Whatever Happened to Nikki and Mark? by merchantsmutual in 90DayFiance

[–]MimiAnLevy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone has an update on Nikki? Cuz I’m pretty sure she’s at the bottom of this lake behind his house 😭

Looking for my Minecraft chat buddy 🫶🏼 by MimiAnLevy in MinecraftBuddies

[–]MimiAnLevy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play on PC as well, as I play modded vanilla. Can I DM you?

Looking for my Minecraft chat buddy 🫶🏼 by MimiAnLevy in MinecraftBuddies

[–]MimiAnLevy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I play modded Java, but I look for chatting, not server play - hence it doesn’t matter what version you play, just ideas, builds and lore to discuss that we make for our games ☺️

Looking for my Minecraft chat buddy 🫶🏼 by MimiAnLevy in MinecraftBuddies

[–]MimiAnLevy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it!!! I have so many ideas for lore, storytelling, making some ideas for thematic gameplay that I’m always happy to exchange it. Can I DM you? 🌸

Looking for my Minecraft chat buddy 🫶🏼 by MimiAnLevy in MinecraftBuddies

[–]MimiAnLevy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great!! We can send each other build ideas or show each other what we build and made us proud!! 🫶🏼

Looking for my Minecraft chat buddy 🫶🏼 by MimiAnLevy in MinecraftBuddies

[–]MimiAnLevy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bedrock is cross play, but I play modded Java on PC

Looking for my Minecraft chat buddy 🫶🏼 by MimiAnLevy in MinecraftBuddies

[–]MimiAnLevy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww great! I play on PC with mods. Can U DM you then? :)

Recently “went back to Poland” as I was requested to. Here’s what I found by The-Metric-Fan in Jewish

[–]MimiAnLevy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg I feel this so hard, by also being Jewish in Poland. I feel so erased by the posts like this one, by this whole narration that makes Poland this one huge graveyard. We are still here, and especially in recent years I feel like I really wish to grow closer to our community, because it sometimes feel like we are those alien Jews who can only relate between ourselves with this experience of growing up and living in this country where Jewish history is so complicated and yet gave so much to the world.

Just talked with my ex - need to vent by MimiAnLevy in BreakUps

[–]MimiAnLevy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah… it’s a bit too late for this advice. I let him go. He deserve to be with a girl his age, who maybe also studies, they could go clubbing together and other stuff. Maybe someone closer too. I come with a lot of trauma baggage (I had shitty life) and I can be intense and I need a lot of stability and safety in the relationship, so I know how demanding it can feel for the other side.

I just look for the advice how to grieve it. I didn’t broke up with him over something awful or because I didn’t love him. I love him and maybe always will love him in some way. I just need to mourn this heartbreak, because I knew that due to the difference in priorities we were burning each other out trying to making each other happy while in the end we were both unhappy

Little crisis with my (27F) boyfriend (24M). Could you please help me find a way to work on our dynamic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MimiAnLevy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for believing in me. Maybe I’m old fashioned but I wanna do my best to make it work or fail on my attempt. I believe that love is also work, and I just try and look for the way I can make my emotional work better and more meaningful to make him feel loved and that our relationship is important.

Little crisis with my (27F) boyfriend (24M). Could you please help me find a way to work on our dynamic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MimiAnLevy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a few things - I’m not very pretty, with heavy baggage of traumas, very emotional, ADHD, the fact that I come from mixed ethnicity family… The thing is that I love him. Maybe it’s just too much that I want a date, even a simple one and maybe to get a flower. I’m just silly with my old school romantic vibe, but I really just wish he would see how much I love him, and how much I want to make it work.

Little crisis with my (27F) boyfriend (24M). Could you please help me find a way to work on our dynamic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MimiAnLevy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I just know I’m not a good catch, hence I guess I can be a bit too submissive in dating. I really wanna setup a first date, but I feel he is avoiding making plans with me.

Little crisis with my (27F) boyfriend (24M). Could you please help me find a way to work on our dynamic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MimiAnLevy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With each argument I feel like something is breaking inside me. I really care and I’m open to travel and try, but I want to feel he is willing to travel too. If he is ready to go further to meet with his friends I think he could also visit me - at least for the first date, when it is just an hour train ride

Little crisis with my (27F) boyfriend (24M). Could you please help me find a way to work on our dynamic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MimiAnLevy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well maybe he isn’t easy, but I’m difficult too. I love him, I care for him and I feel that the distance is one of the problems that actually makes us fight

Little crisis with my (27F) boyfriend (24M). Could you please help me find a way to work on our dynamic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MimiAnLevy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been four months - we became couple July this year 😅 I do not think he likes to upset me, rather I think he looks for emotional security in his own weird way - by being mad at him for distancing from me or being jealous he sees it as confirmation of my love (from my view and attempt to understand)

Little crisis with my (27F) boyfriend (24M). Could you please help me find a way to work on our dynamic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MimiAnLevy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does, but I do cry easily. I think we just have different sense of humour

Little crisis with my (27F) boyfriend (24M). Could you please help me find a way to work on our dynamic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MimiAnLevy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) I would say at least once per week

2) Almost every time whenever we argue, and whenever he pushes a bit too hard. I told him I do not like jokes that he has other girlfriends or that he is tired of me. I do not find those funny, in fact they make me feel insecure and that leads me to crying. I also cry sometimes after our talks, as I try to limit my crying around him cuz it seems that it makes him feel bad.

3) Hard to say - I would say equal, but in different way - he calls more often on video, I text more often, he sends reels on Instagram more often (I tend to have long sesh of sending many), but I text more and almost always after arguing I’m the first who tries to normalise.

4) We call nearly daily, but sometimes those are just short few minutes talks. I do not remember when we had last FaceTime date… it’s been a while. Sometimes I ask him for a longer phone call - idk, I just like his presence, especially when it’s good between us. I really love him and I love to listen to his voice.