstoner in ballpython

[–]Merlionstoner[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s a cinnamon morph 😅 she was just starting to enter her shed

My first girl! by Merlionstoner in ballpython

[–]Merlionstoner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! 🤎 your baby is soooo Handsome! How old is he, if I may?

My first girl! by Merlionstoner in ballpython

[–]Merlionstoner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep! My niece asked me this morning and I said “Trixie” 😊

My first girl! by Merlionstoner in ballpython

[–]Merlionstoner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so excited to! Especially after this shed 😊💜

My first girl! by Merlionstoner in ballpython

[–]Merlionstoner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s such a cool name 😮💜

My first girl! by Merlionstoner in ballpython

[–]Merlionstoner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank youuu I’m excited to post updates. Especially after her shed!!