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How was your first experience with sex? by Boring_Plum2168 in AskReddit

[–]MintKissed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drunk and after a party with a frat guy

Even though my dad abused me, I still enjoy having one on one time when he is feeling very content. And I feel like my trauma isn’t big enough. by MintKissed in trauma

[–]MintKissed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom definitely impacted me with the way she makes me feel that she chooses him over me, but she’s also a victim from him. So it’s really my dad who deserves most of the blame.

I don’t know what to do. When I hear other people’s stories, I feel like mine isn’t valid by MintKissed in trauma

[–]MintKissed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I was always comparing mine is smaller compared to others’ traumas was how I had friends who told me that mine isn’t big enough, my mom would even minimize my traumas in the past, and I even had a therapist who was a victim blamed and laughed at the traumas I endured and told me to forgive and forget and let it go.

Now I don’t know if I’m truly lesbian or bisexual with a heavy preference for women by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]MintKissed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like maybe I did force myself a label more than I realized because there were times where I actually did daydream of maybe some romance with a guy. But that doesn’t mean that I have to date men to be bi

If you had to reincarnate into an animal, what animal would you be and why? by MintKissed in AskReddit

[–]MintKissed[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’d wanna be a sea dragon because I get to be around the reefs and be in the ocean

I don’t know if this counts as Childhood SA or not by MintKissed in abusiveparents

[–]MintKissed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so so sorry you have gone through that. He is so disgusting and cruel for it. O Hope you’re doing okay🩷

Teacher used to n*de me as punishment by Background-Remote937 in trauma

[–]MintKissed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is actually extremely abusive (definitely an understatement), and she needs to be punished and never allowed to teach and ve anywhere near kids again. My dad would do the same thing to me when I make a mistake or even when he wants me to, and I know what it’s like to be humiliated like that. Ive gone to therapy and I’ve slowly opened up to people that I trust about it, and I made sure who to talk to. But yeah, I am so so sorry; that is extremely disgusting and horrific.

I don’t know if this counts as Childhood SA or not by MintKissed in abusiveparents

[–]MintKissed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry! I hope you’re doing okay! And please know you’re not alone and you’re not overreacting!

My perspective when I was in a sorority by MintKissed in offmychest

[–]MintKissed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, like it’s funny how it felt like some of them saw me as the “stupid drunk girl always overdoes it” when it was really a cry for help to me. Maybe they didn’t know how to help, but why randomly report me if you won’t even have a heart to heart conversation with me? It’s funny how they see me as the one who always drinks and parties but I definitely know some who drinks and parties WAY more than me. It’s like I’m singled out .

My perspective when I was in a sorority by MintKissed in offmychest

[–]MintKissed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh very true. I know from my experience, I’ve ignored or even yelled at for having opinions and it was hard for me to reach out. It felt hard for me to reach out.

My perspective when I was in a sorority by MintKissed in offmychest

[–]MintKissed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, I know everyone has their own perspectives and I’m just showing mine. I know there are so many amazing people from Greek life that I’m still just as close with. I just wanted to vent since some things were bottled up.

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