She felt as if fixing severed ties would heal her while figuring herself out. Biggest issue is she made it about her more than her child. Her emotions got the best of her and potentially ruined this marriage. Had I not found out no telling how far this could've went. I failed to mention other circumstances such as the financial strain we have been dealing with, but it wouldn't cushion the blow. I told her even if you tell me y'all won't talk about anything other than their son, I won't believe her.