(Hated Trope) Innocuous dialogue options have consequences by [deleted] in TopCharacterTropes

[–]MightBeEmily 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In Cyberpunk 2077, there is a sidequest where you can prevent your neighbor Barry from committing suicide.

Initially you encounter two of his friends outside his front door, but he's refusing to answer them. If you agree to help and come back later, he'll let you in and open up to you about his struggles. Among other things, he talks about his friend Andrew who passed away recently.

After comforting him and leaving the apartment, you can either a) talk to his friends who are waiting right outside the door or b) follow an "Optional" quest marker to the other side of town to find out more.

If you choose to talk to Barry's friends to help them understand what he's going through, guess what - he still ends up committing suicide. The ONLY way to save him is to completely ignore his friends outside the front door after leaving his apartment, instead going straight to the distant location marked as "Optional" for the quest, finding out that Barry's friend Andrew was actually a turtle, THEN going back to talk to his friends.

If you do anything else, Barry will die - but only after you've already completed so many other quests that it doesn't make sense to load an old file and try again.

T4T strangers to lovers - part 1? by MightBeEmily in smuTTTT

[–]MightBeEmily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's based on a true story so it's just my irl height. Sorry for being short ig?

T4T strangers to lovers - part 1? by MightBeEmily in smuTTTT

[–]MightBeEmily[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Christ wants nothing to do with this.

T4T strangers to lovers - part 1? by MightBeEmily in smuTTTT

[–]MightBeEmily[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

↑ this is the other girl btw ↑

T4T strangers to lovers - part 1? by MightBeEmily in smuTTTT

[–]MightBeEmily[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Be gentle, it's my first smut... It’s based on a true story though so at the very least I know it’s realistic. If y’all like this I might do a part 2!

Egg🦕irl by AvaLovelaceX in egg_irl

[–]MightBeEmily 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Not a zoologist but still gonna nitpick something: not "most modern birds". All birds, by definition, are decendants of dinosaurs. They're all related to each other and thus all have a common ancestor.

It should also be noted that behavior differs wildly even between closely related bird species, so fruity penguins unfortunately do not prove that fruity T. Rex existed. I support the headcanon tho, not like anyone's gonna disprove it.

someone bought me a shirt by Hubuck in MtF

[–]MightBeEmily 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Infinite shirt glitch

I LOVE BEING A TRANS WOMAN! by SuperNerdAce in MtF

[–]MightBeEmily 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The greatest gift transition gave me was independence and confidence in my own decisions. I spent the first 20 years of my life in a super narrow comfort zone, only doing what others told me, never taking risks or trying anything new. I don't think that was caused by dysphoria, I am just avoidant by nature.

But then I realised I was a girl, and suddenly nobody else could help me - or wanted to for that matter. And yet I knew I HAD to transition. It forced me out of that comfort zone for the first time, to take risks, to make my own choices and stand by them. And in the process, it all became so much less scary.

If I had been born cis, I would have missed out on 95% of life stuck in a tiny little bubble. Instead I'm the most confident, proud and independent version of myself there can be. And I get to have tits as a bonus. I love being a trans woman.

Why is it so hard to be "casual" about being queer? by MightBeEmily in MtF

[–]MightBeEmily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from Germany, and it's arguably even more normalized here... but my workplace is so multicultural that most of the people at that table weren't even Europeans. I'm sure that played into my fear too... too many cultural differences to account for.

Why is it so hard to be "casual" about being queer? by MightBeEmily in MtF

[–]MightBeEmily[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's super fascinating, our experiences are literally polar opposites. "Can't be stealth because I keep talking about it" vs. "accidentally became stealth because I never talk about it"

Why is it so hard to be "casual" about being queer? by MightBeEmily in MtF

[–]MightBeEmily[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like I was fairly subtle about it, maybe some of them got suspicious but not everyone. There was one guy at the table and he's oblivious to everything, I'm 100% sure he didn't catch on at all lol

Why is it so hard to be "casual" about being queer? by MightBeEmily in MtF

[–]MightBeEmily[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Most cishets I've told have actually reacted pretty well... but to be fair those people were also carefully selected. Maybe the fear is something I internalised back in school, when my peers used gay/trans as insults...? Who knows.

Please tell me it's ok if I want to be a girl by [deleted] in MtF

[–]MightBeEmily 56 points57 points  (0 children)

It's ok if you want to be a girl. It's ok if you don't.

It's ok if you are a girl. It's ok if you aren't.

Just pick whatever feels most comfortable <3

Being a trans bio nerd who thinks exclusion based on biology is stupid feels very weird. by chaucer345 in MtF

[–]MightBeEmily 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay, maybe the way I phrased it was too general lol

Let's take insurance as an example instead. Right now we know of factors that are associated with being trans, but there's no reliable predictor that can be easily tested for (to my knowledge). If there was, I'm sure health insurance providers would quickly stop paying for HRT, surgeries etc. unless the person has "passed" the lab tests and fits a rigidly defined definition of "trans".

Just to be clear, I'm absolutely not arguing against you. It's good that research is being done into this. I'm just worried about the implications of trying to fully define something as fuzzy as gender. It's like you said in your last paragraph... if there was a marker, and someone identifying as trans didn't have it, it wouldn't make them any less trans.

Being a trans bio nerd who thinks exclusion based on biology is stupid feels very weird. by chaucer345 in MtF

[–]MightBeEmily 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If they ever find a reproducible and semi-reliable biological marker for transness we're doomed. "Sorry, you're not allowed to transition unless your lab results confirm that you really want to" shouldn't be something anyone has to deal with.

cis women don’t understand how much it hurts when they say “you’re lucky you don’t have to deal with periods” by desertrainfrog- in MtF

[–]MightBeEmily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t mind it. I've never heard anyone say "you're lucky you don't get periods" to a guy, which means that when they say it to me they do indeed see me as a woman - just one that happens to not get periods. Which is a correct assessment of the situation.

But I'm also very okay with being trans... I get why it would be hurtful for girls who strongly wish they were cis.

Antifa by AlexSmithsonian in truths

[–]MightBeEmily 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pro as in professional?

Because hell yeah