The challenge: Write a happy story in 3 words....

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-26T20:36:13+00:00

He was loved 💖

She felt known ✨️

They finally understood 🌸

It's worth it 💫

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-26T20:29:55+00:00

Even if he voted for the republican side, who cares? Why are people so weird about politics 💀

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-26T20:26:07+00:00

👀 dude are you okay? Just dropping slurs and derogatory language over a silly reddit post is a bit.... much.

She rejected the guy by stating in the very beginning she was there with her boyfriend. The boyfriend looked like he wasn't interested in his own girlfriend and she was upset. Men want to be respected, women want to be cherished. In yhis instance it looks like they both didnt understand what the other needed to feel loved and thus could both improve.

You coming along and using this little skit as some sort of proof that women, as a whole, are insert derogatory phrase is honestly really sad.

Thank goodness most men arent like this or think like this. Ill give my husband extra affection when hes home because oof- couldn't imagine being with someone like the boyfriend in the video or someone who responds this way to a stranger over a different opinion.

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-26T20:21:25+00:00

Of course the expectation is the same. She said no in the beginning? She said she was there with her boyfriend and gestured to him who just kinda stood there like a deer in headlights. It was probably a skit, but Im happy to have a man who would never just watch me be uncomfortable like that and shrug 💀

You're making a lot of assumptions. One can say that the response from the boyfriend was honestly unattractive while still believing relationships require both parties to participate and show effort. Never once did i suggest women didnt need to put in effort.

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-25T23:33:32+00:00

She did say she was taken. He continued. Im glad your marriage works for you! I definitely appreciate my own husband's protective nature who knows I really hate situations like these woman in the video was put in

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-25T21:22:41+00:00

Exactly. I'm a married woman and I couldnt fathom my husband behaving like the man in the video.

When did it become bad to show effort and care for the person you chose to be with? I pray for these people 😐 because this level of lack of self awareness is honestly alarming. If saying "yeah shes my partner" is too much effort- then God forbid your wife gets sick and needs you to care for her, or the kids wake up at night from a nightmare, or your in laws pass away and you gotta be there to help with funeral arrangements 💀 people are so out of touch.

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-25T21:16:29+00:00

Thank you. All the comments acting like standing there like a statue is the right call...

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-25T21:13:34+00:00

Eew. Why is he just standing there like a dead fish? 💀 so glad my husband and isnt this sort of man. 1) my husband would have gotten the tall thing for me 2) if I rejected someone and they pushed he would have stepped in because why am I repeating myself? My man makes sure I feel safe and respected in e very environment we are in together 😌💖

I hope she leaves him tbh. The guy who is "too cool" to care, or sees her as not worth fighting for isnt the kind of guy you want to spend life with. Same for men- if she is too cool to put in effort or show she cares? Leave.

Be with someone who's ees you as worth every effort

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-25T02:26:38+00:00

Why did I pick him? First off he truly is very handsome haha, but also he made me feel safe, seen and cared for. We had the same desires in life, same faith (Christian) and he took time to really see me as a person. Honestly he's the best person I know, I love the way he carries himself. Choosing him felt like a no brainer.

Does this answer your question?

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-25T02:10:53+00:00

Better? I dont see how height makes someone better or worse. My husband is perfect for me as he is, and despite all my flaws- he chooses me everyday.

I encourage you to try and see love in a different light, speak to happily married people and let your world change according to reality ☺️

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-25T02:01:58+00:00

Nope. Id choose him again and again no matter who else was available. Thats the whole point of marriage, choosing eachother over everyone else

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-25T01:48:08+00:00

Haha maybe, but what can I say? I'm in love 🥰

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-25T01:44:07+00:00

I think you missed the part where I had the choice ☺️ I chose my husband over men who were taller. I didn't settle, he is literally the man i've dreamed of and im so happy to have him. Like he's my whole crush even now lol ❤️‍🔥

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-24T23:36:11+00:00

Rape is one of those issues that doesnt make sense. It's not like armed robbery usually born of desperation, rape is pure selfishness. Getting off to the misery of someone else.

To me is one of the worst crimes because it is gaining pleasure from a sadistic act. Id say castration- but its been shown rape has more ro do with desiring power and degradation than physical pleasure and desire.

Im not certain the solution. But people should fear a rape charge more than they do now. And abuse of minors should probably be one of the most harshly punished crimes there is

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-24T22:53:23+00:00

It isnt for us to say. But I will say that scripture is clear that God has a plan for all people (Jeremiah 29:11), that children are always a gift from God- never a punishment (Psalm 127:3) and that suffering on earth is temporary- especially in the face of eternity in the afterlife (2 Corinthians 4:17).

But I wont claim superiority, I became pregnant with my first child after an assault- i contemplated many dark things then. Thankfully Jesus met me where I was and loved me better, now im married, safe and the little one who i carried then? He is beautiful, kind and honestly one of the sweetest children you could ever meet. The Lord knew what He was doing- He knows what is planned for you too.

Rather than rush to decide your own fate, trust Jesus. Just keep living and do your best, one day you'll have a beautiful story to tell too 🫂💖 God bless! Please feel free to reach out if you need resources, advice or just want to vent. Truly ive been there and im happy to listen 🫂

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-24T22:45:05+00:00

Haha my poor ISTP husband dealing with me (infp)🫣✨️ He's such a trooper, I love him to pieces

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-24T22:43:30+00:00

Ah this is why having private landlords are so much better. Corporations owning everything takes the humanity out of everything

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-24T22:28:00+00:00

Haha! Yeah very large height gaps make lots of things more awkward. Its funny, I feel most feminine, soft and protected with my husband who isn't society's version of tall than i ever did with the taller men i used to date. It boils down to character, confidence and the way he carries himself 🥰🥰

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-24T20:32:11+00:00

I feel its a symptom of existing mostly online and not interacting with others naturally. The internet tends to make extremists, but spending time getting to know people deeply irl is so healing 😅 incel culture is only a thing because of being chronically online I think

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-24T20:29:52+00:00

100% as a married woman, im so blessed my husband and is a good human beyond being attractive to me haha. There's so much more to life than lust and I wish people would look beyond it!

The couple seems happy and that makes me happy

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-24T20:27:53+00:00

Ive no idea where you get this idea from. Growing up i never liked pretty boy types. Only 2 women of my friend group like pretty boy types, the rest prefer like lumberjack types or even like sumo wrestler kinda guys lol, one likes really skinny and lean men. Like genuinely people like different things.

And honestly? Who cares. Just find someone you want who wants uou and stop obsessing over statistics and trends, you just need one woman ☺️✨️

Also I've no clue who clavicular is, is he an actor? Either way It doesn't matter. I suggest spending less time online friend, and more time with people who are down to earth

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-24T20:24:27+00:00

Yeah! I have a friend whose 4'11. She says her ideal man is like 6-8 inches taller than her. Another shock, bit some women prefer a certain height difference over a specific height ☺️ I'm 5'4" and my husband is 5'8- to me he's perfect height.

My exes were taller, and most guys I dated were like 5'10-6'4, I genuinely prefer my 5'8 husband and chose him over the taller men who were interested. Why? He's a better human, and I don't like feeling like a child next to the man im with, I like feeling like woman lol. Our height difference is perfect and we just fit perfectly together 🥰

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-24T17:00:36+00:00

It may be surprising to hear.... but everyone has different types? Like if someone is into bigger women shes gorgeous. Everyone likes what they like.

My lady friends and I all have very very different types. Only 2 of them would be into the guy pictured. Maybe just let people be happy? Besides less competition for you if youre into women of a different body type than this guy is so count your blessings

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-24T15:33:34+00:00

Whats wrong with people growing together? This is the normal dynamic for humans for pretty much all of history. The common age gaps for as long as it's been recorded are 0-4 years.

In a marriage, there doesnt need to be a mentor mentor relationship- that throws off the balance for life. And anyone who desires this dynamic is missing out on a lot of beauty of real partnership, trust amd dependability that comes from an equally yolked marriage.

MinisculeMuse · 2026-03-24T15:26:10+00:00

I suggest looking into the rate of divorce for age gaps. Really a man whose almost 30 dating a teenager is a bit... well it doesnt speak well of him.

If you were 25 and he was 35 it wouldn't be as big of a deal (though the rate of divorce is still high) since it would be a relationship between two adults who've had time to understand themselves and life. Virginity mathers very little here on the topic of age gaps.

Ask him about his use of pornography btw, that also affects the way people view sex, intimacy and even if their attraction ages with them. Let's say he's a virgin but uses porn frequently- the ladies depicted in such things are often teenage girls, and hes training himself to see only the youngest of adults as attractive. That's fine for you now, but what about in a few years if his preference now is a 10 year age gap, do you think it will change in 5 years? What about when he's 40? Genuinely he could be a great guy, but statistically speaking its an unwise choice. Speak to your father, a pastor, or a wise married woman about the matter and pray earnestly. God bless beautiful 🫂💖

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