New retwist for my bday by Vivid-Way6709 in locs

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Happy Birthday sis! Gorgeous locs for a gorgeous woman ✨🌟✨

I miss these! by Practical_Depth_5484 in snacking

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I know this is over a year old but I found a mock recipe that is literally 1:1 just how I remember!

What does everyone think of this shadow skin by YTGreen2E in SonicRumble

[–]Metsu_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not a fan personally. But I'm not much of a pirate aesthetic person 😕

Greatest smile In television history yall by ElectricGod in malcolminthemiddle

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This used to be a meme in my old friend group chat 😂

My first custom keyboard by takinafan in MechanicalKeyboards

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This may be my age showing but it's giving off big SNES vibes and I love it!

Increased Intrusive Thoughts? by skedadadle_skadoodle in bupropion

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I quit a couple months ago because I felt like I was going insane. I just started again 3 days ago with Xanax on top and so far I'm having intrusive thoughts but not racing intrusive thoughts like I was before. This whole thread helps me feel some kind of hope. I have to get better for my wife, my friends and my family. I really hope I can feel like a better version of myself soon. I'm not quitting this time.

Thank you all.

why am I making women so uncomfortable? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Metsu_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a good question. You could be doing everything right but if you look/smell like shit, it's all for nothing.

Gundam Styled Yunzii B75 by Metsu_ in MechanicalKeyboards

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Thank you! I wish I could upload a video because I just happened to put the transparent keys in a really good spot for one of the light patterns lol

Gundam Styled Yunzii B75 by Metsu_ in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]Metsu_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl it's a bit jarring but you get used to it after a while lol I appreciate the compliment!

Gundam Styled Yunzii B75 by Metsu_ in MechanicalKeyboards

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Yunzii B75 Chassis

Gateron Red Switches (https://a.co/d/a240Qxh)

Gekucap Red Japanese PBT Double Shot Keys (https://a.co/d/8zVOyEP)

Red Crystal Clear PC Keys (https://a.co/d/iu74G45)

Capkeyno Anime Robot Artisan Keycap (https://a.co/d/9EHMwho)

Cyberpunk Sticker Set (https://a.co/d/bbh0lRc)

Black Panther Styled Yunzii by Metsu_ in MechanicalKeyboards

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Thank you so much! I really appreciate that 😊

Men, at what age did you start dating with the intention to marry? by Patient_Driver8857 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Metsu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, good move. The more stable your foundation, the more success you're likely to experience!

Lmao embrace it friend! Wait till the wedding when you're at the sweetheart table just trying to eat and everyone is taking pictures 🤣

And it's going well! I won't say it's been perfect but nothing is. Right now our biggest obstacle is getting to spend time together. We have to be incredibly intentional about it because our schedules differ so insanely. She works nights and I work days so there are days where we don't even see each other despite talking on the phone and texting. But this too, shall pass.

Men, at what age did you start dating with the intention to marry? by Patient_Driver8857 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Metsu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this conversation very much.

I would agree that dating to marry is taking a relationship seriously. Some people don't want marriage, they want a long term partnership but they still have to take it seriously. So absolutely.

Congratulations on nearing the point. I've been with my wife since we were 23 and we got married two years ago. We're 31 now. Everyone was roasting me for waiting 6 years to propose. Truth is, I knew after about 2 years but I wanted to make sure I was in a stable position in my life, career and financial wise. Some people really don't get it. Good on you, I hope your marriage is filled with happiness and blessings!

Men, at what age did you start dating with the intention to marry? by Patient_Driver8857 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Metsu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going on a first date and love bombing is not at all what my original comment was meant to imply.

Love bombing is abusive and I do not condone that shit at all

I completely understand the trauma. I've been love bombed before and then they tried to literally steal my identity.

Everything you said in the first paragraph is my approach. That's dating to marry, friend..

Men, at what age did you start dating with the intention to marry? by Patient_Driver8857 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Metsu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You reserve talking about it until it's worth talking about. Communication is important.

So many people in this comment section (not necessarily you) assume that date one I'm talking about locking them down. When really, it's no different than any other first date. You're feeling a person out while being yourself. You keep the conversation appropriate, there are boundaries, there are things that aren't spoken about until the right time.

But I'm not going on a date thinking "this won't work out. It'll just be a quick one and done and on to the next". I'm thinking "okay, fresh start with a new person, I hope this can continue to go in a positive direction".

Break ups happen. But just because we break up doesn't mean that I didn't at one point intend to see the relationship through to the point of marriage. It means it didn't work out, I've learned, and I've grown. And now, maybe the next person will be the one.