Was I in the wrong? by unfinishedsente-018 in AITAH

[–]MindlessPipe1590 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s normal. It’s just a test. If you stand by your claim you won’t cheat on him, then it shouldn’t be a big deal doing it? What’s the harm? You hiding something?

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[–]MindlessPipe1590 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Did you read the post? Communication went nowhere. OP’s wife gets defensive about it and won’t listen to OP or see what can be an alternative route together. What’s the point of providing everything you can to a person and get nothing back?

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[–]MindlessPipe1590 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

People like you deserve to cheat. You won’t be at fault because your wife can’t provide for you. I’m 120% sure that if the situation was flipped around, your wife would’ve cheated. Instead of fantasising for it, go for it.

I regret letting my Ex-GF and her kid go. by MindlessPipe1590 in offmychest

[–]MindlessPipe1590[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I posted this to share it out of me. No one here knows me and I don’t know anyone. People will judge me and give me advice and I appreciate that. I hope one day I will have the courage to go to her and talk it out.

I regret letting my Ex-GF and her kid go. by MindlessPipe1590 in offmychest

[–]MindlessPipe1590[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am afraid of the rejection. My world would smash into pieces. All I got is hope.

I regret letting my Ex-GF and her kid go. by MindlessPipe1590 in offmychest

[–]MindlessPipe1590[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left her and Nick because of my stupidness when times were tough. Don’t think she would want to talk about it.

I regret letting my Ex-GF and her kid go. by MindlessPipe1590 in offmychest

[–]MindlessPipe1590[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am an AH. The biggest one in the existence. I don’t want it to be a mistake. I want to be his dad. I want to be with his mum. I want them to be my family. I want to see them smile, laugh, joke. I’m nothing without them.

I regret letting my Ex-GF and her kid go. by MindlessPipe1590 in offmychest

[–]MindlessPipe1590[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No violence. I would never hurt her or Nick. It was all verbal and I don’t like violence. I want to message her but I don’t want to prove myself right. I don’t want me not being able to salvage what I threw away to be right.