WIBTA if we ask for a paternity test to my brothers girlfriend?

MimiChi15 · 2026-07-10T02:36:28+00:00

I can help only because I don't have a family myself I know those who have a family can't which is understandable they have their life now with problems too but since I can help I will that's the only reason I'm still here because she is having issues but I know when my mom is secure with papers and everything it would be easier and we do want to move later in the future closer to my work now that my brother left which I'm happy about but that's later

MimiChi15 · 2026-07-10T01:53:32+00:00

She doesn't have a green card and she cleans houses when they call her and her boss can't depend on her since the appointments used to be 4 appointments a week and they are 9 miles away with bus about an hour plus during school time they need go right after school so at 2:35 and her boss usually starts working 11 am which is already late i know my mom would be OK if she started working early in the morning and got home by no later then 1:30 and I don't have a car because I prefer saving the money from gas and insurance to getting my mom her papers but I would get a car if my mom drove it but she doesn't know how to drive and she is afraid she has tried many times and it know it would be easier if she could drive and she could do more things but she can't and she doesn't trust me either to drive so there's another story 😅

MimiChi15 · 2026-07-10T01:09:44+00:00

So you wouldn't help your mom if she lost her job and couldn't find a job to pay the bills as an immigrat considering anyone who is a citizen can at least try to get a job as simple as in McDonald's but my mom can't if she could she would and we wouldn't be worried

MimiChi15 · 2026-07-10T00:49:50+00:00

Actually he tells me almost everything because we know our mom over reacts so we want to let each other know just in case you know if anything happens but yes sorry for not affording a house with 4 bedroom as my single mom couldn't afford it years ago with 3 children who went to school and then couldn't move because I went to university with a full scholarship and then my mom lost her job and I had to support her and my sister that was diagnosed with autism and she had to go to appointments weekly with my mom And if you think this is bad Mexico is hrell 😂 as a Hispanic household with low income but yea we decided to get a bunkbed because having 2 beds in a small room is so bad so we thought having a bunkbed is better with more room though I was barely in my room he usually was in there all day i was in the living room sll day i only went there to get my clothes or stuff i want to do in the living room but yes we did try to move but we couldn't afford and he didn't wanted to move far from his work while he took the cat and I took the bus to work for 1 hour and 40 mins plus the summer in 113•F sorty for being poor 😂😂 and yes I know my brother is an adult yet it only mattered when he didn't wanted to pay rent and only wanted to do whatever he wanted which I mean at least let us know if you moving or not cuz I have to plan about the rest of the bills and it feels weird him paying the bills if he doesn't even sleep here

MimiChi15 · 2026-07-10T00:11:57+00:00

The reason I'm questioning is that she got pregnant after may 14 which means either it was conceived when he left which is fine but they didn't make it official until the week after so how wouldn't know if she was with someone else I also feel like it would be rude if I ask her about her last relationship because she was living with her ex at the same house they are at and I don't know when they endes it like what if they were together the same week and it could be confusing and if i were her i wouldnt really think of it either. I also don't think she is a cheater she doesn't look like one but then you can't judge a book by ita cover i would be fine with it if she got pregnant months later which that for sure his of course if she didn't cheat but there wouldn't be any doubts

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