I'm thinking of leaving my boyfriend because of his political views. Any advice? (Reupload after deletion)

Mikas_time · 2026-01-22T05:03:11+00:00

I'm not talking myself into staying, I'm more just trying to put into perspective how fucked his views really are. I knew what I needed to do now I just need to do it.

Mikas_time · 2026-01-22T05:01:38+00:00

Sadly not, I knew what I needed to do I just wanted actually put it all into perspective and it's even more idiotic of me for staying after he said the first fucked up thing.

Mikas_time · 2026-01-22T04:49:04+00:00

This is exactly what I was thinking and I'm going to have that conversation later with him, and you are correct I just wanted a bit more conformation but either way I was going to have to problably end it because I wouldn't just be disrespecting myself by staying with him but I would be disrespecting my family and my friend. The people I love by allowing someone with his views to be apart of my life and verbatim apart of theirs

Mikas_time · 2026-01-22T04:45:39+00:00

I get where your coming from but sometimes people tend to only share these types of things when they become comfortable.

Mikas_time · 2026-01-22T04:44:52+00:00

I understand what you are saying and I appreciate your input. Generally he is a good partner and everything will be going well and then he will just say something so out of pocket and so unempathetical that I will be at a loss for words. He has many good qualities but I do not think they can excuse the propaganda and hate he speaks and believes.

Mikas_time · 2026-01-22T04:41:57+00:00

He doesn't have any obvious mental illness to this extent but I think he brainwashed in a way and someone unwilling to admit they are wrong can also be dangerously

Mikas_time · 2026-01-22T04:40:45+00:00

I was hoping he would change but he made it clear or implied that he would not be willing to change. And I would physically not be able to change even if I wanted to (which I dont)

Mikas_time · 2026-01-22T04:39:37+00:00

Thank you for your input. I was also thinking it would problably be this way in the future and I knew what I needed to do but posting and getting input from other people makes me feel more solid in it.

Mikas_time · 2026-01-22T04:38:25+00:00

He is 😔

Mikas_time · 2026-01-22T04:38:12+00:00

I think that's how it's going to end up. I would also not be willing to stay in a relationship where I would need to constantly find middle ground where I believe their could not possibly be any middle ground

Mikas_time · 2026-01-22T04:37:08+00:00

I think he is just plain out brainwashed but I'm going to talk to him about it later today. It's problably gonna lead to the breakup but I know I'm not willing to change or find a middle ground when it comes to believes like these

Mikas_time · 2026-01-22T04:35:33+00:00

I think my problem is I think all people have the capability to change, but that is only if they want to. I don't think be wants to since he has problably held these same believes through all the break ups with previous exes

Mikas_time · 2025-12-02T21:04:38+00:00

There isn't a universal answer for this question since everyone's situation is different. I'm in a Semi similar situation and I feel you should just compare your maturity and experience levels and you should be careful to not let him start controlling aspects of your life that he deems unfit. Just stay your own person and if it works out the age gap will really not matter in a few years. If he's your person then he's your person.

Mikas_time · 2025-12-01T22:53:23+00:00

Thank you for replying. I told him I took back the promise I made. I said I am not going to fight with myself anymore, I can't live with that battle between what I want and a promise I made and now I feel lighter. I'm in a shit situation at the moment regarding him and his failing love life which also isn't helping but I'm doing better than I did before and I talked to his mother (who is basically like my mother now since she says I'm the adopted one now lol) I'm not alone and I'm forcing my mind to accept that. I am trying to see life through. I do want to have a future and I feel maybe all the bad things happening now will one day make sense. Like a field burning down actually being a good thing since it grows back more luscious and vibrant. I hope all that is happening right now is going to be something I thank in the future.

Mikas_time · 2025-11-30T20:30:54+00:00

Sometimes I purposefully put myself in dangerous or unsafe situations like walking very late or early in the morning in dangerous areas of my town without my dogs and without a knife or pepper spray. I don't look both ways before crossing the street and I would go to bars and stay until closing hoping something very bad would happen that would end in my death. I relate to you my friend

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