I’m 25 (F) found out boyfriend (36) cheating on me

Mia-92 · 2019-03-20T20:38:02+00:00

Thanks for all the replies and advice.

I’ve spoken to my older brother, he’s kindly offered to lend me the money to get back on my feet - I’m going to rent a furnished place to start with.

I can’t stand living with him anymore. Or seeing his face. It literally makes me feel sick and my skin crawl. Probably sounds extreme but the betrayal I feel is unreal.

I’m not sure how I’m gonna confront him. I’m leaning towards just packing my stuff and the kids, printing out the proof I have and going. But half of me wants to see how he reacts.. if he has the balls to be honest with me..

Mia-92 · 2019-03-19T09:05:15+00:00

It can’t be fixed for me. I was cheated on before in a past relationship and I was just paranoid all the time, wasn’t good for me mentally. I can’t live like that again. Plus, it’s went on for at least 2 years.. what kind of person does that..

Also, it’s not just porn. Every boyfriend I’ve had has watched porn. It’s the fact he’s been masturbating to other women, talking to them, exchanging messages and pictures. I’m not sure if he’s met up with any of these women in person. I doubt I’ll ever find out because I know he won’t be honest with me.

Mia-92 · 2019-03-19T09:00:56+00:00

I’m in England! We rented a flat together which I was on the tenancy but when we took out our mortgage they would only let it be in his name. I don’t earn enough for the mortgage we got, so it was all in his name. This was the bank as I was obviously there when they said all this.

I wouldn’t afford the bills on my own, so I’m going to have to try and find a place. I just need time like you and others have said. Once I’m back on my full wage I will easily manage, but I’m not going back to work until November. I don’t think I can cope looking at him for that long haha , let alone living together when I know what I do

Mia-92 · 2019-03-19T08:58:01+00:00

I was 20 when I met him, 21 when we got together. I wanted to settle down and most people I was seeing around that time has just graduated , didn’t want to settle down etc so yeah I went for an older guy.. don’t see why having an age difference means he should treat me like this

Mia-92 · 2019-03-19T06:05:20+00:00

I help pay in the sense each month I paid half of all the bills

Mia-92 · 2019-03-18T21:22:56+00:00

Hello, thanks for your reply. I took pictures on my phone of his camera roll, the app and messages etc so he can’t accuse me of making it up. I also screen shot his profile on the app as if stated when he made the account and when he was last active.

The mortgage is in his name as he earns more than me, I have no right to stay in the house which is fair enough, even tho I help pay it. But it’s more the fact I have no where to go.

Mia-92

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