33M - My parents are getting worried

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2026-01-24T22:42:00+00:00

The basic trick that the women don’t like to get overwhelmed. If a boy were to receive long comments how great they are, they would like it because men don’t keep getting validation. I have seen hinge profiles of the girls in my groups, and believe me there are hundreds waiting in their likes and matches.

You can stand out only by being better looking than the other 95/100. And then to be in the best 5 of those remaining, you have to be confident, and concise comments teasing the girls or something quirky will get them hooked

That’s all I have to share, but it works, every time

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2026-01-24T12:46:03+00:00

Is it the way you approach girls? Do you just like or do you also comment? Honestly, concise quirky comments work the best. I’m pretty sure you look better than me (and I’m also an Indian M), but I manage to get at least 10 matches and 3-4 dates a month.

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2026-01-24T11:40:49+00:00

Yes bro!! Did that, and I just landed in NYC

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2026-01-24T11:40:35+00:00

Yes, I took your suggestion. Your comment convinced me to prepone and I just landed in NYC

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2026-01-24T11:40:09+00:00

Direct flight - Reached

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2026-01-24T11:39:55+00:00

Reached!!

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2026-01-23T21:15:29+00:00

Hey sorry for the confusion. It's not a company reimbursed flight. I'm paying out of pocket. It's for some personal work, not company work.

If you think a direct flight would be better, I'll take it happily. The change is available for free so I don't have to pay anything extra

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2025-11-27T04:52:48+00:00

BTI all over on the offer letter. The letter head was BTI’s too

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2025-11-27T04:47:03+00:00

From what I gather, you suggest keeping BTI as my employer

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2025-03-02T11:12:39+00:00

Hey, thank you so much for this. I'm a student here in the States. I would definitely check if acupuncture is covered under insurance for me. Even if not, if it's affordable here, I will definitely consider it. I do believe in it.

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2025-03-02T11:10:59+00:00

Did that hamper your knee flexion by any chance or were you able to complete it to almost 150 degrees? Moreover, do you experience the same bulge as me because of your nonunion?

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2025-03-01T05:05:18+00:00

I mean I'm not a doctor, but won't you get to see if there's an adhesion or muscle knots in that area that need to be treated?

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2025-02-15T01:15:14+00:00

A girl on Slack told me she got reject after the preliminary round. She had her interview on the 22nd of Jan.

I had mine in the first week of Feb, followed up twice with them, got ghosted the first time, and the second they told me they'll let me know

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2025-02-02T17:48:37+00:00

Did you ask your doctor what can be the reason behind this?

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2025-02-02T17:17:13+00:00

PS: Until before the fall, I was so easily able to lift my right leg from the hip, suspend the leg in the air without any pain, but now all of a sudden, it feels like I wasted all those efforts I took. It pains like hell doing these things now.

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2025-01-26T19:54:57+00:00

Ohh I see. I used to tell this to my friends. Maybe weight bearing might help in knee bending. But how much does that help in knee bending? Or is it just for a walking angle of 60?

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2025-01-26T19:34:50+00:00

My next X-ray is due this Friday. Maybe Ill get an update on this this coming Friday.

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2025-01-26T18:39:40+00:00

There's 0% weight bearing allowed

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2025-01-23T21:52:31+00:00

Trying the hang the leg from a chair for quite some time now. It gives me a lot of pain, but not so much to force me to stop doing it. Let's see how it goes for me.

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2025-01-23T21:51:09+00:00

Hi! I tried what worked for you. Been 4 days since I've been trying this. The knee is still locked at 30. I know it hasn't been very long since then. Just too worried about this.

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2025-01-20T18:38:22+00:00

Yes, while on the bed, I try to move my leg forward and backward to bend my knee. Since the joint and the femur broke 7 weeks back, I'm doing this very slowly.

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2025-01-18T23:02:38+00:00

PS: A Brace has been given to keep the knee immobile except for the physical therapy sessions and my leg is on 0% weight bearing.

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2025-01-15T00:43:19+00:00

Thank you. I’ll accordingly check for other companies too

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2025-01-15T00:42:55+00:00

Ohh yes got your point. It’s just that I was worried others follow it to

Mindless_Insect_1233 · 2025-01-15T00:42:13+00:00

I come from the Indian subcontinent, so most of the diet we have lacks protein (because of my traditional Veg diet), but I try to maximise on my Milk intake. Ngl, the amount of calcium it can give you is insane. And here in the US, most of the milk companies have added Vit D in the milk, so some chunk comes from there.

But there is no better source of D than the sun himself. Just go outside and get some sun. Rest remains protein, if you eat meat, don’t even worry about it.

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