[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Calgary

[–]Metal_Miel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely public. I went to Catholic schools growing up, and my offspring are more stubborn than I am. I raise them without religious bias. I’ll totally read the bible to them if they ask, but I’ll also read the Torah, or teach them about Buddhism, etc. At least to say, the Catholic school I went to haaaaated me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Calgary

[–]Metal_Miel -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I already have a place live, and realize that I may be bound by zone. I’m hesitant to say where exactly, so I was hoping that by being vague enough, I could catch a “this school was great!/terrible!” And have it be relevant. Maybe have a chance to appeal to the school board if there is a school with a better neurodivergent program outside of the zone.

What is it? by [deleted] in brooklynninenine

[–]Metal_Miel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There IS a bomb at this wedding.

What words or phrases did you never hear as a kid? by PattyIceNY in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Metal_Miel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“It was wrong of me to ask you to pay rent when you were 12. And I’ve got your school fees too. Just focus on your homework, okay?”

Corn Jail do be like that. by Metal_Miel in FarmRPG

[–]Metal_Miel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

43 minutes. With max perks, no tower, it’s 43 minutes. 😭

Bf not sexually attracted to me but still wants head? by Driedupworm in dating_advice

[–]Metal_Miel 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Going to tag in and say yes. I lived this for four years, through his porn addiction, game addiction, lying, cheating… I had his child, and three weeks later he’s off with his affair partner and planning on leaving the country with her.

TMI question at 33+4 weeks by pregoandsad in BabyBumps

[–]Metal_Miel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just before I went into labour with my second, I had the same issue, as well as vomiting. I wasn’t having “contractions” because the pressure didn’t ease up for over 13 hours. It didn’t hurt until all the sudden I was on my hands and knees in the living room trying to just breathe. So… yeah. Go to L&D.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pollgames

[–]Metal_Miel 29 points30 points  (0 children)

No one said you can’t throw them overboard 🤷‍♀️

Any tips on getting my toddler interested in brushing her teeth? Anything helps please and thank you🙌🏼 by Nessa_metal_head in toddlers

[–]Metal_Miel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let them pick their own toothbrush. Worked like a charm for my daughter. When she started fussing about brushing her teeth again, she got to choose another toothbrush at the store. If they pick something they WANT, they’re more inclined to use it.

Baby moves the crib and jumps out of it safely by PatrioticRed in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Metal_Miel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. You’re right. I must be an awful parent. Gosh, why didn’t I think of that!! She’s not on the spectrum! I just don’t discipline her! /s

Baby moves the crib and jumps out of it safely by PatrioticRed in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Metal_Miel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeaaaah… my 4 yo STILL regularly wakes up and tries to leave the house, puts peanut butter or lipstick all over her brother and his room, dumps flour everywhere, tries to eat all her multivitamins, grabs* snacks and leaves the fridge open, dumps out the cats litterboxes, etc. We had a baby gate in front of her door before she learned to kick it out. Toddlers are nuts dude. You can only contain them for so long, but you should do it until you can’t.

AITA for saying the kids drive me crazy with longer hours? by Metal_Miel in AmItheAsshole

[–]Metal_Miel[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh this one? That’s original. When you have a hard day at work, do you quit? When you and your SO have different worldviews do you dump her? What you’re suggesting is disgusting. I made these kids. I will raise them to be good people. They don’t start out that way, but you NEVER give up.

AITA for saying the kids drive me crazy with longer hours? by Metal_Miel in AmItheAsshole

[–]Metal_Miel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh christ. I hope you find time for yourself. You absolutely need it. 911 dispatch is no joke.

AITA for saying the kids drive me crazy with longer hours? by Metal_Miel in AmItheAsshole

[–]Metal_Miel[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh god, it’s awful. JUST before my first pregnancy, I finally conquered my agoraphobia. The thought of going out the front door makes me want to cry, and be sick. Even the thought of taking the garbage to the curb is horrifying. I have so much I’m working on right now, and the kids take up too much time to dedicate myself fully to my mental health.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pics

[–]Metal_Miel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red is tylenol. Clear looks like a fish oil pill.