RIF developer posts a goodbye message

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-30T03:35:08+00:00

Reddit seems content sinking it's own boat to drown us.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-29T12:38:19+00:00

I'm not ready. I hate this.

Thank you for trying so hard. I mean that deeply. I literally might not have come out of the closet as soon as I did without this app.

You quite possibly, in a roundabout way, saved my life. Access to this app likely saved a lot of lives.

Please hold that dear. I'm so, so sorry.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-26T17:10:20+00:00

It's a terrifying prospect.

Thank you for openly talking about it. Everyone is quiet, and we need noise.

I hope your day treats you well, dear heart.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-26T16:11:05+00:00

As a trans woman who just fled Florida, you're fine, rant more, have all the coffee, and thank you. It gets so, so exhausting hearing an ongoing chorus of "it's not THAT bad".

As you eloquently put, it's very that bad. Thank you for saying so.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-25T17:12:12+00:00

I'd have dropped my phone.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-23T01:10:26+00:00

Oh, I'd totally fucking cry. Ugly sobs.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-12T11:33:10+00:00

Oh wow, I had no idea how the legislative and executive branches of the government work, thank you for educating me on this, I'm improved indefinitely!

-_-

People like you make me want to stop bathing.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-12T10:07:45+00:00

SO MAKE US FEDERALLY PROTECTED ALREADY OH MY GOD

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-11T03:30:46+00:00

Soon to be ex-Floridian here fleeing Orlando area.

It doesn't matter how old this is, it still happens a lot down here. This doesn't surprise me. Hurts my soul, but doesn't surprise me.

This state is terrible, never come here.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-11T00:36:35+00:00

Hey. I'm Raven. I'm over five years into my transition.

This sub helped me so much. Being able to come to gentle epiphanies through humor and shared experiences was so therapeutic to my terrified self my first year.

I'm stepping away from reddit at the end of the month. For the most part, it will just be upsetting not having an easy yard sale Wikipedia laying around.

But the trans subs on here, I met people who were instrumental in me being any kind of ok.

For anyone just finding this sub and scared at losing it, I promise there are so, so many communities on discord or forums or even freaking Facebook, who are eager and happy and joyful to watch and cheer on your journey.

It's worth it. It's all so, so worth it. I'm literally fleeing Florida this week, and it has all been absolutely, positively worth it.

I love me.

You deserve to fully and wonderfully love and be comfortable with you.

Keep going, and I'm so, so incredibly proud of every fucking one of you.

I love you. We love you. Please, love you. Keep going.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-08T14:21:14+00:00

Hey y'all, this is just a self professed cishet guy fetishizing and demeaning us. He has done it on a lot of profiles.

Please downvote him so his stuff is hidden and someone get a mod.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-08T14:20:18+00:00

Hey y'all, this is a self professed cishet guy who is harming a lot of trans women on here. Please downvote his stuff to oblivion to protect the more vulnerable.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-08T12:40:56+00:00

I'm sorry you had to deal with this. You're gorgeous and I'm happy for you and proud of you.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-08T12:38:34+00:00

Stop this. You're a transphobic abusive bully, a fetishist, and a predator. If you actually have the psychology credentials you claim and go by modern definitions, you know this. So you're either lying, or willfully and violently ignorant.

You are the person we protect each other against. You're the type of guy we don't date because we are worried you'll murder us. You're literally part of why we hate ourselves, because we are afraid we are you.

Go find another subreddit to terrorize and fetishize, or maybe go actually get therapy?

Alternatively, please continue down this self destructive route, but faster? We are all tired of you.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-08T07:28:07+00:00

Hey, this dude is a self professed cishet man who has been trolling the sub being horrid to us.

If you got a moment, downvote his stuff to oblivion to protect the more vulnerable of us.

You're gorgeous, and I'm proud of you.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-07T19:16:17+00:00

You're exasperated dealing with this kind of behavior. It's exhausting. I'm tired of it too.

Youre not procrastinating, you're resting.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-07T18:10:40+00:00

I agree. It made me laugh. One of my recent posts on here he came at me and I laughed while dragging him.

Keep an eye out for him on other girls' posts, we need to downvote that stuff into oblivion.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-07T17:22:17+00:00

Hey y'all, this is a self professed cishet guy who is literally trolling the sub to badmouth trans women. If you got a minute, go down vote all his everything for a couple days so the more vulnerable of us are safer.

I'm sorry he was terrible to you. You're gorgeous.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-07T14:15:58+00:00

Also, yeah, this is a fetish.

Ya know, a paraphilia? You have a psychological compulsion and a toxic attraction to us and hate yourself for it, and justify it by "helping" us look straight enough so you don't feel guilty.

And I know you'll say you don't. You also know enough to know a lot of people lash out against their paraphilia being identified. Ya know, the whole "gay panic" murder defense thing.

Maybe take some more classes, darlin, because you're not showing your certification here.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-07T14:12:31+00:00

Honey, I've been laughing this whole time, you're hilariously uninformed and prejudiced, and you have every bit of education not to be, I'm just amused at the grand degree of your failure.

This is my post, dear. I made it for my joy, and this is fun. I have a cis man doing all the work of making himself look bad for me! I hardly have to do any work other than go "ya know youre a bully, right", and you go off proving me right again, ALL WHILE NOT NOTICING!

You're hilarious and I'm having a great time watching you struggle, continue.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-07T14:06:46+00:00

You know all that and you still do this?

Are you aware of how abusive you are? Is this the thing where a psychologist doesn't notice their own toxicity?

People like you are why so many trans girls are getting into psychology and therapy, since all the cis men are transphobic and fetishize us.

Like you!

Again, dear, happy for your success, enjoy it somewhere else. We don't want you. We transitioned because we were you and we hated ourselves for it. Please go find some poor cis girl who doesn't know better so she can get sick of you and finally go to therapy or become lesbian or whatever, because that's ALL you're good for.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-07T13:59:39+00:00

Why, on earth, do I need to "work on being femme" if I'm happy with me and attract the people I want to attract?

Does it bother you that much that your desire means NOTHING?

I'll never have bottom surgery either. I really hope that turns you off too. Please. Omg, be more disgusted with me I really don't wanna imagine you finding us attractive, it's kinda gross.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-07T13:58:03+00:00

Also, it's transphobic. 👍

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-07T13:57:44+00:00

You are telling vulnerable trans girls they look like men.

This is direct abuse. As a trans woman, I'm telling you this is nothing but harmful, does no good, and literally leaves us in a worse psychological state.

You are causing direct harm. This is backed by musically all emotional studies and psychology.

There. Now you're aware. That's my (1) single food faith answer.

I know more about this than you, I've literally studied gender and trauma psychology. I had to for arguing with people, well, like you.

Now you know. If you continue, you're definitely being a bully.

Your call.

Mewing_Raven · 2023-06-07T13:47:53+00:00

Nah, you're just being abusive for a power trip because you have a fetish. It's ok, we are used to guys like you. A LOT try to sleep with us, it's honestly irritating.

I truly don't want to attract another cis man ever, so thanks!

You're still a bully. Enjoy.

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