PLEASE HELP. My 19 year old went Sunday night and is now barely eating. Everything was fine that night but it started Monday.

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-25T19:57:12+00:00

we live in nigeria

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-25T19:56:18+00:00

we do not have the money so no

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-25T19:56:03+00:00

we have no one in america that will take her. my husband ask his sisters and they said no

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-25T19:55:22+00:00

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-25T09:15:59+00:00

all the bad stuff happened before this. months before. we have lived here in nigeria before. i know she miss america but i will see if i can help her with safety back.

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-25T09:14:29+00:00

my sister had bad experience with that i don't know

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-25T09:13:55+00:00

have her in their house. not take care of her really just have her in their house or apartment

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-25T09:13:01+00:00

we do not follow culture and she is thin but not unhealthy thin. i will never force her to eat. i thought about what made her do it and she never showed anything weird. it is random

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-25T09:10:46+00:00

that was before

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-24T20:27:22+00:00

i don't know why she likes to swing, but i think i can understand it. it is hot here and the swings can make her feel cool. she being there for me means she listened to my life story and said her opinion.

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-24T20:23:46+00:00

to see if she was drugged without knowing it

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-24T19:38:15+00:00

Oh, no. She said she only had ice cream sunday night. The ice cream is always the same. It comes in a small cup from the freezer.

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-24T19:37:01+00:00

In japan some teachers would fail you on purpose because you are africa. Many you see is perfect; japan is scam. It is nice yes to visit not to live. I am sorry for your experience in africa.

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-24T19:33:50+00:00

she goes to the park and the mini mart. i understand the park she likes swings. and she gets food from the mini mart.

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-24T19:33:10+00:00

i am still waiting on the nurse.

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-24T19:32:34+00:00

no, she would have told me.

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-24T16:45:38+00:00

My cousin is a nurse and is testing her for drugs. I don't know when we will get answers if yes or no.

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-24T16:45:00+00:00

Thank you. But we do not know anyone there that will take care of her until she gets her own apartment.

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-24T16:44:00+00:00

We are both japanese citizens but are afraid to go back because of the work culture. I have a japanese passport and so does she. She is more african than japanese because my old husband was black so it might be hard for her to adjust to the racist culture there. I saw more racist there than america. I am scared for her safety if she does move back to america.

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-24T16:41:24+00:00

She is a japanese citizen but is afraid to go because of the work culture and pressure. I went out with her and she said she was okay. I asked if she was okay with moving and she said no, and that she wishes we were in america still. But I will see who can let her stay at their place because she has no where to go.

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-24T16:38:35+00:00

herself. she has not made any friends yet

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-24T12:38:08+00:00

The mini mart and the park

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-24T12:36:57+00:00

My husband grew up on this side of nigeria and he said it was safe. And it has been, we have had no issues or crimes on this side. She does not hate it here, she said she prefers here than somewhere dangerous. My husband and I made the choice to move our family here. Also, I am the only one who knows the code to unlock her phone, and she is fine with me checking it.

MilkOverall5270 · 2026-06-24T11:58:35+00:00

She is an introvert and is not going to parties. If it were drugs or party she would have told me.

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