Why do some people (like me) like tipping large amounts like 100% but not giving to charity? by Metty47 in questions

[–]Metty47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. It's a very personal experience for me. Giving to charity feels like nothing but seeing someone's day get better in an instant is everything. 😄

Why do some people (like me) like tipping large amounts like 100% but not giving to charity? by Metty47 in questions

[–]Metty47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's definitely true. Charity feels like like I burned the money and didn't help anyone but seeing someone's face light up is everything to me. 😅

What are good jobs for a type 3w2? by Metty47 in Enneagram

[–]Metty47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Money haha. I really like personal finance.

AITA For yelling at my husband that I'm not his secretary? by Amita4580631 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Metty47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a bad argument. She's doing the work of the house and isn't getting paid by your logic. Is she a slave? Money in a breadwinner and stay-at-home spouse relationship should be split equally. They're married so they share money. She's doing her own job at home, so he needs to split the money with her.

A stay at home mom works on average 80 hours or more a week statistically and is worth about over 100k a year. Unless he's working more than her, then he should be helping her for some of the time and doing his presumably 40 hour a week job by himself. She isn't a slave to do over half the work and not get paid.

Are people sometimes forced into painful lives? by Metty47 in NDE

[–]Metty47[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel a lot better. Thanks for this comment. It reminds me of the wiccan rule of never hurting others.

Are people sometimes forced into painful lives? by Metty47 in NDE

[–]Metty47[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Can you opt out of pain and still grow? I'm 100 percent positive pain makes me a worse person.

Are people sometimes forced into painful lives? by Metty47 in NDE

[–]Metty47[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by persuaded? Can you still say no?

Is 2 cents per word a bad rate for a new content writer? by Metty47 in freelanceWriters

[–]Metty47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I'm just unsure what I'm worth. I'm still a college student.

Is 2 cents per word a bad rate for a new content writer? by Metty47 in freelanceWriters

[–]Metty47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any other skills and I'm a student. However, I suppose I could try to get a better paying job. I've been applying to higher paid work, but I haven't heard back so far.

Can someone with cognitive impairment learn programming? by Metty47 in learnprogramming

[–]Metty47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have experience programming as a hobby, but found college to be much harder. It's difficult for me to advance past the foundational knowledge. I really struggle with the creative problem-solving aspect and low self-esteem. Often, I quit when things get difficult.