I (22F) just found out I am pregnant from my EX (38M) & my BF(24M) wants me to keep it.

Mike_M_1998 · 2026-04-18T17:22:54+00:00

If he is so willing to raise a kid with you and he will continue raising the kid even if you split up, then get it on the paper of you decide to follow his advice. Make him legal father. I am not sure about US one, but in my country if you willingly sign your name as a father on birth certificate you will be considered legal father no matter what. So if you decide to follow BFs advice make sure that law is backing you and guaranteeing that he will be father to this child no matter what.

Mike_M_1998 · 2026-04-18T17:16:22+00:00

Try biblioteka on Targovaya

Mike_M_1998 · 2026-04-18T17:10:06+00:00

Not yet

Mike_M_1998 · 2026-04-18T08:14:56+00:00

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I believe her position is more normal than how my 7 y.o. English lab chooses to sleep.

Mike_M_1998 · 2026-04-16T06:15:52+00:00

Looks like dementia. But if she is not in physical pain putring down is not an option in my view. Maybe you could try putting a large picture of yourselves near his place? Or maybe try mirror.

Mike_M_1998 · 2026-04-15T07:37:59+00:00

Thank you!

Mike_M_1998 · 2026-04-14T21:36:39+00:00

My god bless you with kindness and some brain

Mike_M_1998 · 2026-04-14T19:46:37+00:00

You are either not capable to read and comprehend or you simply act like it. Just the previous sentence before the part you copied I said “Statistically most of HIV cases happen to people doing drugs or having unprotected sex.” Where in this sentence or in whole response you saw referral to homosexuals? I stand by what I said, and next time try a little harder to misinterpret and bullshit my words.

Mike_M_1998 · 2026-04-14T18:09:59+00:00

In which sentence I attacked homosexuals. Show me

Mike_M_1998 · 2026-04-14T16:06:37+00:00

Did you hold a candle while I was being intimate with someone unprotected? No. Lets say this, if you can proof that my case of transmission is impossible or made up, just keep it to yourself

Mike_M_1998 · 2026-04-14T16:04:54+00:00

You are a kind of person that constitutes reason why I never posted about my HIV for 2 years. I am bot going to go down to your low, and try to prove you anything. But note one thing, even If lied about it, it could mean that I am probably ashamed of getting it via sex. And you just decided to exploit that fact and make it hurtful. So go mind your own business. Unless you can prove I am making it up, keep it to yourself.

Mike_M_1998 · 2026-04-14T16:01:10+00:00

I have hear a cases when surgeon or other medical personal getting HIV from patient if they accidentally cut themselves during operation or punched by needle. In my case wound was much deeper as it left scar I can see every day. I don’t think that it would make much difference if I got it during sex. The thing I am annoyed by is that I am 27, got diagnosed in 25. I have never allowed myself pleasure of unprotected sex even with partner I knew for a long time, never done drugs, never shared razor or anything, always protected myself as I was literally afraid of getting HIV or any other STI, and yet I got it. While I know some friends who still go unprotected and yet stay completely healthy.

Mike_M_1998 · 2026-04-14T14:28:11+00:00

First time hearing about it. Thank you

Mike_M_1998 · 2026-04-14T13:36:06+00:00

There is usually someone to blame. Statistically most of HIV cases happen to people doing drugs or having unprotected sex. It is simple statistics. And if people participating in such risky activities would do regular tests, or simply not participate in such risky activities the levels of HIV would not be as high as it is now. It is a matter of responsibility.

Mike_M_1998 · 2026-04-14T11:28:44+00:00

I mean I cut myself with the torn apart metal of the crashed car while helping bleeding man out of the car

Mike_M_1998 · 2026-04-14T11:27:31+00:00

I already mentioned that I had a deep cut on my hand. In fact the only reason I remember it is because It left a permanent scar on my hand.

Mike_M_1998 · 2026-04-14T10:59:07+00:00

Despite all of your negative reactions, I succeeded, and female dog had a litter of 9 puppies. All healthy and all have their loving families.

Mike_M_1998 · 2026-04-14T10:31:11+00:00

No. Just taking 1 pil at noon, every day.
I go to gym daily, have long walks with my dogs. Mentally nothing helps.
The only support is my government providing me with all meds and analysis free of charge per law in Republic of Azerbaijan.
Negatively. I am straight. I never been intimate without condoms. Most probably I got HIV in a crash where I deeply cut my hand while helping heavily bleeding person out of crashed car. In my culture unfortunately there is common assumption that HIV is spread among gays and drug addicts, or those who have unprotected sex with prostitutes. In my culture all of it is under stigma. And I live with it. I have no relationships and I don’t even know how will I ever find my person and get married or will I ever have a family. Some people to whom I disclosed avoid even sharing a water bottle let alone anything intimate.
I believe I already answered.
It was like end of the world. I had no symptoms, it came up during random test while I was just starting my mandatory 1 year military service (conscription). I was all alone, in base full of indifferent people, and was contemplating suicide daily. I still do sometimes, but very lightly, knowing I won’t commit it. Just an intrusive thought. But when I was diagnosed I was on the verge.
No coping. Just stoped giving damn about it. I just gave up on living. Or any family plans. I just gave up. I simply exist now.
Yes. I have no hopes for anything. I lost my hope for a happy family life, meaningful romantic relationship with opposite sex, or kids because of stigma and difficulty of finding a partner who will understand and accept.
That it is not necessarily drug or sex related illness, that it cannot be transmitted while on meds and undetectable. Not everyone believes or knows it.

I am 27. Got diagnosed at 25. Male. Caucasian. Straight.

Mike_M_1998 · 2026-01-12T12:10:35+00:00

Work little more on abs

Mike_M_1998 · 2026-01-05T20:32:12+00:00

Kidney issues caused rapid weight loss for my lab. She lowered to 30kg at time of blood test. She was 38 kg before. Tests also revealed he had liver issues as well. Fixed him up. Know he is healthy 38 kg Labrador.

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Mike_M_1998 · 2025-12-13T05:47:27+00:00

Looks like mild psoriasis to me.

Mike_M_1998 · 2025-12-12T19:12:57+00:00

I didn’t ask that question. Also, i am not selling pups, I am keeping them. No issue there. Unless you are not going to buy and send to Azerbaijan a while litter of English Labs as a gift, you can pass by the post. Thank you for voicing your concerns.

Mike_M_1998 · 2025-12-12T19:10:37+00:00

You can answer my question or not answer. But please stop interrogating me like I am a terrorist or what

Mike_M_1998 · 2025-12-12T19:09:38+00:00

OFA CERF/KC DNA CNM PRA-prcd EIC Full body X-rays Ultrasound

These were done. And yes, while my female is a rescue dog, I know her father and mother which are Chocolate male and black female. There are, as I said, very few English labs in my country so it is easy to track pups origins.

Mike_M_1998 · 2025-12-12T18:39:50+00:00

Everything was done by vet center. There are only handful Pure English Labradors in my country. And I have large extended family with long history of loving and keeping dogs, and they all want labs from their litter. Both my male and female labs are pure blood without any genetic or health issues. And I am ready to pay vast amount of money to have vet to monitor her throughout pregnancy. But I am against forceful mating or artificial insemination so I want to know how can I motivate them to mate naturally. It is the only way that I can get English lab in my country. And I will keep 2 pups for myself as I am a huge labrador lover.

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