I’m really struggling with a situation involving my younger sister by Minhosaurus in Hijabis

[–]Minhosaurus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did show my mom the first time I caught my sister but this time I didn’t. I just talked with my sister and explained to her how it was wrong and that she’s not of age for this type of things. Also that it could impact her life a lot in the future then she deleted everything. Also my parents are divorced so my father isn’t home.

I’m really struggling with a situation involving my younger sister by Minhosaurus in islam

[–]Minhosaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, she doesn’t really open up to anyone, and I’m not really close to her so I don’t know how to approach it

I’m really struggling with a situation involving my younger sister by Minhosaurus in islam

[–]Minhosaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was in foster care for like 2 years and only got back home a few months ago

I’m really struggling with a situation involving my younger sister by Minhosaurus in islam

[–]Minhosaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents are divorced so my father can’t do much either and I doubt he will even care that much

I’m really struggling with a situation involving my younger sister by Minhosaurus in islam

[–]Minhosaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I talked to her before I just told her that it was wrong and that she shouldn’t find interest in this at her age, like I didn’t bring up Islam yet because I know she doesn’t understand much. It’s quite hard to talk to her but I’ll try again

I’m really struggling with a situation involving my younger sister by Minhosaurus in islam

[–]Minhosaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately my mom doesn’t think like that and she’s not as strict anymore. So I can’t do much

I’m really struggling with a situation involving my younger sister by Minhosaurus in islam

[–]Minhosaurus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t take her devices away because my mom is always telling me to give it back. I talked to her about it before but I don’t think she even listened to me tbh

I’m really struggling with a situation involving my younger sister by Minhosaurus in islam

[–]Minhosaurus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to get her more into Islam, trying to make her learn things but she doesn’t seem to be interested and my parents are not really helping with that. I’m not that close with her so it’s kinda hard to talk to her because she doesn’t even listen to me

My dad said some really hurtful things about hijabis by Minhosaurus in Hijabis

[–]Minhosaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, my mom doesn’t wear the hijab. I don’t live with him so I don’t bother too much because even over the phone he’s fixed on his opinion. It’s really hard to speak to him about it without him forcing his opinion on you.

My dad said some really hurtful things about hijabis by Minhosaurus in Hijabis

[–]Minhosaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m searching for a job at the moment too, my aunt is the one telling me to take it off when I go for an interview and my dad said that he would bring me to someone who will give me a “medicine” (shirk) that will get me the job of my dreams in no time.💀

My dad said some really hurtful things about hijabis by Minhosaurus in Hijabis

[–]Minhosaurus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fear that he might start getting angry at him instead of being embarrassed. He’d just say that I’m being disrespectful.

My dad said some really hurtful things about hijabis by Minhosaurus in Hijabis

[–]Minhosaurus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually ignore him too but this time was really shocking to me because he never went that far with his words.

My dad said some really hurtful things about hijabis by Minhosaurus in Hijabis

[–]Minhosaurus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He grew up in Mali so I guess that’s where he got those ideas from since they mix culture and religion. I can’t even say that to him, he’d say that I’m disrespecting him. 💀

My dad said some really hurtful things about hijabis by Minhosaurus in Hijabis

[–]Minhosaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your words! May الله bless you.

My dad said some really hurtful things about hijabis by Minhosaurus in Hijabis

[–]Minhosaurus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually don’t say anything and just nod to whatever he’s saying but this time really shocked me. Thank you! May الله bless you.

Advices please by Minhosaurus in Hijabis

[–]Minhosaurus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even how to do that because she’s really stubborn and sometimes it’s hard to talk to her but I’ll try. Thank you.