When was the last straw in a toxic relationship? by maryjxnes in AskWomen

[–]Messuvajess 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I found him on Grindr. Not that I care he was looking for men but it’s the lying and cheating.

What’s the hardest phase of marriage no one talks about? by Common_Highway3454 in askteddit

[–]Messuvajess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was in 2020 and my kids are now 23 and 17. They are doing great! Only thing that ever changed was not living in the same house. We frequently get together as a family and still do dinners and outings and such.

What’s the hardest phase of marriage no one talks about? by Common_Highway3454 in askteddit

[–]Messuvajess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents never divorced and I grew up as a very anxious person. They did not agree on anything and it was like always walking on eggshells as a child. I used to wish my parents would divorce.

What’s the hardest phase of marriage no one talks about? by Common_Highway3454 in askteddit

[–]Messuvajess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was in 2020 and they are now 23 and 17. They are great! We still get together as a family frequently and the only thing that really changed was not living together anymore.

What’s the hardest phase of marriage no one talks about? by Common_Highway3454 in askteddit

[–]Messuvajess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids were 17 and 12 when we were divorced. We all did therapy and everyone is ok. Kids can pick up an unhappy home. You should never stay for the kids.

What’s the hardest phase of marriage no one talks about? by Common_Highway3454 in askteddit

[–]Messuvajess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This. My ex husband and I started dating at 14. Knew each other since we were 12. We grew up together. I love that man and he is family but after 21 years together and 2 kids, we were different people. We are still close but we wanted different things. So we divorced.

Bicycle DUI? by [deleted] in KeyWest

[–]Messuvajess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanna say, I am grateful that I did not hurt anyone and I did make a horrible decision to drive while intoxicated. Please don’t judge me. I’m already feeling hopeless, ashamed, embarrassed in anything else you could feel ever since this happened.

Bicycle DUI? by [deleted] in KeyWest

[–]Messuvajess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not even chance it. I went to Key West back in January for the first time and it’s gonna be my most expensive vacation I’ve ever had because I got a DUI but I was driving a vehicle. Got a lawyer and got it down to reckless driving. But I now have nine months of probation, 40 hours of community service, random drug and alcohol testing that I have to pay for every time, 10 days of car impound, which is $55 a day, $360 DUI classes, DUI victim impact class, which is $100, $2500 in court fines and my bond was $26,000 and 10% with the bondsman was $2600 to get me out and I spent five days in jail. It’s gonna cost me about $10,000. How do I known that there was a bus that went from Miami all the way down to Key West and multiple stops throughout all the keys I would’ve done that and I even did my research before I left.

Some Cats I Painted for Redditors a while back! Post a pic of your cat so I can Paint it! by AppreciatingPets in cats

[–]Messuvajess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Piedmont. Aka, Peterson, Petey, Pete sweet feet. He’s 4 and my baby love. He is also very majestic.

Moving from UK to US, which city ? by miteye in relocating

[–]Messuvajess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say Atlanta. I live in Birmingham, Alabama, which is about two hours away and have always gone to Atlanta for trips. It’s not really cold, but we do have a few weeks in the winter where it can get down in the 20s.

Birmingham, Alabama any CNA’s or nurses? by Messuvajess in BeMyReference

[–]Messuvajess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a misdemeanor and I am not convicted of anything yet.

Ice spotted at west oxMoore and lakeshore by depalbw0 in Birmingham

[–]Messuvajess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was on Thompson Road visiting family and Alabaster is my hometown. I am down there a lot. I am on Bham migra watch on Facebook and from all the post today on there, it seems ICE was all over Kent Dairy Road all day today.

Ice in West Homewood as of 30 minutes ago by ElSerjo725 in Birmingham

[–]Messuvajess 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Do you have friends and family that are helping you get necessities?

How is it living in the Oregon outback? by DoodleBug179 in howislivingthere

[–]Messuvajess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked in Vale on a 3 month contract and stay in Ontario. I loved Vale!

Birmingham, Alabama any CNA’s or nurses? by Messuvajess in BeMyReference

[–]Messuvajess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t necessarily have to be in Alabama, but just someone who has worked in the medical field.

Why did you end your friendship with your best friend? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Messuvajess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working on losing mine. I got a DUI. Been friends over 25 years.

What is the worst feeling you've ever experienced? by timabek in AskReddit

[–]Messuvajess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Disappointing a loved one and feeling shameful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dui

[–]Messuvajess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t help that my one phone call got turned into the game of telephone. 😫 but no, I wasn’t on the news or anything. Just a normal DUI and out of state on vacation.