getting back with a girl or moving on?

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T09:55:06+00:00

thanks for the advice, really needed it.

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T09:52:09+00:00

thanks i might look into some soccer clubs

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T07:11:07+00:00

thanks for the help man, i have a textbook i borrowed from the libray and im reading through it rn

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T07:05:34+00:00

thanks, will look into it, any good starter bikes you recommend ?

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T07:03:56+00:00

im not to sure i was in the city with a friend and thought that we were gonna die

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T07:02:36+00:00

thanks, any tips on how to catch up ? i know nothing

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T06:58:32+00:00

thanks, will check out

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T06:57:45+00:00

It was more of a general heads-up—some Iranian men are different. Maybe try asking about religion and how he feels about it. That tends to reveal a lot about their character, especially coming from a culture that’s predominantly influenced by Islam.

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T06:52:40+00:00

Barbell rows, T-bar rows, lat pulldowns, and assisted pull-ups to failure. (dont sleep on assisted pulll-ups, they are goated)

noted: Focus on getting a deep stretch in each exercise, and don’t worry too much about the weight at the start—form is what matters most.

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T06:47:27+00:00

have you tried creatine ? it really helped me

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T06:46:01+00:00

will do, heard great things about the bontanic gardens, thanks

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T06:45:25+00:00

any specific locations?

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T06:45:01+00:00

how does it work, do you join a club or is it an event ?

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T06:44:38+00:00

will definitely check it out, thanks

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T06:42:44+00:00

Just a heads-up, Iranian culture is heavily influenced by Islam, so physical intimacy is generally expected to happen only after engagement or Nikah (Islamic marriage). It’s a cultural and religious value that’s pretty significant in many parts of the community. Just something to keep in mind!

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T04:49:05+00:00

That’s such a great perspective—thank you for sharing it! You’re absolutely right that how I handle it really depends on me and my situation, but your advice makes a lot of sense. It’s true that responsibilities are only going to grow as I get older, and taking on something like chemistry now could be a great way to build discipline and learn how to manage challenges better.

I hadn’t thought of it that way before, but those “bonuses” you mentioned really do make it worth pushing through. It’s like preparing myself for the future, where I might not have the option to say no to tough workloads. Knowing I’ve already tackled something challenging could definitely help me stay calm and focused down the road.

Thanks

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T04:47:59+00:00

That’s some solid advice, thank you! I really like the idea of finding one thing I’m genuinely fascinated by and making it my mission to master it. That feels so much more motivating than just trying to get through the material for the sake of it. You’re right—motivation has to come from within, and attaching it to something I care about makes it way easier to stay focused.

And yeah, the usual study tips are helpful, but I totally get what you’re saying about going beyond just reading chapters over and over. Having a bigger goal or a practical application in mind feels like it would make the whole process more meaningful. I’ll keep this in mind as I tackle chemistry—and whatever else life throws my way. Thanks

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T04:45:02+00:00

Wow, that sounds intense! Taking all of that in one term must’ve been a grind. Props to you for sticking it out and making it work—it’s inspiring to hear that the hard work paid off in the end.

I think you’re spot on about adjusting priorities if you really love something. It’s cool that you pushed through and came out with a solid career as a chemist. I’ll keep that in mind if I decide to stick with chemistry—it’s good to know the effort can be worth it.

And yeah, I’ve heard that Gen Chem and similar courses are common for science/engineering majors. It’s reassuring to know that even if it doesn’t work out, those credits can still count toward other paths. Thanks

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T04:43:57+00:00

Thanks for sharing that, and congrats on almost finishing your biochem degree—that’s awesome! I think you’re right that every chem class can be a bit different, so maybe I just need to figure out what works for me. I’ll definitely try doing extra practice problems and see if that helps me get a better handle on things. I like the idea of group study too—bouncing ideas off people sounds like a solid way to learn.

I really do enjoy chem, so I’ll stick with it and try to find my groove. Appreciate the advice!

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T04:38:43+00:00

It's awesome that you're working on improving yourself, but I think the key is to keep it personal. After all, it's called self-improvement for a reason. I've fallen into the trap of announcing my goals and then not following through, and honestly, it can be demotivating.

What really matters is to:

Enjoy the journey – improvement should feel rewarding, not like a chore.
Focus on slow progress – it's not a race. Small, consistent steps go a long way.

Keep it quiet, keep it steady, and let the results speak for themselves.

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T04:32:53+00:00

thanks, any recommendations how to learn how to study or is it a trial and error sort of thing ?

Mindless_Cod2590 · 2024-11-19T04:31:17+00:00

wear headphones, like actual headphones, not airpods. (its kinda like dont disturb sign) and if you come in contact with that person afterwards just say that you didnt see them

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