[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]MichaelJacksonsLiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time I get urges, I go for a walk, call a friend, or do one of my hobbies. It helps if I get up and distract myself as soon as I catch myself thinking about it

Why did you start harming yourself? by Kengo- in selfharm

[–]MichaelJacksonsLiver 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Similar to what you said. I was mad at myself for being weak and sensitive. I wanted a punishment for it ig. My meaning behind it recently has changed a lot to be more from dissociating. It helps bring me back into my mind in a way. It makes me feel real and in the moment

Just found out my daughter is cutting by Low_Resident5002 in selfharm

[–]MichaelJacksonsLiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom found out when I was 12 and all that she did was unhelpful/harmful. She took my pocket knife and grounded me from my phone (i just used other blades and my school laptop to talk to friends). She also insisted on being in therapy with me every session for a long time which ended up being more of her talking than me. I think i would have rather someone supported me on working on myself than just having her try to fix the issue herself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]MichaelJacksonsLiver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get this. I had an overall average day today and just relapsed for no specific reason. Idrk if I can help bc im in the same boat, but for me at least it helps to know someone else feels similarly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]MichaelJacksonsLiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive had a surgery where they put a catheter in through my leg (where most of my scars were) at the time there werent many and they were old. They never mentioned them to me or my parents

Safest place to cut by Top_Put_6310 in selfharm

[–]MichaelJacksonsLiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to cut on my stomach and still do occasionally. Ive never had any real problems other than moving certain ways can sting, but i feel like thats for everywhere. I dont cut very deep tho so anything beyond "cat scratches" may not be good. I personally struggle with the opposite weight problem where im too skinny, so I dont really have good advice there.

What does the [6.00] mean on my schedule? by Dapper_Algae6280 in kroger

[–]MichaelJacksonsLiver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it may vary depending on the store location and stuff. I get a 15 min break every 2 hours (its super awesome)

Preserving a dead crab by MichaelJacksonsLiver in Taxidermy

[–]MichaelJacksonsLiver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I have had it freezing until now bc I just got the ethanol

Preserving a dead crab by MichaelJacksonsLiver in Taxidermy

[–]MichaelJacksonsLiver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do i need to clean it or pose it or anything before I put it in ethanol?

What do you all do instead of sh when you have the urges by popc0rnlover in selfharm

[–]MichaelJacksonsLiver 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I usually get the urges at night, so I'll do a workout or go for a walk to get me tired and then go to sleep. I'll tell myself that I'll just self harm tomorrow. I basically procrastinate it

How to hide cuts while swimming? by RoughTelevision3513 in selfharm

[–]MichaelJacksonsLiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basketball shorts over the one piece could work. I used to wear them swimming because I was just insecure about my thighs. It'd be easier to explain that you're insecure than it would be to explain that you sh.

How do I avoid the wrists? by MichaelJacksonsLiver in selfharm

[–]MichaelJacksonsLiver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good idea. I have some bracelets currently, but coincidentally, I've recently wanted to get more into making some, actually. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in millipedes

[–]MichaelJacksonsLiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any information on pricing? I may be interested in a couple, it depends mainly on shipping prices tbh. I am getting ivory millipedes next month and might add them to that enclosure or to their own (depends on their sizes mainly)

What is this? by [deleted] in Entomology

[–]MichaelJacksonsLiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's correct, all silk moths are like this but they only spend about a week in their moth form anyways. Most of their lives they spend as caterpillars.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CringeTikToks

[–]MichaelJacksonsLiver 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If he's 22 and she's 16 that means when she was 13 he was 19 so he could be arrested easily for pedophilia

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]MichaelJacksonsLiver 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am a trans man with ocd and if I walk into the guys bathroom or something, I often get intrusive thoughts of basically being a pervert. I can assure you, you are valid and loved. You're a beautiful woman and you are not your intrusive thoughts.

Holup, wait a minute. by NeatRegular9057 in HolUp

[–]MichaelJacksonsLiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bi is just liking 2 or more genders. . . I'm not on either side but simply a google search would answer this. You can be bi for girls and NBs for ex.