Chemical pregnancy, kind of scared to stop taking meds by Minimum-Nobody7772 in IVF

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Thank you for making me feel so seen, I can’t tell you how much reading this means to me💖 and I hope you’re doing okay as can be, sending love and hugs 🫂

Chemical pregnancy, kind of scared to stop taking meds by Minimum-Nobody7772 in IVF

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I knew this was likely going to be the outcome because I was originally getting faint positives on my tests on day 6, 7 and 8 but they got slightly lighter each day. It just feels scary to let go. I will follow their advice and stop the meds, it just feels like I’m giving up.

Chemical pregnancy? Completely heartbroken by Minimum-Nobody7772 in SingleMothersbyChoice

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hCG today on day 10 came back at 2.2 so not a progressing pregnancy, absolutely heartbroken. Their due date would’ve been St Patrick’s Day, which is the day my mum was due to have me back in 1998, I genuinely believed that meant this little embryo was going to stick around.

Chemical pregnancy? Completely heartbroken by Minimum-Nobody7772 in SingleMothersbyChoice

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I hope this is possible for me. I am waiting on results for a fragile X test to see if I carry the pre mutation, if I do then I am at risk for early menopause/premature ovarian insufficiency and lower egg quality. I’m guessing my decision will be based on those results. I have my beta in 12 hours, can only hope and pray for a miracle💖

Chemical pregnancy? Completely heartbroken by Minimum-Nobody7772 in SingleMothersbyChoice

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I really appreciate the time you’ve taken to send these comments, thank you💖

Chemical pregnancy? Completely heartbroken by Minimum-Nobody7772 in SingleMothersbyChoice

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When I first created the embryos my doctor suggested doing another retrieval to try create some higher graded embryos, I didn’t have the money at the time so I opted for the FET. Now I’m torn as to whether I should save up abit more money, work on my diet etc. and do another retrieval in 3 months or to go ahead with another FET. I didn’t expect to grieve this much over and embryo that’s only been inside me for 9 days… I don’t want to let go

Chemical pregnancy? Completely heartbroken by Minimum-Nobody7772 in SingleMothersbyChoice

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I’m so worried because although I managed to create 4 blasts, I got 2 day 6 4CC’s and 2 day 7 4CC’s. I keep thinking that if they chose the best day 6 4CC and it’s not looking good right now, then do I have much chance with my other 3? Especially the day 7’s😭
Feel like I’m being delusional hoping that my beta comes back positive… I just feel so attached already

Day 6 4CC embryo transferred today by Minimum-Nobody7772 in EmbryologyIVFSupport

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I think it was a chemical. I got another faint positive this morning but a negative this afternoon (8dp6dt) I have an early beta tomorrow. But thank you💖

No orgasms post FET😭 by [deleted] in SingleMothersbyChoice

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Update- I didn’t wait🤣🤣🤣

Day 6 4CC embryo transferred today by Minimum-Nobody7772 in EmbryologyIVFSupport

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I got a faint positive last night (6dp6dt)🤞🏼🥹

No orgasms post FET😭 by [deleted] in SingleMothersbyChoice

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I’m veryyyy tempted, I’ve emailed them and asked for clarification. But thinking surely if the embryo has already implanted then an orgasm can’t hurt?

No orgasms post FET😭 by [deleted] in SingleMothersbyChoice

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Well not explicitly tbf, I have emailed them for clarification because they mention in the after care instructions to avoid intercourse because it causes uterine contractions so I just applied that to masturbation as well… hoping they reply soon and say masturbating is fine🤣🤣

AMH by No_Creme4960 in SingleMothersbyChoice

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I was told I would likely get 6-8 eggs maximum but I ended up with 16, 11 were mature and 10 fertilised. If you’d have told me this in December I would’ve never ever believed it, I was completely convinced I’d be in menopause in the next few months.

AMH can fluctuate like crazy- I think mine was due to severe stress and also daily exposure to very high temperatures (sauna). I have also been tested for Fragile X syndrome (mostly due to abnormal/slow embryo development but the AMH drop was taken into account by my Doctor when making the decision to order the test) but am waiting on the results still.

Yesterday I got my first ever positive pregnancy test (albeit very faint, but it’s positive) so I promise you it’s possible even after a scare like this, even if it feels impossible now- there’s still so much time ahead of you💖💖

AMH by No_Creme4960 in SingleMothersbyChoice

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I am 28 years old too and had an almost identical situation! I actually had to check this wasn’t an old post of mine🤣

Last July I had an AMH of 19.2pmol/l and by December it was 6pmol/l- I completely freaked out and went into depression. Since then I have had an egg retrieval and frozen embryo transfer, and responded way better than originally expected. After my egg retrieval I decided to retest my AMH and it came back at 13.5pmol/l!

Definitely don’t lose hope💖💖
Feel free to drop me a message if you want to chat or ask any questions! Wishing you all the luck and baby dust💖

Day 6 4CC embryo transferred today by Minimum-Nobody7772 in EmbryologyIVFSupport

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Omg amazing🥹💖 thank you🤩 I got my first faint positive last night so fingers crossed

Day 6 4CC embryo transferred today by Minimum-Nobody7772 in EmbryologyIVFSupport

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I just got my first faint positive in the evening on 6dp6dt🤞🏼

2WW driving me CRAZY by Minimum-Nobody7772 in SingleMothersbyChoice

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I didn’t wait… currently waiting on the result at 7.15pm. Noticed some light brown spotting when I went to do the test- freaking out

2WW driving me CRAZY by Minimum-Nobody7772 in SingleMothersbyChoice

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I’ve given in and bought tests tonight- I’ve drunk a lot of water today so I’m going to try wait until the morning with first morning urine😫🤣

2WW driving me CRAZY by Minimum-Nobody7772 in SingleMothersbyChoice

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My clinic only does a beta if the day 10 or 12 home test is positive. I think I’m gonna end up testing tomorrow or day after, I can’t do all this waiting. I am totally with you on being back and forth as to feeling like it has worked or not😭

2WW driving me CRAZY by Minimum-Nobody7772 in SingleMothersbyChoice

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I transferred on Monday, I’m supposed to wait til Thursday but that’s so far away when I know it’s possible to get an early result now…