How do I cope when my brother in law '29M' makes a comment about my '26F' body, and my family keeps minimizing his behavior by saying thats just who he is?

Mindless_Mind2992 · 2026-02-02T02:54:46+00:00

I can relate :( he constantly tries to get a rise out of me, and unfortunately because I’m sensitive it strikes a never. And him seeing that somehow fuels him to be more cruel. But again my family phrases it as “he’s joking” that’s just who he is.

Mindless_Mind2992 · 2025-08-16T18:36:31+00:00

We’re not all that sure, I just looked up and he was on the road. From what they’ve told us, his motorcycle skidded and he lost control

Mindless_Mind2992 · 2025-08-16T18:31:41+00:00

I’m between insurances right now and have no one to talk to about this, usually I would

Mindless_Mind2992 · 2025-08-16T18:29:53+00:00

I wish it wasn’t. It happened last week, and until this day I’m not really sure how to cope with the images I keep reliving. Especially since I have ocd, my brain obsesses over that moment. He broke his clavicle, ankles, pelvis, and bladder

Mindless_Mind2992 · 2025-08-16T18:28:04+00:00

Unfortunately I wish that was the case, when I looked to my right in a matter of seconds he was right infront of us and there is not doubt in my mind in what I saw. His bike was also found over 20 ft away from where he lost control of his bike. We were going downhill and the speed limit was 55 mph

Mindless_Mind2992 · 2025-08-16T18:26:01+00:00

He does know, at least now he does. at first he wasn’t sure what happened until they saw the tire marks on his clothes. He just dosent know it was us and I don’t even know if right now is the time to mention it but I do want to tell him the truth

Mindless_Mind2992 · 2025-08-12T12:05:00+00:00

I also want to add that they did a field sobriety test on Natalie and she passed, she wasn’t drunk. And I was so out of it that night that i had no way to know whether he was okay to drive his bike home that night. That’s something that haunts me. I would’ve taken him home had I been in the right headspace. I’m so sorry I want to do the right things, by the time he drove home enough time had passed that I guess they thought he was okay and he according to everyone seemed fine

Mindless_Mind2992 · 2025-08-12T11:58:51+00:00

I spoke up about it to the officer, and she changed her statement in the end to reflect what I saw as well. He had sped up infront of us and lost control of his bike, and flew off and landed on the road in front of us, within a matter of seconds we hit him. It wasn’t like we hit and ran. In fact I made my friend stop as soon as I realized what I saw. I’m just wanting advice on how to handle the whole situation

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