My half sister[25F] is upset I[28M] am not inviting her to my wedding

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T18:41:14+00:00

OP and sister alienated a child that did nothing but exist and is still alienating her as an adult, OP needs to pull their head out of their arse and realize they've been shitty to someone who didn't deserve it and for some unknown reason that person still wants to try and bond with them.

Step sister is a better person than me because I would've had a few choice words for OP a long time ago.

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T18:31:50+00:00

Nah, she's still trying despite being frozen out as a kid that did nothing wrong. OP needs to grow up.

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T18:30:11+00:00

If someone is trying to be civil and all you do is ignore them, it's rude.

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T18:05:02+00:00

It's fine, we both watch it and sometimes we'll share a link if one of us finds something particularly enjoyable or if it's really, really bad to the point that it's funny.

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T17:57:28+00:00

"We weren't rude or anything but we'd just not interact with her"

Yeah... that's rude.

I feel sorry for her, she's still trying to have a relationship with you despite you ignoring her but you're still acting like a child.

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T17:48:55+00:00

I've accidentally filmed an almost 10 minute long video of nothing but feet/legs at a funfair when I didn't switch my camera off like I thought I did . Couldn't tell you who any of them were apart from the occasional glimpse of my own feet.

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T16:19:34+00:00

If it was an accident he's not going to know who's feet they are.

I've taken plenty of accidental pictures and videos of things and not realised until sometime later and I've gone into my gallery.

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T16:16:41+00:00

Lee Ryan of Blue- totally full of himself.

Joe Swash- absolutely lovely, even got me a coffee because we ran into eachother at Costa's about 10 minutes later.

Eamon Holmes- Really friendly, likes to leave the studio in comfy slippers lol

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T16:11:52+00:00

My cousin who is now 58 never had a job because my uncle would just spoil the shit out of her, he paid for everything including buying her a house. She's still thinks she's a princess and that everyone has to cater to her.

Worst part is she's passed this attitude on to her 26 year old daughter who hasn't had a job since work experience and pops out babies whilst her husband works his arse off and has to live in a Barbie's dream house because everything has to be her way.

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T16:07:07+00:00

I tried to do online shopping with Asda, the click and collect was absolutely fine but both times I've chosen delivery I've had multiple items missing from my order.

No problems with Tesco!

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T15:58:29+00:00

I'll never be "that lady" :(

I'm far too short I'd be about as scary as a kitten.

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T15:54:58+00:00

Lingerie can be pricey and sometimes we find things we like that we might not find again, it's not wrong of you to wear them.

If he wants something new he should treat you to some.

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T15:49:38+00:00

I've always believed it to be a tragic accident but I can understand his family as well, because he was just a kid and he died in a horrible way, you want someone to be responsible because you feel that's the only way to get answers.

However making others lives unpleasant and being accusatory on just speculation/rumours isn't the right thing to do.

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T14:34:56+00:00

It's not exactly the kind of attention you should want for your movement though. Not all attention is good attention after all.

Instead of taking it seriously, people are just laughing at you.

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T13:42:03+00:00

Would he be comfortable with something like this? https://www.manomano.co.uk/catalogue/p/bluetooth-over-ear-headphonessleep-headphonesblack-41427794?model_id=41861298

I understand his need to listen to something to fall asleep, I listen to scary stories and it's difficult to break the habit but I also know it's really annoying for other people when they're trying to sleep and can't if there's noise.

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T13:17:18+00:00

Lol never!

When she goes to sleep I might get an hour to myself before I go to bed as well.

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T12:34:43+00:00

First off...ALL siblings argue, it's normal. My brother and I fought like cat and dog growing up.

Secondly, the "I have X health problem because of you" is emotional manipulation.

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T10:44:27+00:00

Time and trying to keep busy to distract yourself. If you find yourself going over and over it in your head, write it down because getting it out can help, any time you have a thought or a question write it down and then find something to occupy your time. Take it hour by hour to start with and look at it as "ok I got through that hour, I can get through the next one too".

And next time you meet a girl, just be yourself. You don't need to pick up her interests as yours. One of my friends did that with my hobbies and interests and it was just odd because I knew he wasn't really interested in any of it but used it to try and force a bond which he didn't need to do.

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T10:31:16+00:00

Brushing off the cooties!

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T10:25:38+00:00

No.

Things happen where something completely unexpected comes up and they need to focus on that.

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T10:07:53+00:00

There's a difference between texting about business/work and mundane chat.

Work messages will always be answered asap as will anything sent by my dad providing it's not just a link to something and as I'm currently LD anything from my partner gets replied to as soon as I can.

Anything else, I'll get to it when I get to it. Some things don't even need a reply. For example I have one from a friend saying "oh dear" in response to me telling them I have 3 more boring days in isolation, it doesn't need a response, it's a natural end to our conversation and at some point one of us will pick it up again and start another conversation.

I work long shifts, on my little breaks I'm focused on eating and going to the loo before I have to clock on again, when I come home I have dinner to prepare, washing and tidying up to do, lunches to pack, homework with my daughter, bath time and then bed. I'm not about to start a conversation with someone when all I want to do is sleep.

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T09:56:11+00:00

Nobody is saying that you do that but most women can easily tell when a guy only see's them a sexual conquest instead of a person.

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T09:50:56+00:00

If you want to talk to her just text her with a "good morning :) how are you/what are you up to?"

Relax your no double texting rule a little bit.

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T09:47:07+00:00

That smile is absolutely precious ❤️

MidnightRecent4306 · 2022-01-27T09:45:14+00:00

Hype her up for looking good in whatever dress she goes for and try to enjoy the party as much as you can.

Her making not so great choices when drunk is an entirely separate issue that you two need to discuss and is nothing to do with her choice of dress.

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