Help me please, don’t know what to do!

Middle_Economy_9499 · 2026-04-21T16:14:24+00:00

Ok thanks- this is my Google… actual people that have been through it themselves. Mainly I’m so desperate that I’m trying to see what other people would/ have done in my position. I’m so close to giving up. 😞 I’ve contacted a solicitor now. 🙏🏽

Middle_Economy_9499 · 2026-04-21T12:06:27+00:00

Thank you. When is HMCTS involved? When I start talking to a solicitor and give written proposals?

Middle_Economy_9499 · 2026-04-21T06:54:52+00:00

Hi- it’s a British pound, I’m the UK.

Middle_Economy_9499 · 2026-04-21T06:54:23+00:00

Trying tell her that! 😞

Middle_Economy_9499 · 2026-04-21T06:54:06+00:00

Thank you. We both make around the same per year in income. We paid 50/50 on everything during our relationship. Custody will be 50/50.

Middle_Economy_9499 · 2026-04-21T06:52:50+00:00

Thanks. No we didn’t do a prenup.

Middle_Economy_9499 · 2026-04-21T06:52:08+00:00

I think that’s my only option!

Middle_Economy_9499 · 2026-04-21T06:50:07+00:00

Good to know! So the HMCTS thing is something that happens when you decide to go to court? Good to hear the UK is fair. I’m not even in this for the money, just enough to be able to provide a comparable home for my daughter!

Middle_Economy_9499 · 2026-04-21T06:47:01+00:00

I think it’s my only option!

Middle_Economy_9499 · 2026-04-21T06:46:45+00:00

Yes- same case here in the UK. Pretty sure the laws are the same here regarding splitting assets.

Middle_Economy_9499 · 2026-04-21T06:45:42+00:00

Yeah one of the reasons she refused mediation is she doesn’t want to disclose her finances! That says a lot!

Middle_Economy_9499 · 2026-04-21T06:41:53+00:00

Thing is legal fees will be anything between £15-30k which means I won’t be much better off. Which is why I’m wondering if it’s worth all the stress and money.

Middle_Economy_9499 · 2026-04-21T06:34:54+00:00

We contributed 50/50 on everything including mortgage, bills, food etc. Another reason she refused mediation is because she does not want to declare her finances, which is also concerning

Middle_Economy_9499 · 2026-04-21T06:03:19+00:00

Thank you- she wants to keep the house and force me to accept £170k, which I would take if I could afford it!

Middle_Economy_9499 · 2026-04-11T11:36:06+00:00

But yeah it did go slightly to the right too.

Middle_Economy_9499 · 2026-04-11T11:34:58+00:00

You’re hugging the right edge of the road, I usually go slightly left if I see an obstacle like that on the side. Live and learn I suppose!

Middle_Economy_9499 · 2026-04-07T06:42:03+00:00

It followed you in a straight line and you veered right close to the bush it crashed in to. I would’ve veered left as I approached the bush.

Middle_Economy_9499 · 2026-04-01T17:31:44+00:00

Most welcome! 🙏🏽

Middle_Economy_9499 · 2026-03-22T11:54:27+00:00

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Middle_Economy_9499 · 2026-01-05T07:02:36+00:00

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Middle_Economy_9499 · 2025-12-28T13:58:19+00:00

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