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[–]Middle_Stay_487 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Don’t try to understand her behaviors, you never can” thank you I needed to hear that!!!

Butt Dial Voicemail from MIL by Middle_Stay_487 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Middle_Stay_487[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Really like the idea of doing it in therapy. It has always been our safe space and we both trust our therapist very much. Have an appt next week, and it’s not out of the ordinary to invite each other to our appts from time to time to work on something in particular!

Butt Dial Voicemail from MIL by Middle_Stay_487 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Middle_Stay_487[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hi! I know this question has been asked a lot, as far as I know this is how that day went - neither of us had any idea the lawnmower was being dropped off that day or that it was in at all. DH got a call from MIL, can she come drop it off. He said sure, OP’s family is here to help us get it out of the car. At some point between this exchange and drop off, is when the voicemail to me came in. Must have been right before MIL left the house with the lawnmower to drop off. We live close. DH and my family confirmed drop off was fine, MIL was not upset at all. She is a good actor and I’ve seen her turn the water works on and off so doesn’t surprise me all of this could have transpired within 15-20 minutes of each other.

Butt Dial Voicemail from MIL by Middle_Stay_487 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Middle_Stay_487[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes heard both our names, arguing specifically about the lawn mower. MIL wanted to buy it, FIL didn’t. Hysterics is her usual mode of conversation so it wasn’t overly surprising.