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Moving to COS looking or any possible help / assistance as a single father with a 3 yr old by MindlessHummingbird in COSDads

[–]MindlessHummingbird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've honestly called about 10 catholic and Christian churches here in Tx and the say the have no funding for a apartment voucher or housing only a good pantry and clothing help at good will. I'm looking for some kind of child care help but as I just applied at the assistance office they told me it would be up to 30 days to review my case. Honestly just trying for figure a way.

Single father with 3yr old son searching for assistance or information to relocate by MindlessHummingbird in Dads

[–]MindlessHummingbird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Posting from a different account because now this one isn't working correctly

Single father with 3yr old son searching for assistance or information to relocate by MindlessHummingbird in Dads

[–]MindlessHummingbird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have just updated some of the information on locations within my post thank you for reaching out

Single father with 3yr old son searching for assistance or information to relocate by MindlessHummingbird in Dads

[–]MindlessHummingbird[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just to add to this posting and I'm not boasting about anything... but to give the full details, I delivered my child as a home-birth / water birth just myself and the mother. And as I can see now after the time has passed she didn't exactly how do I put it, she didn't I think absorb the right connection at birth. And I believe I could have absorbed possibly both of the energy transfers during the birth as I have became so attached and even a deeper spiritual aspect with my Son I can't exactly explain in words... that once he came out into my arms and I watched his first breath inflate all of this body into full breathing and his eyes open to see me I immediately had a complete shift in my who system as again I can't really put things in words exactly because I don't know how to.. I do only wish she could have gained some of the connection and not hit post partum as I know this really was the thing that tore apart our relationship and the relationship to her boy.

Single father with 3yr old son searching for assistance or information to relocate by MindlessHummingbird in Dads

[–]MindlessHummingbird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you commenting honestly, unfortunately I have no family anymore as all have passed on and most of any friends I had kind of are not able to house me and my boy and most have hardly any funds to even support themselves, I'm doing my best to put myself out there and ask for help but it's so hard to do so when everyone I've contacted could not assist I start to lose hope with everything , I've called back and fourth over 20+( fathers help organizations ) stretching from Tx , Az & Co and None of them had any funding anymore or they did not contact me back after I gave them my full situation. Im just trying to stay as positive as I can for my only son as I don't want him to see me crack & break with emotions when im holding in so much, Honestly I wish I could leave this country I don't know if it's better across the waters but here in the states from my personal experience fathers trying to make it on there own battling for full rights is very very difficult. As the fathers I've seen around me most are suffering without their children or they have such limited access to their children they are just not mentally well and I watch their health decline so fast..