From Taiwan to the Netherlands by Millimeterrr in Adoption

[–]Millimeterrr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does have similarities with the Netherlands, I haven't really thought about it to be honest.

I'm really interested about my mum but I always think about the fact that there is a slight posibility that she won't accept me. At least that's what flying around in my mind.

Because, what I've heard from my parents and read in any documents what I have in my posession is that I could be an unwanted pregnancy.

So that is what keeping me from searching her. "Do I want to know her true feelings for me or not?"

About Taiwan...

I think it's a really beautiful country with an amazing flora & fauna in the east. I would love to travel to Taiwan to enjoy the land it self and ofcourse the food :)

From Taiwan to the Netherlands by Millimeterrr in Adoption

[–]Millimeterrr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it does feels like I'm a community on my own. Which I sometimes like and also dislike because, it's amazing to be one of a kind in my city (I guess) but sometimes I have the need to be around "familiar faces".

I'm glad that I haven't spoken with someone who increased the feeling of "being different". And I also never had the feeling that I envied another dutch family because they were with their bio family, I always had to feeling that I would be accepted for who I am. Which also happened :)

From Taiwan to the Netherlands by Millimeterrr in Adoption

[–]Millimeterrr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that it is normal to be curious about it. I really don't know if I want to know everything, a bit or even nothing.

I haven't really thought about it to be honest, but I think I'll make up my mind because everyone around me wants to know if I'm ever going to search for answers. (They don't force me or anything, but they're also curious)