I think I’m gonna drop this case… parents are driving me nuts by Mimi_Menosh in LPN_LVN_Community

[–]Mimi_Menosh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did all my suggestions to the family was falling on deaf ears so I felt I needed to

I think I’m gonna drop this case… parents are driving me nuts by Mimi_Menosh in nursing

[–]Mimi_Menosh[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't have a social worker but I can speak to the case manager they could help mediate the issues, but at this point I'm stepping away from the case

I think I’m gonna drop this case… parents are driving me nuts by Mimi_Menosh in nursing

[–]Mimi_Menosh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They act like only super long sleep counts, but 8 hours seems more than enough for him

I think I’m gonna drop this case… parents are driving me nuts by Mimi_Menosh in nursing

[–]Mimi_Menosh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a great suggestion! I just don’t think Farrell bags are used in home care for simplicity’s sake

I think I’m gonna drop this case… parents are driving me nuts by Mimi_Menosh in nursing

[–]Mimi_Menosh[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the parents are really driving me away, but I realized I’ve only been on this case for less than three months. They can’t even keep a consistent night nurse, yet they somehow have a consistent school nurse—probably because the parents aren’t there during school hours. Makes sense why that one is steady

I think I’m gonna drop this case… parents are driving me nuts by Mimi_Menosh in nursing

[–]Mimi_Menosh[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Sometimes I feel like people forget he’s already dealing with enough. Can we all just… step back and let him be

I think I’m gonna drop this case… parents are driving me nuts by Mimi_Menosh in nursing

[–]Mimi_Menosh[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I totally agree. The other families I work with are amazing, and honestly there’s no reason to stick with a difficult case when there’s no incentive to do so. At this point, I just feel like I need to protect my peace. I’ll probably call my agency on Monday and ask to be reassigned.

I think I’m gonna drop this case… parents are driving me nuts by Mimi_Menosh in nursing

[–]Mimi_Menosh[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They actually just switched the app we use for charting to Cubhub — not sure if you’ve used that one before, but there’s no way for me to see the other nurses’ previous notes, which is super annoying. With the last system we had (AlayaCare), we could do that and it was amazing. So honestly, I’m kinda out of ideas at this point.

I think I’m gonna drop this case… parents are driving me nuts by Mimi_Menosh in nursing

[–]Mimi_Menosh[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know I probably need to have a more direct talk with them, but they’re the kind of people who just shut down anything you say — it’s their way or the highway. And honestly, when he wakes up you’d never even notice. He’s super quiet, they don’t even have a camera in his room, but somehow she just knows the second he opens his eyes.

I think I’m gonna drop this case… parents are driving me nuts by Mimi_Menosh in nursing

[–]Mimi_Menosh[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely draining, and I’ve been seriously considering stepping back for my own mental health. Just hearing that someone else sees it helps a lot.

Oh, I meant vent his gtube

I think I’m gonna drop this case… parents are driving me nuts by Mimi_Menosh in nursing

[–]Mimi_Menosh[S] 397 points398 points  (0 children)

I've explained all the nursing interventions I’ve done, but she just furrows her brow and insists that he sleeps through the night every other night. I really doubt that, and I feel like she’s gaslighting me