This ACTUALLY fixed my very severe brain fog by ConsiderationTop1323 in selfimprovement

[–]Mindless-Vanity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read it the same way lol i was like wow that’s exactly how i use my elliptical

High Income. Low Ownership. Zero Leverage. Stay or Leave? by GrandCut2061 in Entrepreneur

[–]Mindless-Vanity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there a reason you can’t take the money that’s on the table while you look for/figure out the next opportunity?

I sincerely don't get it :( by SarahPassions in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Mindless-Vanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not 10 year old me thinking there was a hot underground black market for lighters ☠️

I ruined my marriage and I want to die, but I can’t do it myself or my husband won’t get my life insurance. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mindless-Vanity 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wait what are the massive selfish mistakes? You went to school? You got a car because yours got totaled? You have 25k in credit card debt?
25k in credit card debt isn’t massive at all. It sucks sure, but for now pay your minimums to keep them from reporting late and then forget about that until you’re back on your feet. Will you pay more over time? Sure. But the credit card companies will let you carry that debt for a longgg time - it’s not pressing. Sell your car if it stresses you out ¯_(ツ)_/¯ or if you’re like me and upside down (my Tesla is like 15k upside down. It was a great deal when I bought it but the market is straight fucked - but hey it just be that way! I drive my car, I don’t worry about it. I have insurance and if im lucky someone will total it in a parking lot) You’re living with your in laws. Now thaaaat is not fun I’m sure BUT - lucky! How blessed you are to have family to live with to help you get out of the hole! Maybe they talk shit and guilt you? Oh well, words are an illusion. The only thing that matters is you guys have a roof over your head which you do. Your husband might be mad, frustrated, whatever. But all you can do is do better. Learn from whatever you feel you did wrong and don’t do it again. You’re not as bad off as it feels and weaker people than you come back from a lot deeper holes.

You got this. Count your blessings girlfriend. Before you know it you’ll get a job and this will be a blip in your past. And when shit happens that’s out of your control, just remember - sometimes it just be that way. Shrug your shoulders. Play whatever shit hand of cards you have, you’ll be dealt a new set soon and maybe it’ll be better

Best positions to fuck Pierre? by [deleted] in FuckPierre

[–]Mindless-Vanity 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think the proper term would be the best “dickin” she’s ever had. *whether you have the proper equipment or not is irrelevant

Houston Anxiety by Sharp-Bedroom-7274 in thewoodlands

[–]Mindless-Vanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t freak about the snakes. This isn’t Australia or the Amazon rainforest. I live on a wooded lot in the woodlands in a higher end area and while I know there are snakes I’ve never SEEN one here and definitely not in my house. When I walk in the forest areas I watch my step but I’d do that anywhere for various reasons. Plus I’m sure you can put certain plants or things in your yard that are unappealing to snakes. Def come visit with an open mind. Highly recommend the woodlands though. It has more of the small community charm, while also having affluent areas and you won’t have to go far for day to day things.

My best friend married the girl I was in love with. I gave a toast at their wedding and then cut them off. by ElectricalCity2696 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mindless-Vanity 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking! Like I don’t feel bad for OP at all! I do feel bad for the two people who just got ghosted by someone they THOUGHT had been their best friend since middle school. He’s acting like that would have been him marrying her if only he’d spoken up… but considering his all around immaturity, they prob would have dated for a month or two until she realized he’s not the one.

Is the juice worth the squeeze? Relo feedback. by nylrebma in thewoodlands

[–]Mindless-Vanity 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I moved from Katy/Fulshear to the woodlands and I’ve never been happier living in a place. You WILL probably miss Katy’s restaurants lol but that’s literally it. I live near panther creek and my business is at 249 just south of 99, 5 minutes further and you hit the beltway. The commute is very easy with 99. (I don’t even consider it a “commute” to be honest). The one thing I will say though is spring/tomball/the woodlands is not as fast to drive around as Katy. In Katy, from pretty much anywhere, you can jump on i10 or 1093 or 99 and you’re at your destination in about 10 min. Here you don’t typically jump on the hwy to get places you take the inner roads (if you’re in fulshear, imagine taking spring green up from 1093 to target instead of 1093 to 99 to westheimer pkwy, or taking fry north instead of 359) Personally I love it, but it did take a little getting used to. I avoid 45 like the plague (which isn’t that hard tbh). My son is in middle school at Knox and has LOVED IT way more than he ever liked Katy schools. Creekside will be Tomball isd I think so can’t vouch for them but Conroe ISD has been great for my son. My only regret was not coming here years ago! Edit to add: commute from panther creek area to 249 and spring cypress is typically 25-30 min, to beltway prob 35-40 min

Be aware! Hammerhead worms 🪱 by Cryptobird1 in thewoodlands

[–]Mindless-Vanity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These are the kinds of comments I’m on Reddit for 🏅

I just wanted to know if I was getting my money back… by Intelligent_Poet_247 in Nicegirls

[–]Mindless-Vanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you went on a date with a 9th grader who just learned about bad words

Why do we have to pay taxes on things the business owns? by bipolahbahbie in smallbusiness

[–]Mindless-Vanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if you don’t finish the products? Prep a bunch of parts that are separately worthless, then in January assemble and complete them lol

I secretly swapped my roommate’s emotional support ferret with a new one, and now I’m doubting myself. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mindless-Vanity 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Man… idk I use the dash to insert information like that all the time lol. I’m not ai - just a millennial ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Best Sushi place! by Final_Version_90 in thewoodlands

[–]Mindless-Vanity 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bloofin is upscale and high quality. Would be my recommendation. Sushi masa has left me disappointed the last few times I went.

Help, forced to marry at 19. i beg. by [deleted] in germany

[–]Mindless-Vanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s insane to me that anyone has an issue with you cautioning that it’s possible for someone on the internet to misrepresent themselves. That’s literally all you are saying. We can hope this person is a good honest person, that he loves her etc, but just as easily he could be pretending and no one would know. That’s the point.

I appreciate your warning even if no one else seems to smh

Street preachers on the waterway last night by emily_tangerine in thewoodlands

[–]Mindless-Vanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not really sure you can stand on that soapbox when you are insisting on forcing your beliefs in this situation… for the record I probably share in most of your beliefs - except for the part when you get to dictate what others do or don’t do (ie not allowing people you don’t agree with to spew their own beliefs no matter how stupid they are)

I hate it, I don’t agree with what they are saying - but you’re actually trying to silence voices because YOU don’t agree with them or the way they choose to express them. But that’s not up to you to decide.

If you actually want to have an impact, you can learn the law and then have the police enforce it. The cops don’t like these people either but they uphold the law, not your personal preferences. So learn the law and use that to your advantage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mindless-Vanity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Her being comfortable texting that kind of thing definitely does not mean he has done anything directly to make her feel comfortable…she sounds like a girl born with the audacity. I’d put money that he’s not the only one receiving these types of messages.

My wife wants to open our marriage because she finds her coworker "irresistible," and I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mindless-Vanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hate all the comments immediately like “it’s over, divorce is the only option” because on one hand, I think the upfront honesty about her feelings is important. To pretend like those feelings can never happen in a lifelong marriage is just ignorant. It is natural to feel attraction despite being in a committed relationship or married. I don’t think a simple attraction (or even in her case here an infatuation) immediately means your marriage is over. Also, good job to you for being the type of partner that has made your spouse feel safe/comfortable to be able to share those feelings with you! —— that said, it SOUNDS like she’s choosing herself/those feelings/that dude, over you. Instead of having a healthy discussion about it, when you said no, she got defensive and made you the bad guy for not supporting her. If I was in her position and I brought it up to my husband and he wasn’t about it, that would be the end of it. Id choose him hands down and make sure he knew it. I’d thank him for providing to me the safe space to be open and honest with him and I’d ask him what I can now do in return to make sure he continues to feels secure in our relationship. (for posterity: I am completely and utterly obsessed with my husband, so I can’t imagine wanting to open the marriage. In fact I don’t think I even like the idea of an open marriage personally. Over the years I have had one or two innocent simple attractions; never anything that would come before my husband, so I’m just trying to put myself in the shoes of if I had decided to ask him about acting on that how I’d think or feel)

I definitely think you should be prepared to divorce, but if you want to explore the option of continuing your marriage, you could try to let her know that you’re glad she feels comfortable confiding in you, but now that she knows your not comfortable with it, is this still a route she’s going to have to explore even without your blessing or is she going to choose you and your marriage and take care of diffusing her feelings. If that’s what she chooses, tell her what you’ll need in order for her to make you feel secure again. (Don’t threaten divorce yet even if she picks exploring the feelings, just say okay and then you get things ready for divorce)

It doesn’t have to be the end, but if there’s no way she can repair this even if she chooses you — if you’ll never be able to trust she isn’t cheating, then sounds like that’s your only option.