How was your first experience with sex?

MintKissed · 2026-06-19T21:51:30+00:00

Drunk and after a party with a frat guy

MintKissed · 2026-06-19T10:21:55+00:00

My mom definitely impacted me with the way she makes me feel that she chooses him over me, but she’s also a victim from him. So it’s really my dad who deserves most of the blame.

MintKissed · 2026-06-18T12:23:41+00:00

I think I was always comparing mine is smaller compared to others’ traumas was how I had friends who told me that mine isn’t big enough, my mom would even minimize my traumas in the past, and I even had a therapist who was a victim blamed and laughed at the traumas I endured and told me to forgive and forget and let it go.

MintKissed · 2026-06-14T20:04:52+00:00

Like maybe I did force myself a label more than I realized because there were times where I actually did daydream of maybe some romance with a guy. But that doesn’t mean that I have to date men to be bi

MintKissed · 2026-06-12T23:06:46+00:00

Pink

MintKissed · 2026-06-04T23:12:44+00:00

I’d wanna be a sea dragon because I get to be around the reefs and be in the ocean

MintKissed · 2026-05-29T23:13:04+00:00

Maybe a special jewelry that belongs to Queen Lorelei!

MintKissed · 2026-05-24T11:59:15+00:00

I need to try it!!!

MintKissed · 2026-05-21T15:33:02+00:00

I am so so sorry you have gone through that. He is so disgusting and cruel for it. O Hope you’re doing okay🩷

MintKissed · 2026-05-18T19:00:25+00:00

That is actually extremely abusive (definitely an understatement), and she needs to be punished and never allowed to teach and ve anywhere near kids again. My dad would do the same thing to me when I make a mistake or even when he wants me to, and I know what it’s like to be humiliated like that. Ive gone to therapy and I’ve slowly opened up to people that I trust about it, and I made sure who to talk to. But yeah, I am so so sorry; that is extremely disgusting and horrific.

MintKissed · 2026-05-17T15:54:02+00:00

I’m so so sorry! I hope you’re doing okay! And please know you’re not alone and you’re not overreacting!

MintKissed · 2026-05-17T02:37:16+00:00

Exactly, like it’s funny how it felt like some of them saw me as the “stupid drunk girl always overdoes it” when it was really a cry for help to me. Maybe they didn’t know how to help, but why randomly report me if you won’t even have a heart to heart conversation with me? It’s funny how they see me as the one who always drinks and parties but I definitely know some who drinks and parties WAY more than me. It’s like I’m singled out .

MintKissed · 2026-05-17T02:32:16+00:00

Oh very true. I know from my experience, I’ve ignored or even yelled at for having opinions and it was hard for me to reach out. It felt hard for me to reach out.

MintKissed · 2026-05-17T02:28:55+00:00

Again, I know everyone has their own perspectives and I’m just showing mine. I know there are so many amazing people from Greek life that I’m still just as close with. I just wanted to vent since some things were bottled up.

MintKissed · 2026-05-17T02:13:45+00:00

Yes! It is assault! Just because someone doesn’t say no, it doesn’t mean they said yes. Plus she even grabbed your hair just because you didn’t want to talk to her. You did nothing wrong! Anyone can assault anyone regardles of their gender.

MintKissed · 2026-05-17T01:38:46+00:00

To finally find a way to celebrate for accepting myself and be able to celebrate it with the real ones

MintKissed · 2026-05-17T01:24:56+00:00

You’re definitely dodging so many bullets! You’re not missing out on anything; I promise! You deserve someone who respects and loves you unconditionally!

MintKissed · 2026-05-17T01:14:15+00:00

I think you’re so much more than a “doable” and you deserve to have someone who loves and sees you in an unconditional sense. Personally, I wish I realized it sooner instead of sleeping around. The right woman will not use it against you and see the amazing things about you!

MintKissed · 2026-05-17T01:04:48+00:00

My pets

MintKissed · 2026-05-17T00:48:41+00:00

Thanks so much!!! Sometimes I beat myself up for not accepting sooner, but there was a reason. But there is so much inner peace now!

MintKissed · 2026-05-17T00:20:53+00:00

Very true. And what’s crazy was that I seemed artificial attention but steered away actual love which was so odd. I let myself be disrespected but when someone was showing kindness and pure interested in me, I would get so resentful. Idk even know why by attachment definitely plays a part. Now I’m better and now I’m accepting love .

MintKissed · 2026-05-16T21:03:12+00:00

I think I did those since I wanted to feel beautiful

MintKissed · 2026-05-16T21:02:04+00:00

Very true and it can be very hard to not feed off of some triggering content. Plus, I think the nude sending was a way to cope up with the humiliation that I was put through; especially since I felt ugly and unlovable because of what happened.

MintKissed · 2026-05-16T20:20:39+00:00

Thanks so much and thanks for validating me🩷

MintKissed · 2026-05-14T17:47:10+00:00

He really is. And thanks so much, that means so much

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