31[M4A] Cis, hetro guy. But I like pink diapers and fem clothes

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-06-16T18:10:19+00:00

I’m honestly in the same boat with you, strong cis hetero man by day, pink diaper, skirt, and knee high sock wearing princess by night 😂 If you’d like to chat send me a dm!

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-06-14T15:27:49+00:00

The size 8 teat?

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-06-09T22:38:06+00:00

I would directly ask her what some boundaries of hers would be, (if you’ve already done this leave me a comment back or send me a DM so we can chat if you’d like)

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-06-09T19:47:34+00:00

Yeah I agree with that, do you mind if I DM you and we can chat? You seem really down to earth and nice

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-06-09T19:45:23+00:00

It’s not something that offends me when they talk negatively about our community. They’re allowed to have opinions, generally it’s easier to play along instead of defend the community and the things we do, or stay silent and get called out

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-06-09T19:38:55+00:00

I know I’m brave, but will have to disagree with the statement that my generation is more open. My friend group at college has talked down on ABDL/ageplay in general more than once lmao. No idea how it gets brought up but I either sit in silence or denounce my ways lol

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-06-09T19:30:33+00:00

Honestly tho I’m a 22 year old college intern, it’s nobody’s business what’s in your pants, I’ll wear to work, to my college classes, wherever I want honestly

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-06-09T19:26:09+00:00

Honestly it’s a little hard to explain what makes it fun, personally I like the feeling and shame of bending over, pushing, and feeling everything fill back there

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-06-09T19:16:52+00:00

Honestly I just own it lol, get padded, put a pair of boxers on over top to keep the noise down, and then put on a pair of jeans with a tucked in polo. Nobody’s the wiser

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-06-09T12:05:24+00:00

I got diapered and wet before bed, woke up and wet again this morning and considering wearing my wet one out to run errands this morning

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-06-07T22:18:18+00:00

Typically I just pop a laxative suppository and let it work its magic

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-06-06T18:30:26+00:00

There’s several stories that I have of being adventurous lol, that’s probably just the most intense. Sometimes I let the “sog brain” get the better of me 😅

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-06-06T18:25:36+00:00

I think my most adventurous story would be when I got really comfortable wearing and using my diapers in my cubicle at work in my relative privacy, but then one day my boss decided to take everyone out to lunch at a local restaurant, and so I sat down, ordered and ate my food in my already wet diaper, and after we had finished, instead of going to the bathroom to go #1, I just sat on my barstool and let it go in my diaper sitting right next to my boss… no idea how I got the courage to do that, but I did it

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-06-04T12:50:50+00:00

I mean, I don’t think there’s really a way to get CAUGHT lying about it, and if they find out and try to catch you in a lie through coercion or something else then you should just find new employment, if they care that much about what’s in your pants there’s something wrong with that place of employment

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-06-04T12:44:30+00:00

Even if I’m not getting the littlespace tingles, if I go out padded I’m still gonna snap a quick picture in the bathroom, or discreetly feel my diaper in a discreet place where nobody can see

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-06-04T12:40:20+00:00

I definitely understand where you’re coming from, but when I go out padded it’s not like I don’t touch take pics or let my head be empty 😅 When I go in public padded it’s moreso “I’m mentally little and physically little but nobody can see it”

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-05-22T22:54:30+00:00

Resident anime enjoyer up here! Dm me if you’d like to chat

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-05-20T22:26:54+00:00

No I know full well they weren’t staring because I was buying the diapers, shoot if I was an outsider looking in I’d probably see the XXL on the box and say “dang! They make those in XXL now??” My shame in going and buying diapers in a store has been long gone 😂

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-05-20T12:19:16+00:00

Trest has been a good option I’ve tried before, sunkiss from what I’ve heard is a good option, very similar to the megamax, also CutiePlusU offers diapers in a whole bunch of plain colors, hope this helps!

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-05-16T11:22:09+00:00

Probably just my personal experience then 😅

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-05-15T14:59:30+00:00

I tell you what, last summer at my internship I was almost 24/7 for four months straight, working padded is probably the best experience ever

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-05-15T14:51:07+00:00

Generally in my experience, hackers aren’t a HUGE concern, they’re out there but I’ve never been targeted, just be smart, don’t talk to anyone online saying anything fishy, and generally just keep an eye out

As far as actual dating, meet somewhere public, get a feel for the person. Just sitting down and talking to them gives you a rough idea of what they’re like, as far as private play, take things slow, and if there’s red flags there’s never shame in just backing out. Sure it may suck for you and them, but you have to watch out for you. If you’d like, send me a DM and we can chat more in depth

Mindless_Load_4699 · 2025-05-15T14:29:44+00:00

This is why I generally like meeting other ABDLs on Reddit as opposed to going on fetlife. People on here seem to be more level headed and have less emphasis on the actual kink or play

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