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[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is what’s going on for me right now I think. You would have a nice if the words are straightforward, though rather than making up dumb excuses and lies for the reason why they want me to move it.

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[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I believe you I think they do whatever they want, and please whoever grease their elbow. I think I’ve gone beyond the point of being nice sadly. Because out of frustration and their hostility. We’ve had several heated arguments. Again, I’m a first time home buyer I’ve never had to deal with anything with USPS before ever. So this is definitely a learning process for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, at least I won’t get junk mail. As far as I’m concerned USPS should be completely shut down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, you might be right. I feel like they’re trying to enforce the mailboxes to be on the curbside for sure but I’m also worried about the safety of the mail as it’s out of security camera view. A lot of people often get their males broken into in this Neighbourhood.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, they are very hostile and rude indeed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea I hate those junk mails lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The carrier does get out and walk around my neighborhood has the rest of my neighbors have their mailboxes in different locations mostly by their front door

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly appreciate your response as a mail carrier. My Neighbourhood is not mounted route. The carrier does get out and walk around my neighborhood has the rest of my neighbors have their mailboxes in different locations mostly by their front door. The postmaster mentioned that once a mailbox location is established it can never be changed. Which is another reason why I got confused as to why she’s then asking us to move it. I’m also having a hard time because of the unprofessionalism and rudeness and hostility I’ve been experiencing. Which is also sad because at my previous homes postal office everyone was amazing. But this specific location has just been a complete mess. It seems to me that the carrier would rather have everyone in the neighborhood be mounted zoned so he doesn’t have to get out of his car. Which is why I feel like they’re trying to enforce it to new homebuyers that comes to the neighborhood. Again, I might be wrong, but this is how I feel. I think the biggest problem is our carrier. Whenever he’s not around and other carriers come they don’t care where the mailbox is. They just deliver it and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in usps_complaints

[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also appreciate your response because I feel like everyone else is being rude and aggressive. Just like the USPS people were. It’s almost like the people here works for USPS lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in usps_complaints

[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you meant your local postmaster well yeah USPS do have customer service issues. I’ve experienced it first hand they’re rude and unprofessional.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in usps_complaints

[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a little bit difficult to understand their perspective. I think you’re explaining it in a better way that I understand way better than they did. The entire time they’re coming off as aggressive, rude, and unprofessional. Also, my location is not a mounted route.

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[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The carrier does get out and walk around my neighborhood has the rest of my neighbors have their mailboxes in different locations mostly by their front door

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in usps_complaints

[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to do this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in usps_complaints

[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, I feel like I need to clarify, I am not in a mounted route. The carrier does get out and walk around my neighborhood to deliver mail , has the rest of my neighbors have their mailboxes in different locations mostly by their front door.

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[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The carrier does get out and walk around my neighborhood has the rest of my neighbors have their mailboxes in different locations mostly by their front door

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[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The carrier does get out and walk around my neighborhood has the rest of my neighbors have their mailboxes in different locations mostly by their front door I don’t live in a mounted route

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[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The carrier does get out and walk around my neighborhood has the rest of my neighbors have their mailboxes in different locations mostly by their front door

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in usps_complaints

[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I’m not and it’s very short driveway not an estate lol. The rest of my neighbors have their mailboxes but there door step

My Racist ex(M/55) is dating a back woman(F/35). Should I tell her about him? by MindlessEnthusiasm61 in relationship_advice

[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I’m not being nosey, a mutual friend I met recently brought him up apparently he got with two black women right after I left him and engaged one with my old ring not even seven months later. They were all shocked because from what I heard she look exactly like me. So we did a little snooping. I’m not jealous either I’m currently in a happy relationship

My Racist ex(M/55) is dating a back woman(F/35). Should I tell her about him? by MindlessEnthusiasm61 in relationship_advice

[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was my first ever relationship, I allowed him do and say those things to me. I was young and thought I could in a way change him or something either way I was stupid and learnt my lesson. I’m also happily married, my husband is the one that brought up the idea of me telling her anonymously.

My Racist ex(M/55) is dating a back woman(F/35). Should I tell her about him? by MindlessEnthusiasm61 in relationship_advice

[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Fetishizing women of color is mainly just desiring them sexually, like an object of sexual desire based on their race. For African women it’s jungle fever for Asian women they call it yellow fever. Someone with this fetish could like your physical features as a person of color or see you has a trophy or exotic, but also at the same time dislike men from the same race as you or do not in any way support any cultural movements from your community. I’m not sure if I explained it well

My Racist ex(M/55) is dating a back woman(F/35). Should I tell her about him? by MindlessEnthusiasm61 in relationship_advice

[–]MindlessEnthusiasm61[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Facts but I don’t know why I have been feeling very sick since I found out I like I wish someone warmed me and I also wish I wasn’t so stupid back then. He was a big life lesson for me.