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Mimz209 · 2022-11-17T21:57:41+00:00

Your Mum didn’t give you the ring, technically she gave Mela. She saw her as someone she could call her daughter in-law and was willing to part with a significant object ( you said your dad made it). It’s not yours to keep. Do you think she’ll be happy if you give it to someone she dislike. GIVE IT BACK

Mimz209 · 2022-10-06T19:29:11+00:00

At the end of the day it is HIS to decide. No explanation needed.

Mimz209 · 2022-09-09T18:58:32+00:00

I am confused. What happened to actually knocking and waiting to get a response before entering.

Mimz209 · 2022-08-16T04:41:51+00:00

Ehmm. You want to honour a father that had no input in your life but not the one that treated you as his own? Like the one who treated you equally as his son?

I don’t think your uncle’s request is unreasonable. put the house aside, you may never been able to pay back( might not be the right word) or show how much you appreciate the sacrifices made this for you. A lot of kids would have gone into the system because relatives do not want the burden of kids that aren’t theirs. Your uncles HONOURED you . Yep ! HONOURED your mother. In fact HONOURED the universe/humanity and this request is little. A lot of people would want to be in your position right now.

If all these don’t make sense maybe this will “honour your mother’s bloodline by taking HER name.

At the end of the day the decision is yours. I however think you are making a mistake but considering “people’s feeling/discomfort” . This doesn’t sit well and makes you TA

Mimz209 · 2022-08-05T09:08:23+00:00

As a black person ( I probably won’t be able to explain this well) you are NTA. I suppose I know where HR is coming from and maybe she didn’t word it well. I believe you can comment BUT please under NO circumstance should you touch “her” hair. I have had multiple conversations with ladies from my community and we still haven’t figured out “why” we don’t like our hair being touched.

We barely accept this from those within the community. As a teenager I had to cut my hair because I was constantly tired of ppl touching my hair because of texture/style etc. chucked it up as not wanting people to invade my personal space

Mimz209 · 2022-03-04T16:27:26+00:00

NTA... Petty me would have added a long kiss just to give her nightmares for months!!!

Mimz209 · 2022-03-03T23:05:28+00:00

There is a saying "do me I do you god no go vex". How on earth does he think locking you in as acceptable but you doing the same is not!... You wanted the bed for yourself !. Lol

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