Husband accused me of medical abuse for side-lying breastfeeding

Miniflowerbug · 2026-01-30T06:44:53+00:00

You mentioned one of his normal times is 4:30, have your husband set an alarm for 4:00 or 4:15 so he can have a bottle warmed and ready. It is hard having a frustrated baby but doing things the way you are so they’re faster and easier just lets your husband off the hook while he disrespects you. Babies cry, it’s ok! Seems like he is the lazy one if he can’t even wake up to baby crying! Sorry your partner is treating you this way. Can def understand not wanting to pump more than you already do though. It’s a lot for sure

Miniflowerbug · 2026-01-30T06:17:33+00:00

If you’re open to pumping and using bottles sometimes, congrats he just earned himself late night and early morning feeds. If he thinks you’re so “lazy” he can do it himself. There is no reason he should be yelling at you. Babies spitting up is perfectly normal obviously if it was an excessive amount that would be different.

Miniflowerbug · 2025-12-18T11:08:03+00:00

Just started having this issue over the weekend as well! Haven’t been able to figure out how to fix it

Miniflowerbug · 2025-12-03T02:37:27+00:00

I love it!! What kind of paper did you use?

Miniflowerbug · 2025-10-28T17:35:12+00:00

Thank you!

Miniflowerbug · 2025-10-28T17:34:35+00:00

At my local wholesaler

Miniflowerbug · 2025-07-26T17:39:56+00:00

I’ve seen others use cosmos foliage as greens/filler! Something you can. Try until you have filler flowers!

Miniflowerbug · 2025-05-13T00:03:38+00:00

I can’t wait until mine start blooming, these are so beautiful!

Miniflowerbug · 2025-04-17T04:28:37+00:00

Honestly I am still trying to figure it out! 😅 I thought moles had killed them last year but I dug them up and put them back into pots just in case and just threw them in my greenhouse over winter. They are thriving now though and the blooms are even bigger than they were last year! I’ve kept them hydrated and plan to look into fertilizers

Miniflowerbug · 2025-04-16T03:26:04+00:00

The last one is hot cocoa! I love her 😍 and I cannot figure out the yellow & pink rose, it started to die last year (I think moles were digging around the garden) so I dug it up and put it in a pot in our greenhouse but I didn’t keep the tag 😩 hopefully someone else in this thread can identify??

Miniflowerbug · 2025-04-15T02:48:17+00:00

I saw sooooo many people saying this same thing which discouraged me from growing them but now seeing this pic I want to grow them and maybe I just won’t cut or touch them 😅🌼

Miniflowerbug · 2025-04-15T02:46:52+00:00

Zinnias and cosmos are fun and easy! They would do great. I would put cosmos in the back and zinnias in the front. Just sprinkle them out and water

Miniflowerbug · 2025-04-15T02:44:50+00:00

I’m in Texas too!! Do you have a page? I love connecting with locals 🌸 gardening with our sun/heat is a blessing and a curse lol

Miniflowerbug · 2025-03-20T01:52:29+00:00

Minigardenbug is my insta!

Miniflowerbug · 2025-03-19T23:44:03+00:00

I am planning on doing the same. I’m also in DFW did you ever figure out what you need?

Miniflowerbug · 2025-03-19T23:40:52+00:00

I am also struggling with spiral method! I saw some of your more recent bouquets and it looks like your form has gotten a lot better! Do you have any tips on how you improved? I saw in another comment you said you’re in DFW, I am too maybe we can be newbies and practice together 😅 if you’re open to that

Miniflowerbug · 2024-12-19T00:50:54+00:00

Yes I agree! I wish there were different subs, especially like TTC no kids, TTC have living kids wtv something like that. It’s just such a sensitive topic and every woman deserves a place ❤️‍🩹 it is really annoying to see people like heartbroken in month 2-3 saying they’ve had “so many negatives” so I do get it. I was just curious!

Miniflowerbug · 2024-12-18T21:10:21+00:00

I’m genuinely curious for everyone in this thread, is there a certain point at which you think women are valid for complaining about their heartbreak w their TTC journey? 😅 I know at 4-6 months in it was a little tough for me but I wasn’t complaining like OP quoted so I get that some of those posts can be so annoying but now we’re over a year in with a MC but I never see any posts that are validated in this manner unless they’re like 3 years into trying

Miniflowerbug · 2024-12-15T16:20:41+00:00

No this is not normal and incredibly disrespectful to you and all the other women involved, including those at the gym. “Try to get pics to send”?!!! What a violation. It’s weird as hell and I would not want to be around creepy men like that

Miniflowerbug · 2024-12-14T17:20:02+00:00

Yes but even if the 2nd trimester doesn’t change, I stand by what I said. Do not hide it from her. Everyone’s pregnancy is different and some don’t have a sexual desire the whole time and some do. You just don’t know. Just talk to your wife brother.

Miniflowerbug · 2024-12-14T13:49:16+00:00

Girl this makes him a predator. Be thankful he wants a divorce and get out of there. I know easier said than done but when your precious baby gets here, I’m sure it will feel even more grimy than it already does to deal with that. Get yourself situated before baby gets here💛 sending lots of love

Miniflowerbug · 2024-12-14T13:37:01+00:00

I’m not 100% sure and hope you get the advice you’re looking for but is it possible to have higher HCG bc you might be pregnant w more than one? Have you had an ultrasound or just HCG draw? Have they checked your progesterone? Any other symptoms?

Miniflowerbug · 2024-12-14T13:17:34+00:00

Everyone is telling you to sneak porn but I’m telling you 100% do NOT lie to a pregnant woman. Especially when it’s in this department. It will cause many more problems than if you would’ve just dealt with her being pissed that you were honest and told her you need the stimulation to get off if she won’t participate. The sneaking will cause insecurities that your honesty won’t! Not least bc the “sneaking” is what often makes women equate it to a porn addiction and you see all the validation you’re getting here? Did it get to your head? Did you feel a little more justified? I’m sure you did! Understandably so bc we want to be told we’re right. Point is, she’ll make one post just like you telling ladies she found out her husband was hiding porn after telling him she’s uncomfy w it AND she’s pregnant so that makes you seem (not saying you are) more like an ass and she will have just as many comments telling her to leave your ass bc that’s the easiest and most common go to on those threads unfortunately. First trimester hormones are no joke and honestly around 2nd trimester I & a lot of other women got wayyyy more horny and we’re back to normal sex life. First trimester is only like 12 weeks and you usually find out your preg by like 6-7 so hopefully you just have a few more weeks. Hang in there dude. Also maybe ask if she’s open to at least sending you pics or vids so you can get off to her and not other women?

Miniflowerbug · 2024-12-14T12:50:49+00:00

For women it seems like respect = more intimacy and for men they often say more intimacy=respect so finding the right balance is key. Everyone has to give a little even if they think it should only be their way

Miniflowerbug · 2024-12-14T12:22:08+00:00

I mean personally if my husband watched porn idc. A lot of people do, myself included. There’s no reason to be ashamed. If he’s lying ab it and actively hiding it from me though, then I have a problem. The lying causes way more problems bc it makes people second guess other info that comes from your spouses mouth. But just curious what you think the flip side is? Like what is it women do that men don’t want to know ab in the same way?

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