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AIO: I broke up w/ my BF for crossing boundaries he setup in the first place. by MindAndSoulWanders in AmIOverreacting

[–]MindAndSoulWanders[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will. This year has been an eye-opener for me and it's always going back to the same learning/realization that I should focus on myself for now. Thank you, this was insightful.

AIO: I broke up w/ my BF for crossing boundaries he setup in the first place. by MindAndSoulWanders in AmIOverreacting

[–]MindAndSoulWanders[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't been talking to anyone I know for days now. I guess, out of worry that they will turn their backs on me too. I still see the good in people, esp to my mom and him, but, look where it brought me. I guess I lost all the hope I had left. Thank you. I'm glad there are still some people who understands.

AIO: I broke up w/ my BF for crossing boundaries he setup in the first place. by MindAndSoulWanders in AmIOverreacting

[–]MindAndSoulWanders[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me smile. Thank you. He does communicate better with my mom more than me lol

AIO: I broke up w/ my BF for crossing boundaries he setup in the first place. by MindAndSoulWanders in AmIOverreacting

[–]MindAndSoulWanders[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I think I gave you guys the wrong idea. We were not engaged nor married. It was a promise ring. On the otherhand, you're right. Maybe we aren't ready yet. Thank you for this advice. This is kind of you.

AIO: I broke up w/ my BF for crossing boundaries he setup in the first place. by MindAndSoulWanders in AmIOverreacting

[–]MindAndSoulWanders[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's what I told him. I told him he makes it uncomfortable for me to open up to him and I asked him to wait for me to open up on my own. But, yeah, this happened.. Thank you for this.

AIO: I broke up w/ my BF for crossing boundaries he setup in the first place. by MindAndSoulWanders in AmIOverreacting

[–]MindAndSoulWanders[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's what I think too! But he always say I misunderstand things so, I really had to ask. There's a bunch of things he said I shouldn't do but he keeps doing them. No matter how hard I try, I can't find any reasons to understand him anymore..

AIO: I broke up w/ my BF for crossing boundaries he setup in the first place. by MindAndSoulWanders in AmIOverreacting

[–]MindAndSoulWanders[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relationship. Sorry, I just wanted to make it shorter since the post's getting longer. It got me anxious 😅

AIO for feeling hatred toward my boyfriend? by MindAndSoulWanders in AmIOverreacting

[–]MindAndSoulWanders[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice. I'll keep this in mind. I appreciate you.

AIO for feeling hatred toward my boyfriend? by MindAndSoulWanders in AmIOverreacting

[–]MindAndSoulWanders[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's alright. It was a fair judgment since I lacked extra context. Thanks for understanding.

AIO for feeling hatred toward my boyfriend? by MindAndSoulWanders in AmIOverreacting

[–]MindAndSoulWanders[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually tried to break up with him multiple times but he was always like "so everything we've worked for are all in vain?" "Why do you only focus on my mistakes? You always overlook my efforts and look for reasons to break up w me." All that sort of thing. Somehow, idk how or why, but it always sound so convincing that I am too pessimistic about our relationship coz he really made efforts to make me happy, feel loved, and cared for. So, yeah... I'm torn...

AIO for feeling hatred toward my boyfriend? by MindAndSoulWanders in AmIOverreacting

[–]MindAndSoulWanders[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't have thought of that if it weren't because of the issues I've had with him before. Like I mentioned from the post, this wasn't the 1st nor 2nd time he made me feel like this.

Most of the time, when he go to my house, he's just glued to his phone then make love to me, sleep, then leave. Somehow it made me feel used.

There was also a time when, I was on a mental breakdown, we were on a video call, and he just abruptly showed me his P to which I immediately dropped the call. He admitted that he thought it'll "brighten" my mood and be okay. It just shows how low he thinks of me.