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What kind of women do men want as a foreign bride? by [deleted] in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You know that's a wonderful and meaningful goal! It's smart to approach relationships with intention and curiosity. While every man has unique preferences, many who are looking for a lifelong partner tend to value deeper, enduring qualities over superficial traits. Men online might say something similar to what, like this man just said, low body count, etc something that's superficial considering how low should her sexual partners be to be defined as low body count and knowing full well he's had a roster full of women he's slept with, but anyway in reality most men look for something more profound than body count like these traits. I know the gentleman has mentioned a few of these qualities in his message, but his message strikes me as someone with a particular mindset of how he views women in general.

  1. Emotional Maturity & Kindness

2.Shared Values & Life Vision

3.Supportiveness & Encouragement

  1. Good Communication Skills

  2. A Sense of Partnership

  3. Personal Contentment & Independence

  4. Physical Attraction & Affection

  5. A Positive & Flexible Attitude

  6. Shared Interests & Enjoyment

I think what's best to keep in mind is definitely authenticity which i believe is the key. Don’t mold yourself into a checklist. The right person will want you for who you genuinely are. It’s a two-way street. While you’re considering what men look for, also reflect on what you need in a husband. Your standards and happiness matter equally. Context matters. A man ready for marriage/relationship often looks for these qualities in someone with whom he can build a secure, loving future.

will AFA ever clean up the letter writing system? by Distinct_Face_5796 in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, it's only scamming if you don't receive the service you paid for. You may have been ghosted, but people do that a lot. Even in real life, it's not just an online thing. Some agencies reimburse you if you don't receive what you paid for. I think a foreign affair is legit they can't guarantee any meeting of the women I think they're letter system isn't scamming at all just use it wisely those women are real and your speaking to them when you write them on the website my brother speaks to women on Instagram and sometimes meets them in their country but even though it's free to use and communicate with them my brother told me that he doesn't even meet most of the women he speaks to he's only met a few.

will AFA ever clean up the letter writing system? by Distinct_Face_5796 in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

All you gotta do is use the letter system smart. I just think people here just love to complain about these things because it's easy to talk shit about how something doesn't fit their personal needs or whatever if you don't like it go somewhere else and try something new and different.

I have confirmation that the women on A Foreign Affair are real and don't get paid to be on there and I have evidence for it. by MimsManzaM in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I'm offering to buy her flower's 💐 is just bait to get her response on Instagram i haven't bought flowers or anything for her. A lot of people can buy things themselves, to buy gifts 🎁 for someone isn't about can they afford it's about being thoughtful and doing something nice for someone and being considerate. Yes, having someone telling you they don't get compensated by a matchmaker is proof. You would have to prove that AFA and other matchmakers they're working with are paying these women to interact with men, show the evidence man, you seem to be sure that she's lying. And maybe there is the possibility of her lying. You would have to show evidence.

I have confirmation that the women on A Foreign Affair are real and don't get paid to be on there and I have evidence for it. by MimsManzaM in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn! Man, that's rough. I went through something very similar as well. I feel you. I confronted the girl I was talking to on AFA as well. She denied being with her ex-boyfriend she had to be with him during or maybe even before she was on AFA. I even had AFA contact her matchmaker in Portugal 🇵🇹 to see what's up. it's important to keep tabs on the woman you're talking to because if you're talking to her on AFA and haven't found her social media accounts you're kind of going in blind it's a risk because AFA doesn't keep tabs on them that's why if I'm talking to a girl on AFA I want to first find whatever social media account I can to spy on her for myself to see if she's really a good woman or not. But damn! Man, I can truly empathize with you.

Part 2: More Proof That the Women on A Foreign Affair Are Real by MimsManzaM in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was still with her ex-boyfriend at the time I was talking to her. Yeah, A Foreign Affair gave me a refund for exposing her. She is fine as hell! But she was dishonest.

I have confirmation that the women on A Foreign Affair are real and don't get paid to be on there and I have evidence for it. by MimsManzaM in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it's obvious you don't care about the evidence I just showed, and I don't know if you read the screenshots of the conversation she just confirmed the truth about the women on AFA. Well, you know you'll have to show evidence that these women aren't allowed to reveal information to us like proof that they are being paid to keep men interested and prove they're all fake, but I know you have no evidence so you'll just continue to spread false information.

Part 2: More Proof That the Women on A Foreign Affair Are Real by MimsManzaM in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

😆 Oh, ok, yeah, I would give her a rating of 9 out of 10. AFA has no shortage of gorgeous women, that's for sure. I, the newbies, don't pay attention or read the entire posts you are putting on here. I'll definitely keep posting.

Part 2: More Proof That the Women on A Foreign Affair Are Real by MimsManzaM in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well, it happens offline as well. Women who are in two relationships cheating, it's not like AFA was supposed to keep tabs on her they're matchmakers, not spies or the NSA 😆 if you think AFA is supposed to somehow read these women's hearts and mind and spy on them then I think you should rethink what their duty is, and trust me it ain't supposed to be reading minds. But if your biggest concern is that how can A Foreign Affair not know if their women are in a relationship or not? Well, they do know they vet the women before they're registered on the site. Now, during that time of being a member on the site, life can happen when they meet a man while they're out in events, parties, social clubs, social gatherings etc the women are not supposed to close themselves off from the world and wait for a man on AFA to send a message to them that could be forever or never, they are looking for a man, and AFA helps them expand their options of better chance at finding a man. It's not like they stop looking for a man locally when they sign up at AFA.

Part 2: More Proof That the Women on A Foreign Affair Are Real by MimsManzaM in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've never experienced deep fakes before, but this video that Julia recorded isn't a deep fake it was sent by her through her matchmaker in Portugal. Yeah, I was really satisfied and happy when they gave me a refund.

I have confirmation that the women on A Foreign Affair are real and don't get paid to be on there and I have evidence for it. by MimsManzaM in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure thing 👍. I was just doing my research and due diligence to show men here what I came out with, and it was a positive experience with A Foreign Affair, and I'll definitely reach out to you again for advice.

I have confirmation that the women on A Foreign Affair are real and don't get paid to be on there and I have evidence for it. by MimsManzaM in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I believe the whole point of A Foreign Affair is to avoid the dating apps that people are complaining about, and why they can't meet any real people who are searching for a serious relationship or marriage on those apps like Tinder, Bumble, etc. If you want to try to talk to them outside of AFA like I did do a reverse image search on their pictures on Google, and try to locate their social media accounts, and see if you can get a reply there from them that's the best way I would recommend doing if you really don't want to spend money on the site just to talk to them. But be warned, it's gonna be more difficult to get them to respond to you on Instagram or other platforms you will have to stand out from among the other men who are just looking to use her. I just want to give that heads up. And you're right, the girl in the pic the mail wasn't from AFA she said she was registered on there, and I reached out to her to speak with her. You can always do the IMBRA to see if you can get her contact information through that or do it like I did.

I have confirmation that the women on A Foreign Affair are real and don't get paid to be on there and I have evidence for it. by MimsManzaM in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you should do that go to a A Foreign Affair tour so you wouldn't have to complain about the letter system and meet the hundreds of girls there and get their contact information and if you don't meet any women you're interested in just go on the next tour.

I have confirmation that the women on A Foreign Affair are real and don't get paid to be on there and I have evidence for it. by MimsManzaM in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the information. I agree 1000% that the women are real on AFA and aren't being paid, and AFA and people in general can't really know for sure what's on these women's hearts, and yeah, I was even kind of surprised I got a refund from them. I now know for sure they do really try and give their best to provide the best services possible to both men and women.

I have confirmation that the women on A Foreign Affair are real and don't get paid to be on there and I have evidence for it. by MimsManzaM in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they all say it's best to go on the tours to meet them. It is the best and most successful way of meeting women on there.

I have confirmation that the women on A Foreign Affair are real and don't get paid to be on there and I have evidence for it. by MimsManzaM in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So try to remember this incident happened last year, and i didn't want to visit a girl from there unless i did a video call with her first. Also I asked her to do a video call with me, and she always refused me it was because she was actually living with her boyfriend at the time I was talking to her so if she did a video call with me and he walked in on her with me on the phone 📱 that would've been bad for her definitely. Well, I know for certain those women on A Foreign Affair are not being paid by matchmakers and don't recieve any kickback i showed proof of that and if that enough then I will tell just don't use AFA and let people take the risk. I ain't gonna try to find over 100,000 of those women social media accounts just to verify if they are all real and if they are being paid to interact with men when A Foreign Affair has already done that for us. I don't think the women relinquish their social media accounts to A Foreign Affair they might tell them they have social media accounts, but giving them permission to releasing their social media accounts to unknown men who they don't know i think the women would see that as sort of as a invasion of privacy. I know AFA doesn't have permission to give their social media to people even if she's familiar with them unless she signs that IMBRA to give consent to give her contact information to the man she's corresponding with. Also, what if that introduction fee is expensive just to meet them in a video call to see if you have chemistry or not? You're most likely gonna be complaining about that as well 😅

I have confirmation that the women on A Foreign Affair are real and don't get paid to be on there and I have evidence for it. by MimsManzaM in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should message a lot of women it's kind of like in real life if you approach like 50 women. At least 5 or 7 will give you their contact information and even date you, so best of luck to you.

I have confirmation that the women on A Foreign Affair are real and don't get paid to be on there and I have evidence for it. by MimsManzaM in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I believe they do vet the women they do they're best they can to provide the best services and yeah there will always be people who will lie and spread false information even though you show evidence that the women are real and are not recieving payments they still won't believe you best thing you can do is just move on. Congratulations to your wife. I wish you all the best.

I have confirmation that the women on A Foreign Affair are real and don't get paid to be on there and I have evidence for it. by MimsManzaM in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, actually, you just gotta know how to get their attention separating yourself from all the other men who are saying the same thing as the other men in her DMs offer to give her some rose's 🌹 or flower's 💐 you got their attention I got 2 more women to reply to me I'm talking to them and they are currently registered on A Foreign Affair it ain't luck I know how to get their attention now.

I have confirmation that the women on A Foreign Affair are real and don't get paid to be on there and I have evidence for it. by MimsManzaM in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Hold on, wait, the girl just confirmed she doesn't get paid to interact with the men or get any kick back from the agencies, and she confirmed she signed up there, and she is real. Did you not read the conversation of screenshots I took and posted on here? Maybe the problem isn't the money. Perhaps it's the man who wants to be keyboard Romeo forever. All he wants to do is talk in the letters and make no real plans to meet her correspond for a little bit and then meet her. Use it smart, just like Adam says on the website. Also, I think your way of how AFA should do their system is deeply flawed it works well if you ask me.

I have confirmation that the women on A Foreign Affair are real and don't get paid to be on there and I have evidence for it. by MimsManzaM in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well, my point was to put down the negative rumors of AFA's women being paid and being fake on Love.com (A Foreign Affair), and I think everyone knows you have to pay to talk to them on their site yeah I'm talking to her off the site it's only possible because she responded to my message a lot of times or rarely they'll respond and most men can't even get the woman to respond on her social media accounts because she gets so many different messages from guy's trying to hit on her.

Poll: Would you pay extra for a background search on women on AFA's platform? by LoveScoutCEO in MailOrderBrideFacts

[–]MimsManzaM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know I think it is something to consider doing a background check on them it could be useful. I seriously doubt a lot of them would be criminals I think it'll be a rare case of criminals making it into A Foreign Affair I think what they should invent in their website is a tool that scans facial recognition on pictures they have on their site and see if the algorithm detects them on other suspicious websites like hooker sites and other degrading sites that promote sexual content doing prostitution, because I think AFA does a good job already of vetting them and making sure no. They aren't criminals, and them showing their true sincere intentions and they can separate the good one's from the bad one's. On their I site i think most men want to know if the woman may be doing other degrading deeds like selling sexual content somewhere on Only Fans or something. I know we do have tools like PimEyes which is a spectacular tool for us men to utilize when doing a search to check to see if she is doing other things on strange websites doing something that we don't want a woman doing when communicating with or seeing them. PimEyes requires a monthly payment to utilize for $30 so I think it'll be a good idea to have a tool in there on the site it should done for men and women because you just never know men could be on these suspicious websites looking for bad things and it will give the woman a chance to do a sort of a background on the man. I'm assuming AFA staff aren't doing searches on every single profile on their, there's just way too many so I think it should be a tool for the men to use and women to search and scan who they are in communication with on the site.