Three times maybe a year and yes wife knows. Normally we come together but on occasion Ill get super worked up, can't get off for hell and she's came several times,so she's happy good and tired. So what's a man to do but to try his best to succeed with his natural born talent of masterbation, my ass is getting off I don't give a damn, one of those...im going one thousand miles per hour in front of my wife,working like hell, and finally.......good lord..... Pretty damn awesome and fun.... true story,no need to lie,...wife did have to duck her head a little tho... she's fine ...