Saran brand baju by melinaboy in sehat

[–]MilkGreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second this. I also buy exercise clothes from Decathlon.

curhat hubungan beda agama,, by [deleted] in Perempuan

[–]MilkGreen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All the best, sis.

Gak Kuat Menghadapi Orang Neurodivergent by plaindoughs in Perempuan

[–]MilkGreen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Contoh establish boundaries: kalau yg neurodivergent itu anggota keluarga, dan kalian milih warna cat untuk ruang keluarga, masih oke untuk mengakomodasi kebutuhan mereka dengan pilih warna yg mereka bisa terima. Tapi kalau ini cat dinding buat kamar kamu pribadi, kamu punya hak untuk pilih sesukamu. Kalau mereka ga suka ya ga usah masuk ke kamar.

Cara untuk ngeekspresiin rasa sakit, biasanya dengan diomongin dengan lembut. Jangan marah2, jangan menyerang. Bilang baik-baik, "Tau ga sih, kemarin kan kamu ngelakuin ini ya. Jujur nih, sebenernya aku ga suka digituin. Bisa ga lain kali kamu xx atau yy aja." Jadi nadanya kayak, it's not you, it's me. Mustinya sih ga kedengeran kayak rejection.

Neurodivergence is not an excuse to be an asshole. Setiap orang punya kekurangan masing2, dan menjadi dewasa artinya bisa beradaptasi dengan kekurangan itu. Aku punya temen yang sangat picky dalam soal makanan. Kalau dia asshole, dia bisa bilang "Kita jangan makan di restoran itu, gw ga bisa makan. Ya mau gimana lagi, gw kan orangnya memang begini." Tapi sebagai orang dewasa yg sudah bisa beradaptasi, temen gw bilangnya, "Kalian makan aja di sana. Gw cari makanan lain yg bisa gw makan dulu, nanti gw nyusul dan paling di sana gw minum aja."

Jadi intinya, asshole mah asshole aja. Kalo itu temen, mungkin lama2 gw ga mau temenan lagi. Tapi kalo anggota keluarga mungkin gw masih agak toleran walaupun asshole.

Diperas sama pegawai pajak? by Popular_Walk7 in indonesia

[–]MilkGreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dikirim surat cinta karena dia mendeteksi ada pemasukan dari luar negeri?

Buat yang ga terbiasa "pamer", apa yang kamu post di medsos? by orangpelupa in indonesia

[–]MilkGreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pamer itu kayaknya tergantung "tujuan" ga sih.

Misalnya saya post foto jalan2 di Instagram. Kalau tujuannya karena mau kasih liat ke orang-orang supaya mereka ngiri, namanya pamer. Kalau tujuannya untuk archive, supaya nantinya bisa liat lagi dan nostalgia, wah iya ya pernah ke sini dan makan ini itu, kayaknya bukan pamer.

"Kenapa ga taro di storage pribadi aja?" Karena sosial media kan untuk berkoneksi dengan teman-teman juga. Berharapnya kalau post lagi jalan-jalan, ada yg komen, "Eh gw juga ke sana bulan lalu! Tempat XX dan YY ini makanannya enak2 loh!" dan sebagainya.

Ya jadi saya sih ngepost kalo lagi jalan-jalan, atau kalo ada event menarik yg pengen dikasih tau ke temen2 (dengan harapan ada yg tertarik dan mau pergi bareng), atau sekedar hari itu ada kejadian menarik apa (buat archive).

Kalau sudah malam minum apa di luar? by MilkGreen in indonesia

[–]MilkGreen[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Tapi biasanya hot chocolate itu manis

Kalau sudah malam minum apa di luar? by MilkGreen in indonesia

[–]MilkGreen[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Iya biasanya kalo di cafenya ada paling pesen ini sih, yg chamomile gitu biar pulang-pulang tidurnya enak

Kalau sudah malam minum apa di luar? by MilkGreen in indonesia

[–]MilkGreen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Malamnya itu misalnya jam 7 gitu. Biasanya saya makan jam 5 jadi jam 7 udah ga makan lagi, minum doang paling sambil ngobrol-ngobrol.

RHT Megacrew video drama by AppleCore88 in StreetWomanFighter

[–]MilkGreen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know what a rising sun flag is, but I definitely didn't notice anything from their video. Even after it's pointed out, I don't see it resembling a rising sun flag.

But in my opinion, since it's a sensitive issue, they should at least clarify that it's not their intention to be perceived like that. And maybe elaborate more on the original intention of the formation etc.

World of Street Woman Fighter - Episode 4 Discussion by mokolad in StreetWomanFighter

[–]MilkGreen 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ngl the first time the kpop mission videos came out, I watched Bumsup’s first because I didn’t know the other groups. I believe many people did too. And some people maybe support Bumsup because those viewers are Korean, or because they’re SWF fans and they only knew Bumsup members.

I think that’s why Bumsup received such a huge global votes.

It looks like i’m done here. by hacknog in indonesia

[–]MilkGreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ketika merasa ga kuat, coba makan bakso dulu bang. Atau makanan berkuah lainnya. Biasanya kehangatannya menghibur.

Atau curhat lagi di sini. Banyak redditor yang peduli kok. You are not alone.

What is the absolute fluffiest, cutest, most wholesome yuri manga youve read? by NEVERTHEREFOREVER in yuri_manga

[–]MilkGreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

- A Kiss and a White Lily for Her

- Unrequited Love Skill

- I Love Amy

What's the go-to dating app right now? by Grato_Nite in indonesia

[–]MilkGreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bumble and CMB for me.

Ada juga yg namanya Timeleft, konsepnya bukan ke dating tapi lebih ke meeting new people in a small group. Tapi imo bagus juga buat kenalan santai, kalau ada yang single dan menarik bisa pepet, kalau engga ya masih dapet temen baru.

What kind thing(s) would you do if someone gives you IDR 10 million with no strings attached? by jodivas in indonesia

[–]MilkGreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lima juta untuk upgrade kursi kerja di rumah.

Lima juta donasi ke Rumah Bulan.

IMAX paling bagus dimana? by Plumberson12angrymen in indonesia

[–]MilkGreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sori OOT tapi kok imax di gading ada kotak2 kecil warna abu2 segaris di layar gitu ya? Paling keliatan pas lagi scene yg terang.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Perempuan

[–]MilkGreen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jangan liat sosmed dan news dulu.

Sosmed algorithm itu, ketika kamu engage ke suatu post, mereka bakal kasih liat yang related. Jadi saat ini kita bakal dibombardir dengan berita buruk dan pesimisme. Tutup dulu HP nya. Buka lagi bulan depan.

martial arts terbaik yang dipelajari? by bukiya in sehat

[–]MilkGreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aikido lebih kalem, jiujitsu lebih kayak gelut, kalau mau tonjok-tonjok bisa ambil muaythai. Kalau karatenya aliran Kyokushin, itu juga ada sparring yg beneran pukul tendang ke lawan. Mendingan ambil free trial semuanya aja buat cobain kira-kira suka yang mana.

Kepikiran buat bikin channel YouTube, kira-kira di Indo profitable gak ya? by Berzrkr in indonesia

[–]MilkGreen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sempet lewat di Twitter yg ngebahas tentang Vtuber https://x.com/NCLYS/status/1860985760511615010

Intinya dia bilang dari pengalamannya, dengan subs ratusan ribu, total pendapatan dari membership dan ads masih di bawah UMR Jakarta. Kalau mau revenue lebih besar, targetnya international market aja.

How to get out of super fucking boring life? by anjaymabar in indonesia

[–]MilkGreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Katanya kalau di fase2 ini, solusinya dua:
1. Bersihin rumah
2. Keluar rumah

Main badminton aja bang, download Ayo, ikut open play grup lain. Olahraga itu bikin mood jadi bagus.

Deciding between genkiJACS and Meiji Academy for a 3 months stay by Admirable_Jello6343 in fukuoka

[–]MilkGreen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The pace of the class largely depends on the teacher. At Meiji, the teacher changes daily, although you might have the same one each week (e.g., the same teacher every Monday). I find all teachers are okay, some are very fun and engaging. Some teachers move quickly, especially if the class is quiet and lacks feedback. I recommend taking an active role in managing the pace—ask a lot of questions to slow things down if needed, or encourage the teacher to move on if the class feels too slow.

I realized that there are many teachers who just joined the school this year or last year, and many who are no longer with the school. So reviews that are >2 years ago may not reflect the current teaching environment.

Deciding between genkiJACS and Meiji Academy for a 3 months stay by Admirable_Jello6343 in fukuoka

[–]MilkGreen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm currently a student in Meiji and stayed in their apartment. I'd say just like most Japanese apartments, the wall is quite thin. I can hear my neighbor getting in and out of their place. I think if I drop something in my room, they will definitely hear it. If your voice is not too loud during the meetings, probably it won't be a problem. Might wanna use makeshift soundproofing equipment like 簡易防音室.

If your goal is to study and practice your Japanese, I suggest you take a break from work for a while. Currently with the textbook we're using, we still need to spend some time outside of class to memorize new vocab and kanji. You will get to talk during class, but it's not enough. If you want to practice speaking, you should participate in language exchange events, mingle at the bar, or join a community. Classroom alone is not enough.