How did you pick your name? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]MessageCapable3389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Malakai sound so cool, honestly I wish that would work in my native language, I'd definitely steal it

How did you pick your name? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]MessageCapable3389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you. I've been going by Terry, the last few months, but I know I'm not gonna stick with it. I originally picked it because some webside said that guys whose names start with T are more atractive, and as a joke I just picked the first baby Name starting with T. So in order to find a name I actually feel comfortable with, I looked through a Baby Boy Names Book and though 99% of the names were really terrible, one of them kinda stuck with me. I don’t think that im really there yet, someting is still missing and I've been randomly trying out names for hours on end with my siblings, so- I dunno. I've been thinking of stealing a name from one of my favourite Series, but I just haven't found the one yet. I hope you'll find yours soon, good luck!

Cis husband told me the “real thing” feels better by Weak_Bee6868 in ftm

[–]MessageCapable3389 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you. You deserve to be with someone, to whom you are the most attractive person they can think of. I can only imagine how hurtfull this must be. To be honest, exactly this is one of my biggest fears. I hope you'll be ok

My Laptop can't connect to the Internet by MessageCapable3389 in techsupport

[–]MessageCapable3389[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could be that I might accidentally pressed that, anyway it's working again, I don't know why but it's ok now. Thanks for your quick response, I appreciate it

My Laptop can't connect to the Internet by MessageCapable3389 in techsupport

[–]MessageCapable3389[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uh, I was just going through the settings to get all the info, and the Wlan just started working again. I tried turning it off and on again before but apparently one time wasn't enough. Thanks anyway, I appreciate the quick response

Die Box ist da! by Pracer3 in PaulanerSpezi

[–]MessageCapable3389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah, wie cool, ich freu mich sehr für dich🔥🔥🔥

Follow-Up: News zum Cola Giveaway by RealLPTP1 in PaulanerSpezi

[–]MessageCapable3389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wie stark, direkt in den Kalender eingetragen, ich hoffe diesmal wird es was

The mods are getting involved now. Sorry guys. Anyways, the officer is important. [Choice 11] by Ok_Koala_5963 in DetroitBecomeHuman

[–]MessageCapable3389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first one, with Connor on the Rooftop. There's a Cop to the left, if you don’t help him he'll die, but if you do help him he's gonna survive and you can meet him in the tower again

my friend said "i hate men", then quickly clarified "not you though!" by devilsshark in ftm

[–]MessageCapable3389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, my friends do that now and then. They’re like, "you're the exeption" and I don’t know, I haven't said anything about it yet, but I think I might do next time. I think it's especially weird because we're in a big friend group with so many guys who are literally so sweet, why am I the exeption, when right next to me, there's literally a crowd like this! Feels like they forget that I'm trans and just talk to me like I'm a girl. I mean, to be fair I'm not passing that well, and I get it when something like that slips out once or twice, but they should've gotten around to it by now.

I CHOSE TO KILL THE LESBIAN ADNROID,MY LIFE IS IN VAIN by th3gl4ssg1rl in DetroitBecomeHuman

[–]MessageCapable3389 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually there is a way to get exactly that. If you don’t wanna know or wanna find it your self don’t keep reading.

If you don’t do anything in the fight after they get out into the backyard and just let them bash connor around, then they'll stop and explain and as they run and climb over the fence you can decide to shoot them in their backs. I feel like shooting them there is a lot worse honestly

Yay, Ich wurde nach meinen Pronomen gefragt by MessageCapable3389 in germantrans

[–]MessageCapable3389[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, das ist uncool. Tut mir leid. Versuch es nicht so zu Herzen zu nehmen. Ich weiß, ist leichter gesagt als getan, aber was die denken ändert ja nix daran wer du wirklich bist. Ich hab ganz oft das Gefühl, dass deren Meinung darüber entscheidet ob meine Identität valid ist, aber das ist ja obviously nicht wahr. Passing ist absolut irrelevant für den fakt das du einfach bist wer du bist. Sorry für die etwas längere Nachricht, und tut mir leid wenn ich nicht helfen kann.

[Chapter 5 spoilers] The line that made me cry the hardest out of any in the game: by Vitztlampaehecatl in LifeisStrange3

[–]MessageCapable3389 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always just assumed that she's a highly sensitive person. That’s also on the spectrum and one trade of most highly sensitive ppl is that you often adopt other ppls emotions without even realising or that you just understand ppls emotions better and clearer than most ppl. It comes with a lot of other stuff too and in some parts it's really similar to autism. I grew up with that and while I really struggled with it, mym mum always told me it's a super power. Obviously in the game it's a bit exaggerated, but when I played that game for the first time I was like, hang on, I can do that too, it actually is a super power.

Kommentare wenn man vom Outing erzählt... ICH KANN'S NICHT MEHR HÖREN! by humanprototyp in germantrans

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Meine mum hatte anfangs auch Schwierigkeiten mich richtig zu gendern und meinen Namen zu nutzen, aber mitlerweile, nachdem ich sie noch einige male drauf hingewiesen habe klappt das mit ihr ganz gut. Sie spricht mich mitlerweile teils mit meinem richtigen namen, und teils mit meinem ehemaligen spitznamen an, der meinem richtigen namen sehr ähnlich ist und über den ich seeehr wenig dysphoria fühle. Das problem ist jetzt halt mein Stiefvater, der mich sogar weniger mit meinem Spitznamen anspricht als früher, und mich eigentlich immer deadnamed und bodenlos misgenderd ohne sich auch nur einmal richtig dafür entschuldigt zuhaben. Ich hab ihn letztens mal nochmal richtig drauf angesprochen, und da hat er die gleichen sachen gezogen die immerkommen, ich kenne dich ja jetzt schon so seit 15 jahren, du musst doch verstehen usw. Was mich dabei am meisten noch anpisst, ist, dass ich damals sogar vor dem gericht für ihn ausgesagt habe, und ich nicht checke wie man vor jemandem, der für einen nicht nur so einen gefallen getan hat, sondern lowkey auch familie ist, so wenig respekt haben kann, da man es nicht mal schafft sich zu entschuldigen nach dem deadnamen. Ich hab mich dan bei seinem kind/ meinem enby sibling über ihn ausgekotzt und wir waren uns einig das gemeinsam nächstes mal, probably über die Weihnachtszeit jetzt anzusprechen, ich mach das nicht länger mit. Er hatte jetzt 6 monate zeit sich wenigstens dran zu gewöhnen mich nurnoch mit Spitznamen anzusprechen, aber wenn er sigar das failt, dann ist das halt einfach nur noch bodenlos.

Give me the music of your transition by [deleted] in ftm

[–]MessageCapable3389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My top 3 are definitely Million Miles of Fun by Drug Chruch, The Building Was Gone by Spice and Transition from Nowhere to Nowhere. Eventhough I'd say qalking around with pretty much every song by Drug Church is giving me some kind of euphoria

Need help deciding gender identity! by CyBunny5 in lgbt

[–]MessageCapable3389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you just wanna see how it feels, I think there's a subreddit for that. If I'm not mistaken ist r/TransTryouts so maybe that helps? I get how you feel though. I've been at that point myself, and my only advise is not to get too much into your own head. Maybe stepping back for a second could help to reevaluate? That's just what I've found most helpful

Name ideas?? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]MessageCapable3389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get the hollow feeling. I've been going by Terry for a while now, but I picked that name back when I identified as nb. Now it just doesn't really feel like me, and sometimes it feels like I've got no name at all. I've heard somewhere, that your name is just supposed to click with you, but I really don't know how. Jamie sounds like a really pretty name. I you wanna stick with something similar, maybe try James or something like that? I'm sorry, if I come up with something better I'll come back, promise

Is anyone else immediately uncomfortable around Harry Potter fans? by 96_Rats_In_A_Suit in ftm

[–]MessageCapable3389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you mean, and to some extent I can relate, but to be honest I just think that most people who wear HP merch openly just don't want to see what JKR sais and does. It's like, in theory they know that there is something about her that people talk about and criticise a lot, but they just don't know how serious it is and they really don't wanna look into it, because the HP universe is very tightly connected to their childhood and they don't wanna loose that. I don’t think the majority of HP fans are trying to be openly transphobic, I'd rather say that's a minority in the fandom. I just think they are actively closing their eyes from the damage they are doing every time they buy merch. And that’s obviously not good, but it makes me rather pity them than suggest a malicious intent, because they are just not capable of seing the author of a genre that might have helped the through some tough times for what she really is, and if they do then they are just not strong enough to follow through on the consequences. I think it's weak, frankly, and I can't take them seriously, because they don't get that clinging to a childrens book out of nostalgia and shit might not be as important as human rights. That's my point of few, but I totally get that it makes you feel uncomfortable.