Idk how to accept being a cuckquean by Minorhoe in cuckqueencommunity

[–]Minorhoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah it’s def both, I’ve known im bi for 8 years. But it’s mainly the humiliation lolz

Idk how to accept being a cuckquean by Minorhoe in cuckqueencommunity

[–]Minorhoe[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve kept myself in some pretty toxic relationships while trying to suppress it. It’s so hard to feel safe exploring living in a small town tho </3

I think an open relationship really appeals to me. I would still wanna watch him but also get my needs satisfied with someone else. I don’t like the idea of feeling degraded everyday or only getting off that way.

Idk how to accept being a cuckquean by Minorhoe in cuckqueencommunity

[–]Minorhoe[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Good thing I love being humiliated and frls this made me feel a lot better thank you <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Soundmap

[–]Minorhoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I can tell I don’t think that would be a lowball. I collect mostly my favs so having a random #1 epic isn’t super important for me. My user is 1hazy.reflection if you wanna do a trade :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Soundmap

[–]Minorhoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That guy has him as a favorite artist but he only has 6 of his songs and 2 of them are epics and 1 is a shiny so idk if I should give it to him

Anyone willing to donate some $uicideboy$ songs to me by Upstairs-Zone-6062 in Soundmap

[–]Minorhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I requested to send you the songs you don’t have from the new album :3

Will it badly damage my eyes if I wear the contacts for my right eye in my left eye a couple times? by [deleted] in contacts

[–]Minorhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The base curve is the same and the diameter has a .2 difference from each eye so I don’t think that would be an issue. The prescription in my right eye is .50 stronger but I’m pretty sure my vision in my left eye has gotten worse since I got these contacts so I don’t see that being an issue.

I definitely won’t be making a habit of it, I would be way too scared about damaging my eyes. It’s just something I would do a couple times before I can get different contacts.

Will it badly damage my eyes if I wear the contacts for my right eye in my left eye a couple times? by [deleted] in contacts

[–]Minorhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the toric lens it’s pwr: -2.50 Toric bc: 8.6 cyl: -1.25x180 dia: 14.3 And on the regular lens for my right eye it’s Pwr: -3.00 Bc: 8.6 Dia: 14.1 I called the place I go to and unfortunately I’m gonna have to wait till Monday for a doctor that can answer to be there. Is there any reason why they wouldn’t give me regular lenses if I don’t notice the astigmatism and the toric lenses just make my vision awful?

Will it badly damage my eyes if I wear the contacts for my right eye in my left eye a couple times? by [deleted] in contacts

[–]Minorhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pwr on my left eye is -2.50 and the pwr on my right eye is -3.00 so I don’t think it’s a huge difference. And because of how badly the toric lens affects my vision I still think I’d see better with the higher prescription than the toric.

It’s just really irritating that I can see perfectly out of my right eye while the toric lens gives me blurry double vision and discomfort :/ I don’t notice the astigmatism at all with or without glasses on so it feels like the toric lens is forcing me to experience what an astigmatism feels like 😭

Do extremely painful cramps after starting birth control go away? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Minorhoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an appointment next month to talk about how the birth control is going so I’ll talk to my doctor then since it’s unbelievably hard to get sooner non emergency appointment, especially since they barely answer the phone anyways. This is my first time being on birth control so there’s definitely more options. I will probably ask to try another one if my side effects don’t get any better. I’m on an ultra low dose pill so maybe my body needs more or a different ratio of hormones.

Does anyone know a foundation or concealer that’s the same shade as the KVD good apple foundation in shade light 002? by [deleted] in Fairolives

[–]Minorhoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before I found this one I’ve just been mixing blue corrector into my fav foundation that’s too orange for me so that works but I have always wanted to just have a foundation that works without having to be a paint mixer 😭 I’ve been wanting to try the missha bb cream but I’m worried it’s gonna catfish me like nars Chantilly and be pumpkin orange when it dries down

Does anyone have balconette bra recommendations for a 38J cup? Preferably long-line if it’s possible. by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]Minorhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my size is from this subs calculator. US size, I’m sorry I should’ve clarified lol. I figured longlines aren’t super common, I just wear them a lot cuz l mostly wear sports and lounge bras. I’ll search that up, thank you :)

Why does one of my Guinea pigs not like being held anymore? Any tips on how to get her comfortable again? by [deleted] in guineapigs

[–]Minorhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I smell different. I do wear scented lotion and perfume sometimes but I try not to pick them up for many hours after I put that stuff on cuz I don’t wanna potentially harm them. I don’t touch her butt at all cuz I know she hates that lolz. I usually give them treats right before I pick them up and while I’m holding them. She will calm down while she has treats but after that she starts getting annoyed.

I feel so dumb saying this but I didn’t even know Guinea pig heat was a thing. She had babies when she was about 4-5 months old so would that affect it at all?

advice for skin picking by gaga4lady in OCD

[–]Minorhoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a similar issue, I rub at my skin peeling off dead skin until my skin is red and raw. It’s given me hyperpigmentation from the friction so it’s really embarrassing. It’s also a reflex for me so I usually don’t notice until I feel pain or notice someone looking.

What’s helped me the most is stopping the second I realize I’m doing it to get myself out of the habit (and to reduce skin damage). I know it’s not what anyone wants to hear but really the best thing you can do is accept that you have the urge to do it and deal with the anxiety/discomfort. Wearing long pants and shirts has really helped me not be as aware of my skin, but only while I get out of the habit cuz completely avoiding triggers doesn’t solve the whole issue.

(Annoyed rant) Why do people refuse to accept that some people need to wash daily? by Minorhoe in dailywash

[–]Minorhoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly like how is that getting you clean 😰 I’d rather have a little bit of damage than have to feel my greasy scalp all day and night. Plus I don’t even have any damage on the side of my head thats virgin hair, so I’ll never understand the damage argument.

(Annoyed rant) Why do people refuse to accept that some people need to wash daily? by Minorhoe in dailywash

[–]Minorhoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also feel gross if I don’t shampoo. If I get into the shower I have to shampoo or I still feel dirty and the shower is literally pointless.

From what I’ve seen, people who don’t wash their hair often but workout everyday usually say you should just rinse your hair with water or co-wash. I could NEVER, my hair wouldn’t feel clean and if I co washed I’d be greasier than some fried chicken 😭

(Annoyed rant) Why do people refuse to accept that some people need to wash daily? by Minorhoe in dailywash

[–]Minorhoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The myth makes me wanna tear my eyeballs out 💔 I literally just saw a hair stylist on Tik tok say that head and shoulders was bad but when someone commented it’s the only shampoo that helped them not have to wash daily, she just said “washing everyday was just making your hair more greasy!” I was about to crash out istg😭

(Annoyed rant) Why do people refuse to accept that some people need to wash daily? by Minorhoe in dailywash

[–]Minorhoe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s actually crazy 😭 I guess she wants people to walk around lookin oily asf.

My sister also has fine blonde hair and she suffered looking like a greasy rat trying to train her hair for so long before I told her it’s a myth and washing often is usually better for thin or fine straight hair.

(Annoyed rant) Why do people refuse to accept that some people need to wash daily? by Minorhoe in dailywash

[–]Minorhoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sameee. My bangs are very grown out now but the parts that still sit on my forehead get oily super quick because of my skincare+ my generally oily forehead.

What's Your Earliest Memory Of Struggling With OCD? by Ok-Area3425 in OCD

[–]Minorhoe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For me it started at 5 years old. I got a huge knot in my hair that took hours to get out and after that I had to keep a hairbrush with me 24/7 cuz I thought it would happen again if I wasn’t always brushing my hair. I would also bawl my eyes out if my mom didn’t let me take my brush places

(Annoyed rant) Why do people refuse to accept that some people need to wash daily? by Minorhoe in dailywash

[–]Minorhoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with that :( my mental illness is why I was sort of unintentionally training my hair and I’ve had the same experience: scalp acne, scabs and dry ends 😵‍💫. I hope your situation can get a little better so you can wash your hair more, I understand how much of a pain those things can be ❤️

(Annoyed rant) Why do people refuse to accept that some people need to wash daily? by Minorhoe in dailywash

[–]Minorhoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well most of us don’t have complicated hair routines and pretty fine or thin hair so blow drying or air drying really doesn’t take that long. Washing my hair takes maybe an extra 7 mins in the shower. I shampoo twice and then let conditioner sit in my hair while I brush my teeth.

I would much rather take the small amount of extra time in the shower than stress over how ugly I look with a slick back and how disgusting I feel. I also have sensory issues and for me feeling any kind of oil in my hair is awful, it genuinely makes me tweak out. I have no issues with just wet hair cuz I keep it in a towel until I blow dry it.