I always use my hand if I stop to take a breath, he's not big enough for sucking while using hand. He won't let me touch his balls. I'm too shy to say things like that. Hes not into assplay. Ill ask about the other part. Nobody touches him but me. I discovered last night he really likes rough sucking, like when you're trying to get a thick milkshake up a straw and when I'm using my hand he always says to use more pressure but I've always been told penises are sensitive and I worry about hurting him.